After Li Youbin and his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi divorced, they fell in love with shi Lanya, a second-married woman. He treated his stepson well, used his father's love to be silent, conquered the approval of his stepson, and completed his second marriage. Today, he is still concerned about the life and health of his ex-wife, and he is more concerned about the marriage of his own son. But why was he reluctant to remarry his original wife, and why did his own son not want to marry decisively under the matchmaking of his father, but he was repeatedly defeated?
01 Couples gather less and leave more, and their status is not equal.
Li Youbin and the original Zhang Ruiqi are both powerful actors in the show business circle. In order to make his family's life better, Li Youbin asked Zhang Ruiqi to give up her career and take care of her family and son. But he did. With his own efforts and hard work, he set a new record in the film industry, completed the original intention in his heart, and gave the mother and son a full life.
But behind the success of the career is always a price to pay. He is obsessed with his career, but he forgets the care of his family. The long-term gathering is less and more, so that the love between husband and wife is somewhat strange.
Not only did the couple not have much physical and verbal communication, but Li Youbin's status in the outside world was getting higher and higher, making his ex-wife feel like a stepping stone under his feet, looking so weak.
In such an unequal state, the ex-wife decisively chose divorce. And her husband, Li Youbin, out of the humanitarian spirit, chose to go out of the house and make his heart as comfortable as possible.
02 Li Youbin is more willing to be an "outsider" who cares about the original match, so as to make the original match more acceptable and good to each other.
After Li Youbin and the original partner divorced, he remarried the second married woman Shi Lanya. In the eyes of outsiders, he was very well-intentioned about his second wife's children, so that in the end, his son changed his mouth and admitted the title of Li's father. But for himself, in the life of his second marriage, he also gradually understood the fundamental reason why he abandoned his original partner and his own son in the first place.
He may be repenting of his mistakes. In running his own second relationship, he is also silently concerned about his original partner and the affairs of his wife's family.
Although he did not care about the original match in person, through the transfer of his son, he handed over his own boo han to ask for warmth.
He understands in his heart that he is no longer the husband who suffered together in the past, and can only do behind-the-scenes work, so that the original partner can better accept his insignificant care and care, and let the original partner accept this dignity and be good to each other.
03 The biological son no longer believes in love and does not want to become the second shadow of his father.
Li Youbin's son, when he was 21 years old, learned that his parents were not in harmony and chose to leave. Such a decision caused him a great psychological shadow.
Although the father is most relieved of his son's emotional problems and finds a blind date for him, the son always loses repeatedly and cannot give him a satisfactory answer.
The child understands in his heart that love is unreliable. Because of the divorce of his parents, he had the idea of marriage, afraid that he would become the second shadow of his father and have a serious impact on his future family. His inner custom of his married life must be a mess, perhaps single is the best choice and relief.
Sum up:
The divorce of the original family will definitely cause serious psychological trauma to the child, although it takes time to repair itself, but the knots in the heart are permanently continued. Parents who wish to start a family can be cautious about their marital attitudes, and when making any major decisions, they must take into account the position of their children, because the children are innocent.