Many parents will find that when the child reaches the age of 2, it feels like a changed person, no longer as obedient as before, often hanging "I don't" and "I want", one second is still a hippie smile, the next second is throwing and rolling, unreasonable, it is really maddening.
My child is currently at this stage. Take the elevator to press the floor by himself, he can't reach me to help him press, he began to cry, saying that I am a bad mother; when eating, the rice residue was scattered everywhere, I said feed him to eat, I had to eat it myself, I threw the spoon when I was unhappy; to play in the park, I said that it was dangerous in front, my mother held hands, I had to break my hand, I didn't take two steps to wrestle and cry...
Before hearing others say "terrible two-year-old", do not understand, I have experienced it to understand, 2-year-old children are really not easy to bring, a day to bring down, really exhausting.
Why do 2-year-olds have such a big shift? Let's discuss it with you today.
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2-year-old children, who can speak, walk, and run, begin to have their own careful thoughts, and they have the desire to break away from their parents and want to "break into the world" by themselves. So there was the first period of rebellion, this stage of children always like to say "no" to all the demands of their parents, often willful, crying, difficult to appease. There is a word in English to describe this stage, called the terrible twos, "terrible two years old."
However, from the perspective of developmental psychology, the "terrible two years old" is not terrible, on the contrary, it is precisely the first step in the child's growth.
Curiosity is common to two-year-olds
Looking after a 2-year-old child, there is really no good leg and foot to keep up with the child. If you don't pay attention, the child will not know what to attract to.
The world in the eyes of 2-year-olds is new and interesting, and everything they have not seen wants to taste, touch and try.
They'll fish the little goldfish out of the bathtub, they'll rip off the doll's eyes, they'll uproot the potted plants in the house, they'll use mommy's lipstick as a paintbrush, in short, they'll try something they're interested in and curious about. Because they want to use these actions to explore the world.
The awakening of self-awareness makes them "grumpy" children
Everything likes to do by themselves, and the opposite of their parents is the characteristic of two-year-old children.
They are growing up rapidly, with the emergence of self-awareness, their emotions, personality, actions, language, thinking, etc. have obvious development, children always have the impulse to make their own choices, but because their ability is still very limited, and often hindered by adults, so two-year-old children will use willfulness, talk, tantrums, to resist.
Two-year-olds become more clingy
I believe that many mothers have experienced that two-year-old children are like a fart worm, they can't leave their mothers at any time, as long as their mothers are around, they are happy all day, but as long as their mothers leave for a while, they will cry and look for their mothers until their mothers appear. So many mothers have to leave secretly when they go to work.
Two-year-olds are clingy mainly because of their lack of sense of safety. At the age of two, it is the time when the child becomes dependent, and the child will have separation anxiety about the people who often take care of him and are close to him.
Generally, children are taken care of by their mothers before they are two years old, so children are very clingy to their mothers. Afraid of her mother leaving, I cried when I didn't see my mother.
These are the normal psychological development processes of two-year-olds, so don't worry if your child has any of the above problems.
Every slight change in a child is growth.
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Don't think that the child is only two years old, still young, just relax the parenting and guidance of the child.
Two years old can be said to be the starting point of children's mental growth, which is very important for children. Parents must seize this critical period.
Only when parents first understand the characteristics and physical and mental development of two-year-old children can they be targeted and use the correct parenting methods to help their children grow better.
Because my child is also in the "terrible two-year-old" stage, this time has been reading and learning, I hope that through learning, I can learn more about the characteristics of children of this age, in order to better guide children.
I recommend the set of "Key Parenting for 1-3 Year Old Babies" that I am watching to everyone. This set of books really got me a lot out of it. After reading it, it suddenly dawned that there was a reason behind every behavior of the child, and it turned out that the child did not deliberately work against the mother, and it turned out that I could have a better way to deal with some of the child's daily behaviors.
This is a set of educational instructions for introducing the psychology of young children according to the age system, which is very practical. There are 21 major plates, more than 100 directions, and more than 300 parenting methods. Specifically for the growth law of 0-3-year-old babies, not only the analysis of scientific parenting is carried out, but more importantly, according to the actual child's parenting process, the majority of parents are concerned about the problems, practical answers have been carried out, and there are practical methods.
The author of the book is Hou Weiwei, who is a doctor of child development and educational psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and has a deep understanding of common problems in modern early childhood psychology and family education. He has unique insights and perspectives on the development and teaching of children aged 0 to 12 years. This set of books is carefully written, rigorous and scientific.
After reading this set of books and seeing some of the children's behavior, I know in my heart how to deal with and guide the children.
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