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Life is short, and the years are like shuttles. As a result, some women choose to escape from life, while others face life bravely. If no one can take away your happiness, your self-confidence, your heart

author:Wisdom Whale q8

Life is short, and the years are like shuttles. As a result, some women choose to escape from life, while others face life bravely. If no one can take away your happiness, your self-confidence, your inner peace, then you are already too powerful to conquer.

Everyone's life will encounter many unhappy, weak women who can't see the bright future when they encounter difficulties, complain about the injustice of heaven and earth, and even break the jar and fall down mentally. In fact, a woman who really understands life will not see her life as purgatory, no matter when, they are optimistic about life and make themselves colorful in this noisy and tedious world.

Life is short, and the years are like shuttles. As a result, some women choose to escape from life while others face life bravely. Life is actually a paper tiger, if you become strong, it will have to run away. In the face of all kinds of joys and sorrows in life, there is a direct attitude to face, life will give such a woman a sweet smile.

As modern women, in the face of today's increasingly complex and chaotic society, while carrying huge psychological pressure, we often encounter various difficulties and setbacks, such as unemployment and layoffs, family changes, marriage failures, academic failures, economic difficulties and many other problems. When all of this comes suddenly and cannot be solved, it all depends on whether we are strong inside or not.

Yes, everyone's life will encounter a lot of unhappiness, weak women in the face of difficulties, can not see the light of the future, complain about the injustice of heaven and earth, and even break the jar, in the spirit of the fall; and the stoic woman in the face of difficulties, can calmly deal with it, think that living is a kind of happiness, whether it is good times or adversity, are the same calm and quiet, actively looking for the joy of life, do not waste a minute and second of life, yearn for the light in the darkness, never fall in the spirit.

Jenny is the general manager of a cosmetics company, her mood is never too bad, happiness is the main theme of her life. When asked how she was doing, she always replied, "I'm so happy." "If any employee is in a bad mood, she will tell the other party to be optimistic about life and look at the positive side of things."

She said: "Every morning, as soon as I wake up, I say to myself, Jenny, you have two choices today, you can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood, I choose to be in a good mood. Every time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn something from it, and I choose the latter. Life is a choice, a choice of how to face various situations. At the end of the day, you choose how you want to face life. ”

One day, she was in front of the garage door when she was stopped by three gangsters with guns. Although the gangsters stole everything of value from her, they did not let her go and shot at her cruelly.

Luckily, things were discovered earlier and Jenny was taken to the emergency room. After 6 hours of emergency rescue and a month of meticulous treatment, Jenny was discharged from the hospital, except for a few scars on her body, her body recovered well, and there were no other sequelae.

3 months later, a friend of hers met her. When a friend asked her how she was doing, she said, "I'm very happy. Do you want to see my scars? The friend looked at the scar and asked her what she was thinking. Jenny said: "When I was lying on the ground, I said to myself that there were two choices: one was to die and the other was to live. I chose to live. The paramedics were fine, and they told me I would be fine. But after they pushed me into the emergency room, I was still awake and read 'She's a dead man' in their eyes. I knew I needed to take some action. ”

What action did you take? The friend asked.

Jenny said: "A nurse asked me out loud if I was allergic to anything. I immediately replied 'yes'. At this time, all the doctors and nurses stopped and waited for me to continue. I took two deep breaths and then cried out in excruciating pain: 'Bullet! In the midst of laughter, I said, 'Please treat me as a living man, not a dead man.' Jenny survived.

Life is full of choices, and the attitude of life is the most important choice. Please stretch your tight frowns, don't fall into the unsatisfactory side of life, and let yourself be upset and depressed. Feel free to ask yourself, "What's the big deal?" "That way you'll find that certain of the choices you have in conflict with your set life goals, you can completely swipe them off your worksheet." In this noisy and tedious world, optimistic treatment of life can make a woman's world more colorful.

In fact, a woman who really knows how to live will not see her life as purgatory, they know how to enjoy the pain and joy that life brings. They know that although life is not satisfactory, life itself is a journey, and only when they know how to enjoy the unforgettable heart when they are in pain and the freedom and ease when they are happy, that is the original color of life.

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