We live in a society where the system, environment, etiquette, and customs of society all play a role and constrain you. Roland, a famous writer in Taiwan, has already told: "It is almost difficult for us to find a person

We live in a society where the system, environment, etiquette, and customs of society all play a role and constrain you. Roland, a famous writer in Taiwan, has already told him: "It is almost difficult for us to find a person who can only do what he likes to do all day long and live the life he wants." "We all want to be free and do whatever we want, but the world is never changed by our will, and everyone is passively doing something they don't want to do. Because we not only have the present but also the future, not only have our own environment, not only pursue self-realization, but also pursue fraternity, safety and image. Although you are not happy to turn your back on yourself, it is necessary to give a part of your wishes in exchange for dignity, peace, good environment, and so on.

With the improvement of social civilization, the vertical communication between people has become increasingly indifferent, but the horizontal connection has become increasingly strong. In socializing, women must not only make themselves happy, but also make the people around them happy because of their existence. If in communication you are not prepared to tolerate, compromise and accommodate, you can only be in an embattled position. Even if you have three heads and six arms, you will be too tired to move forward. Therefore, although accommodation and compromise have that "have to" mentality, it is still a "lubricant" for people. If the world has a scenery because of your grievances and obedience, then this scenery will not be less than your share. Of course, if you are in a state of no self in everything, dominated by others everywhere, and standardize yourself into a bowl of bonsai, as long as others are satisfied and others like it, you can twist it into whatever you want, then you will not be able to get up.

For the sake of the group and the future, most of us have dedicated and endured; in order to avoid greater losses, we have all been compromised; in order to enhance cooperation, we have temporarily abandoned ourselves as the center; in order to win the hearts and minds of the people, we have even played the "two-faced" experience, and we have had the experience of "thinking like this but doing that". In fact, in order to be harmonious and smooth, what is the harm in occasionally going against your heart?