On the last 1 day of the old lunar year, in addition to the old and the new, will the future really be better?
In fact, there are many, many things happening every year and every day, and we consciously or unconsciously put together a lot of irrelevant things and think that they are related – unfortunately, not every platter is both delicious and beautiful.
At the end of the previous year, it was to summarize, review and look forward to everyone, however, as the Spring Festival's annual flavor became weaker and weaker, looking back at the whole year, it seems that nothing will become more precious when looking back - except when the year-end award is in hand.
In the commercial era, traditional festivals and made-up festivals give everyone a reason to party, because there are too many festivals, everyone's expectations for the Spring Festival may not be as high as before - of course, this is only a partial, some people may only go home once a year, which is extremely precious.
However, after all, the New Year is the most solemn festival in Chinese traditional thinking, and no one should ignore the power of tradition. Although this very traditional thing is more and more a long holiday, it gives a reasonable excuse for everything from going home, visiting the door, giving gifts, paying bribes, etc.
I remember watching the Spring Festival Gala when I was a child, and the sketches about Zhao Lirong and Zhao Benshan were the biggest expectations of the Spring Festival Gala. It is not even an exaggeration to say that the entire Spring Festival Gala is to watch the old artists display their talents. Later, Zhao Lirong died, Zhao Benshan gradually did not leave the mountain, and each local station had its own Spring Festival Gala, and the former background sound of the Spring Festival Gala became more and more absent.
In the years when firecrackers have not been banned, it is absolutely impossible to sleep in the early morning of the first day of the New Year, because most people will buy fireworks and firecrackers, and then compete to compare whose fireworks look better, from 12 o'clock to 1 o'clock, the window is crackling, so it is not lively.
At that time, the family still had the tradition of going home for the New Year, when air conditioning was not a must-have era for the family, a large family of nearly 50 people gathered together felt warmer than the Chinese New Year's Eve meals in the dining room now, even Chinese New Year's Eve meals had to be wheel war, it can be said that "you eat me on the stage", and then what is there to kowtow to the ancestors to ask for red envelopes, anyway, how lively how to come.
This memory should be 20 years old, although it was small at that time, but the beautiful memories are still remembered forever.
However, as the older generation gradually left, the collapse of the family came naturally. The rich and powerful may still move around each other, and the rest will fade away from each other.
It is also ironic to say that the annual gathering of people is not the Spring Festival, but Qingming. However, since ancient times, Chinese has had a tradition of special respect for the dead and disregard for the living, which can also be regarded as the inheritance of the old tradition.
Nowadays, however, festivals, whether for the living or the dead, can flourish – in fact, Mexico's Day of the Dead is a joyous day.
To be fair, the Qingming season is still a very strange time period, because it is the season when most of the Chinese people's firecrackers are fired in unison and the wailing is full of mourning, and I can't understand that people are clamoring to protect the environment and everyone has the responsibility to expel the smog, while smiling strangely, lighting the huge denominations of various currencies filled with chemically soaked gold paper handicrafts or simulated inferior denominations that cannot be circulated, and then watching them disappear into nothing, and then holding their heads high in the deafening crackle.
It is said that ancestor worship is a rigorous thing, at least it should be dressed properly and express solemnly, but today's old, middle and young three generations want to introduce the trend vane into the wave of convergence with another world, when the spring is bright, the men's dress is more and more rude and indulgent, the smoke butt is slippery and the stars are dotted, a pair of pointing out the courage of the old jiangshan ge and my colleagues, the women's clothing is also more to the spring light or the spring light looming as the first priority, each competing for glory, only teaching the living people to look away, the underground people are inevitably apes.
In this way, the group sacrifice activity becomes status and savings. Cups, faces and many others can compete in the invisible contest, there are physical squads that talk about the geometry of the industry, there are virtual squads that discuss how to diversify investment in deposits, there are true sisters who share how to ensure that their boyfriends and husbands turn in their salaries to ensure that they do not go out to mess around, and there are more shows of love and love that forget all passionate tongue kisses and pinches each other's small asses, and the modern city servant style is more and more fresh and unworldly under the background of the friendship of the stone cabinets containing urns in the mountains. People are dazzled and flustered, and once felt that there was a description of the soldiers and horses.
Of course, this is not the most surprising, what is even more jaw-dropping is that I am more aware of the essence of the master's words in the folk, you want to see a second ago with a heartfelt happy smile and others showing off how free and exquisite their life is now, the next second and a minute later, suddenly like a magic in front of the tombstone tears snot a scratch on the chest and how to how to scream "you go so early can call posterity how good" and other rotten dramas often hear mentally retarded lines,
Wait until you are trying to carry out the sad feelings that seem to be pulled out, and then the next second it seems that the soul returns, and in an instant the tears are completely gone, and the power of youth reappears, which is a smile called satisfaction, or more precisely, it is called "the smile of the child... ”
Such a free release, such a natural formation, such a scene blending, such a everything, let me feel that I was upside down at the scene, such superb acting skills do not compete for what Oscar, golden bear, golden lion, golden horse, etc. is simply wasted talent!
I cannot comprehend what these people think and do, what they do and what they don't do, as if they think that showing a handful or a few clumsy acting skills in front of the stone slab where their loved ones were carved will cover up or erase the irreparable pain of their contempt, indifference, denigration and ridicule of the living over the years.
What an absurd plot, a group of extras working together to create a human farce, and then, contentedly, triumphantly, year after year, again and again, and so on, until the self-destruction stops. Perhaps, it is not easy for people, after all, people come once a year, once for a year!
People don't practice filial piety when they are alive, and when people die, they seem to be enlightened, and I really suspect that the brain circuits of these people have been modified by aliens.
Looking at the screen and the keyboard, I sometimes seem lost, a lot of text will automatically come out of the fingertips, but you know that you have to delete line by line, which is really a very boring thing.
Today's holidays are more like seeking a balance and quiet in a state of chaos. Suddenly there was not much wind outside, blowing up the blue curtains, leisurely like waves, rolling the waves of memory, shattering the trance even more.
I am quite envious of some people, they seem to be born with the care of heaven, every small matter has the guidance of small nobles, every big thing has a big noble person to get along, although there are occasional small troubles, but it is never hurtful, always able to kill Ji intact, and get better and better.
This year, too much chicken soup makes us only know how to work hard, but forget to care about the direction and trend. Knowing the reality that "once the achievements are completed, Liu Xiang did not read books", there is no idea that "if you work harder in some aspects, the future situation will be better".
I sometimes look at the mirror in a daze, not narcissistically, but sighing at the magic of the mirror.
Through the mirror, we see a world that is diametrically opposed to reality. It is so real — because it is a reflection of existence ; yet it is so hypocritical — because we can only see, never touch that world.
The mirror of contradictions is sometimes like a contradictory life.
The mirror is really just glass plated with a layer of metal, such as silver.
It was a very smooth glass that we could see through the window, but when we coated one side of it with a thick layer of silver, we could only see ourselves.
Silver blocks our view, it sometimes makes people indifferent to nobility or morality, it makes many peoples in humanity ignore the existence of other things. Although we will always say that "people can't always live for money", without money, is that "simple and innocent" really life?
Against your will, all the efforts now seem to be prepared for some day in the future, and although you don't know when it will come, you know that it will come.
Just like when I write these things now, and all the other words, I just don't want to think about a few years later, when I look back on this old time, and find that what I have failed is immortal youth and eternal dreams.
In fact, I know that the above text does not really clarify the context, all the words are a bit empty to read, completely because I want to express too much but can not be cleared one by one, just like the torrential rain sometimes becomes an arrogant accompaniment, which is completely in the form of instantaneous tangled self-thoughts, so you may wish to appreciate it with grace and customs.