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I'm 29 years old and I had a blind date last night with a wonderful man who made $500,000 a year, and we drank Starbucks together because he asked me a privacy question, and then I made an excuse to go

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I'm 29 years old, and last night I went on a blind date with a strange man who made $500,000 a year, and we drank Starbucks together because he asked me a privacy question, and then I made an excuse to go to the bathroom, and then I sneaked away.

My name is Wang Jiajia, 29 years old, 1 meter 68 tall, born beautiful, in a company to do sales, the annual salary of about 150,000.

I have been in love twice, the first love was my college classmate, he was handsome and handsome, tall and tall, very humorous, can say that the Tao is my favorite type, classmates said that we are a natural pair, they are very envious of me.

In the year of graduation, because he was determined to return to his hometown to develop, he said to me: His parents only gave birth to one son and did not want to be too far away from his parents, so he wanted to go back to his hometown to start a business, and asked me if I wanted to go with him? I said: Let's discuss it with my parents first, after all, it was not easy for my parents to raise me, and he smiled at me at that time.

So I told my parents about my boyfriend, and my parents didn't agree after hearing it, because my boyfriend was from a province, and my parents were worried that I would not be used to eating in the field, afraid that I would suffer with him in the future, so my parents opposed us to being together, and then we broke up.

Since breaking up with my boyfriend, I have been in pain and can't help myself, my girlfriend often comforts me, and in the two years of work, there are many boys who pursue me, but I am not moved.

Later, by chance, I met a client who looked a bit like an ex-boyfriend, he was optimistic and generous, we were happy together, and slowly he attracted me.

Once he said he was going to take me to Sanya to play, and then I agreed, and since then we have lived together, and it didn't take long to find out that I was pregnant, when I told him about the pregnancy, I didn't expect him to be very unhappy, and when I said to my face that I didn't want to get married, I was very angry when I heard him say this, and finally I chose to break up with him.

After the breakup, I couldn't get out of the pain for a while and a half, and I just lived like this for more than two years.

One day my parents said to me: Daughter, you are 29 years old this year, if you don't look for a partner, it will be more and more difficult to find in the future, after listening to my parents' words, I also agreed to go on a blind date, I know that my parents are anxious for me, so I started a blind date.

I went on several blind dates, but none of them met my eyes.

Some time ago, my aunt introduced me to an object, my aunt said that the man is very capable, the salary is also very high, the annual income is about 500,000, and there is a house and a car, he is five years older than me, I heard my aunt say so, I was also a little moved, so I agreed to try it, so we met about in the evening.

Last night, I came to the place where I made an appointment, I didn't expect him to arrive early, after we greeted each other, he said he was going to take me to drink Starbucks, I felt that he was a very attentive and reliable man, we found a place to sit down, he asked me what I liked to drink, I said casually! He helped me to order well, we drank and talked, we both had a common language, very talkative, to be honest, I had a good eye for him.

When we had a good conversation, I didn't expect him to suddenly ask a very private question, he said: I can accept that you have been in love before, but I want to know if you have ever had a fetus, I am a little unhappy to hear him ask this, how does he ask this? It's really amazing!

But I said to him: I went to the bathroom, he smiled, I stayed in the bathroom for five minutes, I thought about it and didn't know what to do, whether to tell the truth or not, would he care about my past?

Just when I couldn't hold my mind, my girlfriend called me, and I told my girlfriend about this, and my girlfriend was surprised when she heard it, and she said to me: This man cares too much about the past, even if you say that he may not accept it.

Hearing my girlfriend say this, I think it is also true that he asked this question at the first meeting, which was really unpleasant, so I decided to sneak away and blocked his phone.

People say I'm doing this, right?

@Touching Emotion Reply: This friend, thank you for your trust, I think it is too strange for the man to ask these questions on the first meeting of the blind date.

Besides, even if you tell him the real situation, he will also be disgusted, of course, it is best to be honest with both parties in love, but it is not the first time to meet and ask, it is best to communicate with the woman a few times, the woman will naturally confess, indicating that the man is too anxious, the practice is very inappropriate.

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