Parenting is always the top priority of parents, do foreign parents and children have the same troubles as Chinese parents and children? Are they as well-behaved as other people's children, and are their parents particularly liked by their children?
"Little Naughty Nicholas" is a novel by the French writer René. Gossini's works, in the tone of a little naughty Nikolai wrote the story of his life, learning and growth, living with his parents bit by bit, telling Nicholas's beautiful childhood. The story is short and interesting, there is no pressure to read, and it is written in the tone of a child, from the child's point of view, it is very suitable for young children who can read independently.
First, children's thinking is always very interesting
The summer before school started, nikolai's family went on vacation by the sea. He was tanned by the sun and was very handsome. Just to go home and show my friends how dark I was. However, when he went home, he found that his friends were not at home, so when the school started, he would definitely not be dark. So he was in a terrible mood. Dad felt incomprehensible!
Indeed, children should be white and tender, chubby to be cute. How can anyone like it. But Nikolai still wanted to turn black, and he felt that if others didn't see him black, he would be in vain.
So, in order to be able to continue to darken, he decided to go to the garden to bask in the sun, so that he could become Tarzan the Ape. Even if it rains, he won't come back, because he's going to be tanned. He basked in the sun for a while, then ran to the bathroom and looked in the mirror to see if he was really getting dark.
Nikolai is cute, thinking is not very interesting. In fact, children's thinking is originally very simple, once they have identified a thing, they will insist on doing it.
A few days ago, when a kindergarten child on the Internet video with the teacher, the teacher praised him: You have become fat!
The little boy was very unhappy after listening to it, and quickly ran to the back of the living room to exercise desperately, he wanted to lose weight, did not want to be thought of by others as fat, insisted on bouncing and jumping for a while, sad and difficult to follow to the bathroom to cry. It looks very cute, just as funny as Nikolai's.
Second, it is more important for a family to live in harmony than to have anything
Nikolai lived decades ago, when television sets were scarce, and it was a great pleasure to have one.
Nikolai's family finally wanted to buy a TV set, and when the delivery man came, he didn't know where it was better to put it, and his mother chose several places, but his father did not agree. Dad chose a place, and Mom didn't agree. Mom and Dad were unhappy.
Dad wants to watch a football game, Mom wants to watch a cooking show, Nikolai wants to watch a cowboy movie, the three of them have a conflict, and the house is full of gunpowder. The relationship between the family has not been so bad, and then everyone unanimously decided that the TV set should be withdrawn, and the family love each other is the most important, much more important than any TV set or other things.
The Nikolai family knows that family affection is the most important thing for a family, so they would rather give up some foreign things than cherish the happy life of the family together.
It is much better to give a child a warm home and let him grow up in an environment full of love than to give him more material conditions, and Nikolai's parents understand this deeply and are worth learning well.
The love of parents is like a sweet spring, nourishing the seedlings that grow up. Parents provide a warm atmosphere for their children to grow up, just like a strong castle created for their children, so that children do not have to get wet.
We should also learn from Nikolai's mom and dad and make some renunciation for the sake of our children.
Third, children are also very industrious, and they also want adults to share their troubles
Nikolai's classmate Kedou is about to move, all the classmates have come to help, everyone thinks that there will definitely be many things to do when moving, and children can also do their part.
But the adults didn't think so, they thought that children would not do things, only help, so he asked all the children to play in KeDou's room, don't come out and make trouble. As soon as they went downstairs, Kedou's mother widened her eyes and blamed Kedou, and her father blamed Kedou and didn't give them a chance at all, and the children's intentions were all in vain.
Finally he drove all the children home. When everyone offered to help tomorrow again, Ke Dou's father simply asked everyone to go to the movie together and did not come over.
Although the child is small, a little naughty, but everyone's heart is still good, or want to do their best, help the adults to do what they can, but now most of the parents always do not receive money, but also blame them vigorously, so adults are always such a contradiction, on the one hand, blame the child for not working, lazy, on the other hand, do not give the child a chance, but also hit the enthusiasm of the child's work, what a contradictory adult.
In the process of raising children, I have learned the lessons of these parents, and I have the opportunity to let my children perform, even if things are not done well, or even worse, but the children have tried, they will no longer have curiosity, and they have been exercised, their hands-on ability has also improved, and they can also promote intellectual development, which is a good thing.
Many of Nikolai's stories are particularly interesting, and children can watch them and adults can cause thinking. Fan'er mother reads every book for your child, tells you the essence of the book, and lets you read it to your child with confidence.