Remember the little dragon girl in "The Eight Precepts of the Brilliant Spring Pig"?
She is played by Xiao TaoHong. At that time, Xu Zheng was just a small actor with no name.
In the period of career rise, Xiao Tao Hong decided to fall in love with Xu Zheng.
This hand in hand has been together for almost 20 years.
How many 20 years of life do you have?
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Tao Hong's career peak was around the age of 30, and in her own words, she won awards in those years. In addition to winning the major awards for best actress, she also won the award for best producer. From the front of the stage to the backstage, only Tao Hong knows how much he has paid.
At the age of 37, Tao Hong chose to give up her career to enter the family, and this year she also became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter. Because Tao Hong before the age of 37 was too desperate, she put too much essence, qi and blood on the work, resulting in her rapid aging after giving birth to her daughter, and her body aged rapidly, with presbyopia, gray hair and long spots.
Why are others still beautiful after giving birth? Tao Hong realized that she had not been good enough for herself over the years, because during pregnancy, the fetus would absorb nutrients from the mother. When the mother's nutrients are insufficient, coupled with the absorption of part of the child, then the mother's body is naturally worse and worse.
Tao Hong began to maintain her health and learned to make trade-offs. That's part of the reason she chose to go into the family as a full-time worker. If you ask her if she regrets it? Tao Hong's answer was no. Whether it's work or full-time, it's your own choice. Life is your own, whether it's giving up work for your children, it's a choice, there's no so-called right or wrong.
Choosing to be a stay-at-home mom does not mean that the sense of value has become lower. This is also the place where Tao Hong's three views are positive and transparent. She didn't regret her decision at all.
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Tao Hong entered the family at the peak of her career, and this walk was 11 years. The entertainment industry is an era of rapid change, not to mention 11 years, even if it is 1 year without appearing in front of the camera, it has been quickly replaced and forgotten. Once being treated coldly by the stars and the moon, Tao Hong gradually realized that she had been angry.
People who were once overly enthusiastic about her are now turning a blind eye to her. The most important thing is not one person, but a group of people. Huang Bo also had such feelings. For such a gap, Tao Hong did not care too much in his heart.
What she wants most is to live an ordinary and ordinary life and not be overly concerned. Just like Jinsha said that only paste coffee can live a free life, which means that stars who are not popular have freedom.
For such a cold and warm feeling, Tao Hong looked very lightly. She doesn't care what other people think or say.
In 2020, Tao Hong defeated the ratings queen Sun Li with the TV series cooperated with Huang Lei and Haiqing, and she won the award again.
Fame and fortune, for Tao Hong, is no longer the most important.
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Tao Hong and Xu Zheng's daughter is 11 years old, what are the expectations for her daughter's future? Tao Hong did not preset too much, no matter what kind of person her daughter became, she would be happy. This is the pattern and thinking of a rich and independent mother. Just like Yang Mi also revealed that even if her daughter XiaoNuomi wants to become a magician in the future, she will support it unconditionally.
The 11-year-old daughter has made it public that she did not deliberately dress up, wearing a very casual dress, a pair of black tight pants with a red T-shirt, not at all like the second generation of the star. She has a long hair, although it is only a back photo, it can be seen that she looks tall and tall, and she is almost as tall as her mother Xiao Taohong. Especially a large long leg, thin and long. With the beauty of her mother Tao Hong and the high emotional intelligence of her father Xu Zheng, this girl will certainly not be bad in the future.
The 11-year-old daughter has begun to mind the evaluation of her own appearance by her classmates, and when she is called ugly at school, how do you guess how her mother Tao Hong will enlighten her daughter?
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The average mother will have 2 different reactions when she hears others commenting on her daughter's ugliness? The first is to encourage the daughter, and the second is to discourage the daughter. Tao Hong's view of education is very positive, she is between two kinds of mothers. Tao Hong first had a chat with her daughter, and she declared: You are not ugly, but you are not beautiful.
Tao Hong did not deliberately exaggerate and praise his daughter, but sought truth from facts. She also added: Although you are not beautiful, your appearance is unique and cannot be copied.
Such a mother really has great wisdom and gives her daughter a lot of confidence. It's not like there are some moms who are always hitting their daughters.
The mother is the role model and the object of imitation of the daughter. With such a transparent mother, how can the daughter be bad?
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Tao Hong and Xu Zheng have gone through 20 years hand in hand, and the feelings between them are no longer as hot as those of young people in their twenties, and going to the vegetable market hand in hand to buy vegetables is the most real portrayal of their lives. Simplicity is also the state of life that their husband and wife pursue. When they are not filming, they also live the life that ordinary couples should have, and they do not regard themselves as big stars.
In addition to real life, they also have their own little mood. Every time Tao Hong went to Shanghai, Xu Zheng would go to a different restaurant to take her to eat. Every time Xiao Tao Hong will dress up deliberately, have a short date with her husband, and enjoy the beauty of the world of two.
By the age of 48, Tao Hong's mentality has been different from that of young people. When young people are in love, they hold each other tightly, and by the age of 48, her gains and losses are not so heavy. Now Tao Hong will stand in the other side's position and think about what the other party needs?
That's maturity. Young people desperately let each other follow their own footsteps, and need each other to cooperate with themselves. Mature women will know how to understand men's ideas at the right time, rather than always willfully think of themselves as little princesses.
48-year-old Tao Hong's understanding of love: companionship is the confession of the longest love.
As long as Xu Zheng needed it, she would always be there.
This is the most beautiful confession.
Ten thousand words I love you, can't beat me all the time.
This is also the secret of their husband and wife's love after 20 years of marriage.
Xu Zheng is now more famous than her, but Tao Hong believes that she does not lose to her husband Xu Zheng, and she has also experienced the stage of Xu Zheng's great popularity. She did not have any inferiority at all, but was very indifferent to fame and fortune.
By the time she was nearly 50 years old, her biggest regret was not being able to say a word to her parents: I love you.
In the young age desperately pursued abundance, after his parents left one after another, Tao Hong suddenly realized: it turns out that life is much more difficult than rich.