"Big Girl"
Author: Yang Lan
The author believes that the "big girl" represents independence and growth. Independence means that women should be bold in being themselves; growing up means that women can constantly explore and achieve themselves.
The first layer of the big girl means that she is not a little girl, not an immature state.
Second, the world of the little woman is very small, and the world of the big girl is very large, and both the radius of walking and thinking are expanding.
The third is insight, people used to think that women's vision is narrow, big girls have a big vision and a big pattern, in this era there are more possibilities in life.
As long as a woman has an independent personality and spiritual world, she is a big girl.
📝 Excerpts:
1⃣ Mr. Hu Shi once said: "To see the degree of civilization of a society, we only need to examine three things: how they treat children, how they treat women, and how they use their leisure time." ”
2⃣ "People should not be still lifes inserted in vases for people to see, but the rhythm of dancing with the wind spreading on the grassland, life is not an arrangement, but a pursuit, the meaning of life may never have a flogging case, but also to feel this life without a case",
3⃣ The effort to change oneself and to change the world happens simultaneously, one inside and one outside the body. There is a kind of courage called allowing oneself to be seen.
4⃣ Well-known blogger Rachel Hollis said: You must give up the idea of pleasing others everywhere! ...... You can pursue what you want, and it's the freest and most powerful feeling in the world. Your dreams belong to you, and you don't need to find any reason to get someone else's approval.
✨ Hopefully more women will read such a book. As a "big girl" who can control her own destiny. #读书 #
