It is said that when a woman is confined,
It's their second life,
The confinement is done well, it is good for the body, and it will not fall ill,
If the confinement is not done well, there will be various sequelae in the future,
Both physically and mentally.
So when his wife was confinement,
Generally speaking, the husband is also waiting for the wife to have a confinement.
After all, this is a major event in the wife's life.
And this woman, while confinement,
Suddenly told to divorce,
You can imagine how much this news hurt this woman.
She is Xi Meijuan,
A 39-year-old advanced mother who risked childbearing was abandoned by her husband.
1.
Xi Meijuan was born in 1955 in a rural suburban county in Shanghai.
Born from the heart, now you can see that Xi Meijuan is a quiet character,
When she was a child, she never chased and fought with other children.
Xi Meijuan has loved to read books since she was a child.
Since the parents are just ordinary workers, there are brothers and sisters in the family,
Therefore, the family conditions are very general, and they can barely survive.
That's it, Xi Meijuan's parents see that their children love to read books so much, still see the right books, or will save money to buy back to her,
My father traveled all over the village, borrowing books from relatives, friends, and neighbors.
However, the conditions are similar in every household, and there are basically no books in the house.
Dad still tried his best to help her find books to read.
Perhaps immersed in the fragrance of books since childhood, Xi Meijuan's personality is also gentle and elegant, not impatient.
In addition to Xi Meijuan's love of reading, she also loves to watch movies.
Sometimes movies are played in the brigade,
She always asked her father to take her early.
As long as she sits on a stool, Xi Meijuan is completely obsessed with the movie.
At that time, Xi Meijuan thought, those people in film and television dramas are really beautiful,
How nice it would be if one day I could stand there myself,
A little girl who loves to dream is thinking wildly.
At that time, there were not many ways out for the children when they grew up, basically unemployed, cut in line, enlisted in the army,
Xi Meijuan chose to cut in when she was 18 years old.
After Xi Meijuan joined the team, like other female intellectuals, she worked every day, and her life did not change much.
However, just over a month after such a day,
One afternoon, the leaders of the village called an emergency meeting of the young people of the whole village.
After everyone arrived, the leader took out a piece of paper.
Word by word, they read the enrollment brochure issued to them by the Shanghai Theater Academy,
Xi Meijuan, who was sitting in the audience, listened to her heart beat faster and faster,
It is obvious that Xi Meijuan does not want to stay in the countryside for the rest of her life.
She wanted to go outside and see the bigger world.
When the admissions brochure was finished, I heard the people on the stage say loudly,
If anyone wants to go,
Just come to my office and sign up.
After the meeting, Xi Meijuan ran to the office and said that she wanted to go.
It didn't take long for Xi Meijuan to walk into the Shanghai Theater Academy.
It also changed the trajectory of her life.
2.
Xi Meijuan came to the Shanghai Theater Academy with an excited mood,
However, after arriving at school, Xi Meijuan felt very lost.
Because the play is the cradle of the star,
The quality of the students is also high, and the conditions are good,
Xi Meijuan was not ugly when she was young, but compared with her classmates, she was like a hen that fell into a phoenix pile.
Appear to be so mediocre.
And when the students relied on their innate advantages, they did not have any acting experience,
Some were picked up by the crew, and all played large and small roles.
Only Xi Meijuan came in with her own blood,
After a brief period of frustration, Xi Meijuan quickly adjusted her mentality.
Put all your energy into learning and honing your acting skills.
Xi Meijuan thought of making up for the lack of appearance through her own efforts.
In the four years of college, Xi Meijuan studied steadily,
Didn't go out to pick up a play, didn't talk about a vigorous love,
Every day is the classroom and dormitory.
By the time she graduated, Xi Meijuan was already the first in her class.
After graduation, Xi Meijuan was assigned to work in the Shanghai Renyi Repertory Theatre.
After participating in the work, Xi Meijuan did not slacken off,
Every day is a hard rehearsal, in order to be able to gain a foothold in the drama troupe as soon as possible.
And Xi Meijuan, who has been working in the drama troupe for 5 years, met her own evil fate,
He is Zhou Ye Mang.
When Xi Meijuan had been working in the drama troupe for 5 years, Zhou Yemang had just been assigned.
Zhou Yemang also graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy, and Xi Meijuan was also one year older than Zhou Yemang.
After becoming a colleague, Xi Meijuan is Zhou Yemang's sister and sister, and she is naturally closer than others.
And the two often rehearse together,
Over time, the two developed a fondness for each other,
And at that time, the age of the two was not small,
After the two people's engagement with the object was known to the family,
Both parents are eager to meet,
To settle this family affair,
The two spent more than a year together, and at the urging of their parents, they received a marriage license.
After getting married, the newlywed Yan'er and the two lived very happily,
As the saying goes, the family is prosperous.
This sentence is not false at all,
Both belong to actors with thick and thin hairstyles,
Zhou Yemang went smoothly from drama to film and television circles,
And Xi Meijuan is even more incredible,
Now the drama industry has won the Plum Blossom Award,
The gold content of this award is particularly high, and it is an affirmation of an actor's drama stage performance.
After Xi Meijuan reached the top of the drama industry, a director invited her to shoot a movie.
After entering the film and television circle, she won the best actress,
Xi Meijuan's efforts over the years have finally paid off.
Xi Meijuan and Zhou Yemang have both gained a firm foothold in both the drama industry and the film and television circle.
And there is also a trend of getting better and better.
But at the same time, due to the busy work, the two went out to shoot the run of the south sea and the north of the sea,
After not seeing each other for a long time, slowly the relationship also went wrong.
3.
Although the two do not meet often, when Xi Meijuan was 30 years old,
Xi Meijuan found out that she was pregnant,
At that time, it was very late to have a child at the age of 30.
Xi Meijuan and Zhou Yemang were very happy,
The two appropriately reduced their workload, so that the time together slowly increased.
Xi Meijuan was 30 years old at that time,
Therefore, I take care of myself very carefully, afraid that in case there is a mistake, the consequences are unacceptable to myself.
And her husband took care of her whenever he had time,
But after all calculations, the last thing I want to encounter has happened,
Xi Meijuan unfortunately miscarried,
Xi Meijuan, who was ready to become a mother, collapsed at this time.
Xi Meijuan, who was immersed in grief, could not extricate herself for a while,
Temper also became strange,
As a husband, Zhou Yemang is naturally very uncomfortable,
On the one hand, the child is gone, on the other hand, the wife is depressed every day,
It was like a dark cloud hanging over the home.
It took a long time for Xi Meijuan to come out of the shadow of losing her son.
But during this period, what Xi Meijuan did not discover was the relationship with her husband Zhou Yemang.
It's a little different from before.
In the following years,
Both of their careers have ushered in great development,
The drama of the two is about to be lined up,
I don't see each other a few times a year.
In the case of gathering less and leaving more, in fact, the marriage between the two has long existed in name only.
And that's when the marriage was faltering,
Xi Meijuan found out that she was pregnant again,
At this time, Xi Meijuan was 39 years old,
Xi Meijuan was so happy that she quickly called Zhou Yemang and told him that she was pregnant again.
And Zhou Yemang did not have half a bit of excitement on the phone,
It's almost like the performance of the first pregnancy,
Zhou Ye mang just said meaningfully, you must take good care of your body this pregnancy.
Don't go wrong again.
At this time, Xi Meijuan was so excited that she could no longer hear Zhou Yemang's tone.
Just happily agreed.
This time Xi Meijuan was more careful to protect the tire,
And under the guidance of a doctor,
Fetal protection is very successful, and every pregnancy test Xi Meijuan is also very positive,
Xi Meijuan felt the child growing up little by little in her own belly,
Don't mention how happy you are in your heart,
Xi Meijuan has devoted herself to the child at this time,
I didn't notice anything out of my husband's mind.
The child arrives as promised, and just a few days after the birth of the child,
One day Zhou Ye Mang came to their mother and son with a tired look,
Looked at the child, looked at Xi Meijuan,
And then say,
Mei Juan, let's still separate, we have had enough of each other before we got married,
If you continue to dwell on it like this, it will not be good for you or me.
Zhou Yemang, who had finished speaking, had already prepared Xi Meijuan's "wild storm",
You must know that at this time, Xi Meijuan is still in the month, and the child is only a few days old.
In the face of your own children, how can you open your mouth?
In the end, this matter is all Zhou Yemang's fault,
Zhou Yemang also knew that he was not a human being in doing this.
He had already made up his mind, even if Xi Meijuan scolded him too badly, he would listen,
Even if he slaps him twice, he admits it,
He was going to get a divorce.
But unexpectedly, Xi Meijuan neither cried nor made trouble,
Not even a single tear fell,
The air was frozen.
Xi Meijuan did not speak for a long time, and Zhou Yemang sat on the sofa and did not move.
There was only the crying of children in the whole room.
After a while, Xi Meijuan said expressionlessly,
I agreed to divorce, but this child is going to be my last name and will have nothing to do with you in the future.
Zhou Ye mang nodded silently, and he also agreed.
The "storm" that Zhou Yemang expected did not come,
It can only be said that although the two have known each other for a year and have been married for eleven years, in these 12 years, Zhou Yemang did not understand what kind of person Xi Meijuan was.
After Zhou Yemang got the answer, he turned and left.
After the sound of the closing of the door in the house,
Xi Meijuan hugged her son who was a few days old and cried, crying heart-rending.
She said to her son,
Son, in the future, we will rely on each other for our lives, and my mother alone can take good care of you.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
At this time, Xi Meijuan was no longer the gentle and elegant woman, but an indestructible mother.
Because Xi Meijuan was still confinement at that time, she couldn't go out.
Only verbally agreed to Zhou Yemang's divorce.
As soon as Xi Meijuan was born, Xi Meijuan contacted Zhou Yemang to go through divorce procedures.
It can be seen how much Xi Meijuan wants to follow the ruthless and unjust man and quickly draw a line.
After completing the formalities, Xi Meijuan knew very well what kind of road she would face in the future.
After Xi Meijuan returned home, she decided to give his son a single name with a "male" character.
She hopes that when her son grows up in the future, he can be like a real man.
Take responsibility for your loved ones and your own home.
4.
In the days of caring for children alone,
Xi Meijuan pushed away all her work,
At that time, Xi Meijuan had developed very well in the film and television circle.
Piece after piece about one after another,
is in the golden period of career development,
But she disappeared for 4 years for the sake of her children.
In the entertainment industry, there are countless people who want to get ahead here every day.
Sail against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat.
Xi Meijuan missed the good time when she became a big name.
In the past 4 years, Xi Meijuan has taken care of her children every day.
Although I have made some money before filming,
However, the money earned by actors in that era is incomparable with that of current actors.
4 years of time without an input, slowly Xi Meijuan sat and ate the mountain empty,
Fortunately, with the help of relatives and friends, I was able to survive.
Finally, when the child is 4 years old and should go to kindergarten, Xi Meijuan can go out to work.
At first, Xi Meijuan only filmed locally, because she had just separated from her children.
I was a little uneasy in my heart,
Although you can't pick up and drop off your children every day, you can see your children every day.
Xi Meijuan felt that this was the greatest comfort for herself.
Over time, the children have also adapted to the life of kindergarten,
Only then did he officially start filming his comeback.
At this time, Xi Meijuan's tenacious personality made her famous in the entertainment industry again.
Now the mentality of filming is different from that of the previous filming,
In the past, filming was because of hobbies,
And now filming is more because of work, and there is a son in the family who needs her to raise.
Xi Meijuan asked the child to her parents,
And I'm shooting all day long,
Since the child was 4 years old, Xi Meijuan has filmed a number of film and television dramas.
Among them, tv dramas include "Wang Gui and Anna" of the fire, and the movie also has "Hawthorn Tree Love" and other masterpieces.
It is worth mentioning that Xi Meijuan has played Empress Dowager Cixi many times, because from the portrait of Empress Dowager Cixi,
Xi Meijuan is still somewhat similar to her,
Coupled with Xi Meijuan's acting skills online,
All, in film and television dramas involving the role of Empress Dowager Cixi, directors will always think of Xi Meijuan first.
When Xi Meijuan's career ushered in the second spring,
Every day is a busy mess,
But no matter how busy you are, no matter how much you socialize,
She would call her child every night.
Listen to your child talk about what happened in kindergarten today,
What to eat at noon, whether there are small things such as being bullied by children,
And Xi Meijuan always listens to the child talking non-stop.
Don't look at Xi Meijuan is not around the child, she knows everything about the child.
And on my son's birthday,
No matter where Xi Meijuan is filming, she will rush back to celebrate her son's birthday.
And never absent, every time I came back, I brought a big bag of toys and new clothes to my son.
Therefore, when my son is about to celebrate his birthday every year, he is extremely excited.
I thought I could see my mother and a lot of toys,
The little one is especially looking forward to it.
Whenever Xi Meijuan finishes a play, there is a gap,
Xi Meijuan never goes to socialize,
She didn't go out until the next play came to her.
During this time, it is to accompany the son,
Accompany him to write homework, play games, travel,
She had to make up for the lack of companionship at work.
To be fair, if Xi Meijuan walks around with the director and producer,
It should be more famous than it is now.
But Xi Meijuan didn't care, she only cared about her son.
After Xi Meijuan became popular again, there was no shortage of suitors around her.
Among them, there are actors and bosses, but Xi Meijuan is not moved.
Even her family often advised her,
The child is not small, you should also take a step forward,
What do you do when you get old like this?
Who can take care of you?
Xi Meijuan always went back with a word,
It's enough that I have my son!
Slowly the children also grew up,
It is said that children who grew up in divorced families,
Growing up with an unsound personality,
But Xi Meijuan's children did not do this,
Because Xi Meijuan gave the child enough patience and security.
The child was also very angry and was admitted to a good university.
Due to the superior academic performance, I won the place of studying abroad,
He wanted to go out and study abroad, to go out and see what the outside world was like.
But the child hesitated, he was not thinking about the cost,
After all, my mother has been filming for so many years, and her family has been very solid.
He felt that his mother had paid so much for himself,
Now that I have grown up, it is time to give back to my mother,
At this time, I went abroad, afraid that my mother would not accept it.
After all, for so many years, the two women have relied on each other for their lives, and have never been separated.
All of a sudden, his mother was left alone, and he was afraid that his mother would be sad.
So he talked to my mother.
He thought to himself, if his mother has concerns,
I didn't study abroad myself.
Who knows, the two women just sat down, the child just said about studying abroad,
Xi Meijuan was overjoyed,
She said to the child,
Go, must go, young people just have to go out and wrestle more, more experience, so that they can become manly,
Mom is fully supportive of you.
The child has the support of his mother, and it is naturally very happy to let go of the worries in his heart.
Now the child is developing well and is said to have a virtuous girlfriend.
Seeing that the child has grown up and life is very happy, which makes Xi Meijuan feel very comforted in her heart.
It is worth mentioning that when the 2020 TV series "An Jia" was broadcast,
Xi Meijuan and her ex-husband Zhou Ye mang cooperated again,
After so many years, I think Xi Meijuan also let go of the past and forgive her ex-husband.
epilogue:
How many women can't live out their lives because of divorce,
A woman like Xi Meijuan is worth learning.
In your most difficult time, you can put aside all fame and fortune to take care of your children,
After the child is stable, he goes out to work hard to earn money,
And there is no lack of companionship for children because of their careers.
At the time of divorce, Xi Meijuan also silently accepted, leaving enough dignity for both parties.
Divorce under such extreme conditions, presumably will be a lifelong enemy,
However, Xi Meijuan did not, Xi Meijuan put down the past,
Generously forgive the person who once hurt himself so much,
She has begun to embrace a new life.
Xi Meijuan's "miserable" life has been wonderful to live by her own efforts.
I hope that Xi Meijuan can get better and better and be happy forever.