It is not impossible to be overwhelmed by love, but it is necessary to divide people and time periods, if it is from beginning to end, it is in the mud, it is easy to be hurt in love.
Especially in the case of unladylike encounters, your sincerity can only be fed to the dog in the end, so you can't easily be carried away by love, and most of the time, you must maintain enough sanity.
People who can't stay don't need to force, unsuitable people will eventually separate, can not be smart, but do not be sober.
Of course, love is not entirely the case, in the case of ensuring that the other party is also sincere, you need to take some measures to make the feelings between each other more intense.
It turns out that if you want a man to continue to love you, you have to remember this "secret".
Xiao Zhang is a well-known "wife management strict" among friends, usually everyone eats together, as long as the time passes nine o'clock, he will take the initiative to report to his girlfriend, spending more than 500, but also to report with his girlfriend.
Everyone often teased him about these things, but he didn't care at all, and what they didn't know was that many things were not asked by his girlfriend to ask Xiao Zhang, but Xiao Zhang himself was willing to do so.
You may be very strange, most men are very annoying women to manage themselves, but Xiao Zhang took the initiative to let others manage him, why is this?
In fact, in the initial stage of the two people's love, Xiao Zhang is also like other men, like a bird soaring in the sky, free, unrestrained, completely indifferent to his girlfriend's feelings.
However, the girlfriend did not have any dispute with him because of these things, almost every time will follow Xiao Zhang's wishes, he wants to go out to drink, let him go, he wants to play games all night, the girlfriend will not object, at that time he was the envy of his friends.
But gradually, Xiao Zhang found that something was wrong, because while he was free enough, his girlfriend was also very free, and even some freedom was too much.
He went out for a drink, and his girlfriend went to the movies and clubbing with his girlfriend, and often in her circle of friends, he could see photos of her playing outside.
Sometimes, there will be other opposite sexes in the photo, although the two have no intimate actions, but Xiao Zhang is still vaguely uneasy.
So he began to reduce his nocturnal activities and stopped his girlfriend when she was ready to go out to play, hoping that she would go out less in the future.
The girlfriend did not refuse, but said that if she did not go out, first of all, Xiao Zhang had to accompany her at home, not only allowed the state official to set fire to the people to light the lamp.
Since then, Xiao Zhang has rarely gone out again, even if he goes out, he will take his girlfriend with him, and as for such a thing as playing games all night, it has not appeared once.
After the two got along more and more, Xiao Zhang found that his girlfriend was far better than what he saw, it turned out that she cooked rice so delicious, and often innovated dishes, so that he gained 40 pounds in just a few years.
More importantly, the girlfriend is not only a good wife and mother at home, when she and her colleagues communicate on the phone, Xiao Zhang also found that she was so stupid, rational and mature, and could handle every problem well.
Gradually, Xiao Zhang found that he had simply picked up the treasure, and he had even thought about running outside all day, and now he didn't let him go, because he had to keep a firm eye on his girlfriend, so that she would not be remembered by others.
After the feelings became deeper and deeper, Xiao Zhang began to gradually rely on his girlfriend, and he usually respected her very much, and he would consult her about anything, which also made the relationship between the two more and more stable.
In fact, in the treatment of men, sometimes women can change their thinking and not treat them as peers with themselves, but a child who has not grown up.
Men often mature much later than women, so many times, their hearts are restless, always longing for the outside world.
If at this time, the woman forcibly intervenes, it will only cause them to resent, it is better to do the opposite, to give them the freedom they want.
But you can't completely let it go, you have to learn to attract their attention in the right way, to perceive that this behavior is wrong, and the best way is to treat others in the way they are.
Because most of the men who love you will have a sense of crisis, especially when you frequently go in and out of various public places alone, it is inevitable that you will worry about being remembered by other men, and then you will give them some "imaginary enemies" appropriately, and men will soon be unable to sit still.
Once they come to you to negotiate, it means that the purpose has been achieved, and then they can let the bird return to the cage smoothly.
In the days to come, as the time spent together increases, everyone will have enough opportunities to show their excellent side.
The reason why many women can't tie up their love is because they don't even have the opportunity to show themselves, so everyone must learn to create opportunities.
When you love someone, love as much as you want, and let him know that you love him so much, don't always worry, in the end, whether you can exchange your heart for your heart, as long as you are not ashamed of the moment.
Even if you really can't keep each other in the end, you have no regrets.