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Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang
Liu Hegang is a well-known young singer of the Beijing Air Politics Song and Dance Troupe, the winner of the Gold Medal of the National Young Singers Television Grand Prix, and is known as the "Prince of Qingge". Liu Hegang's wife, Zhan Yang, is a well-known "Miss World" at home and abroad, and they have entered the marriage after 103 days of acquaintance. After marriage, Liu and Gang took their parents to live together.
A couple, parents on both sides, four elderly people, a family of six, under the same roof. How do they let happiness and harmony knock on the door of the house, so that the life of a family of six can be better?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > the promise of the "Prince of Qingge": I would like to marry your family of three</h1>
On October 9, 2009, Liu Hegang was invited to Beijing No. 11 Middle School, which is across the wall from the unit, to give a week-long music lecture to teachers and students, and a music teacher named Zhan Yang of the school attracted his attention. At 1.76 meters tall, she stands tall, her delicate melon face is picturesque, and her big eyes are full of brilliance. As the Miss World of the 59th International Beauty Pageant, Zhan Yang is elegant and noble, calm and graceful, as if falling into the mortal fairy. At this time, Liu Hegang was 32 years old, and because he was busy with his career over the years, the emotional world was still a blank piece of paper, and the appearance of Zhan Yang was like a powder keg that detonated his feelings.
Liu hegang
Liu Hegang is a handsome boy who pays attention to appearance, and has dreamed since he was a child that he can grow to 1.80 meters, but his height is only 1.73 meters, which has become a regret that he cannot make up. Therefore, Liu Hegang is particularly picky about the other half of the future: the other party must be more than 1.75 meters tall, and must have double eyelids and large eyes. Only in this way can their offspring inherit the excellent genes of their parents and have no flaws in appearance and inner temperament. Because of the love at first sight against Zhan Yang, Liu Hegang frequently set up with her.
On October 13, 10 minutes before the end of class, Liu Hegang took the initiative to invite Zhan Yang to sing "I Love the Snow of Your Saibei" with himself, and the two stood side by side on the podium, Liu Hegang, who was handsome and handsome in a military uniform, and Zhan Yang in a pale yellow dress was elegant and luxurious, singing to the emotional place, and the two stared at each other. A teacher recorded this unforgettable moment with a digital camera. Back in the teaching and research room, the teacher turned out the photos for Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang to browse, and said in a loud voice: "You are really a pair of langcai and female appearance, made in heaven and earth." Liu Hegang was sweet in his heart, and looked at Zhan Yang affectionately, Zhan Yang lowered his eyelids, and two red halos flew up his cheeks...
For Liu Hegang, Zhan Yang is no stranger, he has appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala stage for 4 consecutive times, singing songs such as "Children Walk a Thousand Miles", "Father", "Beautiful Loulan Girl" and so on, which have become classics and are affectionately called "family love singers" by fans. Not only that, he also won the Gold Award for National Young Singers Television Competition in the Professional Group of Folk Singing, and set a record for the highest score in the history of the Youth Song Competition: 100.13 points.
Battle
Moreover, Zhan Yang's life trajectory intersects with Liu Hegang in many places: they have all sung folk songs since they were young, and they are all proud disciples of Meng Ling, a famous music professor at the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and they have participated in the Youth Song Competition many times. Liu Hegang has a good feeling for herself, and Zhan Yang knows it, but she not only does not respond positively, but avoids everywhere. Zhan Yang did not hate Liu Hegang, but at this time she was only 22 years old and did not have enough confidence to grasp her emotional future. As the image spokesperson of Miss World and the super five-star Beijing Comfort International Hotel, Zhan Yang's amazement and nobility have attracted many successful men, some of whom are "rich second generation" with prominent families, and some are real estate developers who are in the limelight, in the face of many excellent opposite sexes, Zhan Yang does not know how to choose.
On October 16, Liu Hegang returned to the unit after a music lecture, and before leaving school, he invited Zhan Yang to the birch tree outside the school, stared into Zhan Yang's eyes and asked: "What do you think is the most rare thing in the world?" Zhan Yang was speechless for a while, and he thought about it for half a day and did not come up with the result. Liu Hegang had a serious face: "Fate! The acquaintance of you and me is the fate arranged by Heaven. Zhan Yang, since the first time I saw you, I felt that you were the person I was waiting for in this life. Is it okay to be my girlfriend? ”
Zhan Yang looked at Liu Hegang in a panic and whispered, "Your request is too sudden, can I settle down in my heart?" Zhan Yang's attitude gave Liu Hegang unlimited imagination space. From the Air Politics Repertory Theatre to Beijing 11 Middle School, only 5 minutes away, Liu Hegang came to 11 Middle School almost every day to meet Zhan Yang. On November 3, Zhan Yang's mother, Anya Qin, came to Beijing from her hometown of Tianjin to visit her daughter, and when she saw her daughter, who had always been cheerful and lively, she was very worried and asked in surprise: "What is wrong with you, child?" ”
Liu and Gang with their parents
Zhan Yang grew up as a caring little cotton jacket for her parents, and she talked about her emotional confusion with annoyance. Anya Qin also likes to sing folk songs, and has some liking and admiration for Liu Hegang. On the Internet, Liu Hegang's fan base is as many as more than 100,000 people, and most of them are middle-aged and elderly, and Anya Qin has also posted messages in the group many times, so she knows liu hegang's situation very well.
After a moment of silence, Anya Qin said to her daughter seriously: "Liu Hegang is a child who grew up in the countryside, thick and simple, and now he is a soldier and has a decent style, and her mother thinks that he is more suitable for you." Your lifelong event is still your decision, Mom's opinion is for reference only. "Zhan Yang thought about it...
Three days later, Liu He had just returned from the Xisha Islands condolence performance with his troops and hurried to find Zhan Yang. 3 days of not seeing, for Liu Hegang it seems like 3 centuries is so long. At this time, Anya Qin had returned to Tianjin, and Zhan Yang vaguely revealed his mother's attitude towards Liu Hegang. Liu Hegang's heart suddenly moved, the love battle should be quickly decided, otherwise the night is long and dreamy, and the direct attack cannot be achieved, and the "curve saves the country" through Zhan Yang's mother!
Unable to meet Liu Hegang's request, on November 13, Zhan Yang took him back to Tianjin to meet his parents. Zhan Yang's mother, Anya Qin, was an accountant at the Tianjin Shipyard, and his father was an ordinary cadre of the Hongqiao District Construction Committee. Although it was the first time they met, the zhan family's parents had long been familiar with Liu hegang on TV, so the two sides were not informal. At noon, Zhan Yang's father chatted with Liu Hegang in the living room with the purpose of secretly inspecting him, and Zhan Yang's mother cooked in the kitchen. Zhan Yang's parents are more than 1.75 meters tall, seeing that Zhan Yang's mother has to bow her head every time she opens the cabinet door, afraid that the door will touch her head, Liu Hegang looked at it.
After lunch, he called for a cone change and raised the cabinet by 5 centimeters. The war mother on the side sighed and praised: "Why do you still do this work?" Liu Hegang grinned: "Auntie, I grew up in the countryside, I can do any job, I will also make wardrobes and leather sandals." The parents of the Zhan family had long admired Liu Hegang's handsomeness and talent, and they did not expect that he was so careful and capable, and the two were completely conquered by Liu Hegang. Anya Qin turned to do her daughter's work: "Child, my parents are people who come here, and they see people more accurately than you." Liu Hegang is indeed a rare good guy, and he will not be wronged with him. His mother's words were like a cloud of clouds, and Zhan Yang was completely relieved...
After determining the relationship, Zhan Yang put forward a hard request to Liu Hegang: "My parents only have a daughter like me, who has suffered a lot for me from childhood to adulthood, and if we get married, I will take my parents to live together." Liu Hegang is a rare filial piety, and as early as 2004, he sent his father Liu Zixi and mother Yi Yanqin to Beijing to perform filial piety. As a child, he could feel Zhan Yang's mood, patted his chest and said, "No problem, your parents are my parents, we will take them over after marriage." We worked together to buy a big house, two parents, four elderly people, a family of six, how good it would be to live together happily! ”
Liu Hegang's promise made Zhan Yang feel a lot of emotions, she has seen some couples around her, when the girl proposed to live with her parents after marriage, the man either directly objected, or found a reason to prevaricate, and some even broke up with it. A man who does not even honor his own parents-in-law and mother-in-law, how can he talk about his love for his wife? Thinking like this, Zhan Yang felt more and more that Liu Hegang was the other half he wanted to hold hands in this life...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="58" > filial piety is difficult to find four elders stationed, playing the symphony of pots and pans "filial piety"</h1>
The calendar flipped to 2010. At this time, Liu Hegang was 33 years old and had become an uncompromising elderly youth. Liu Zixi and his wife have repeatedly urged their son to complete the marriage as soon as possible, in fact, this is also Liu Hegang's wish. He had seen many couples who loved to death and lived, because the love time was too long, the freshness and passion of each other were exhausted, and in the end, only fatigue and numbness filled the heart, and parting ways became the only ending.
On January 3, Liu Hegang held the rose and knocked on the door of Zhan Yang's dormitory. He raised the rose above his head and proposed to Zhan Yang on one knee: "I am not young, since we are in love, you will marry me." Zhan Yang, who was not mentally prepared, looked shocked: "I am only 22 years old, and we have known each other for less than 3 months, is it too hasty?" ”
Liu Hegang's words are chiseled: "Some people have only one side of the relationship and are destined for life, and some people can't get along for a lifetime." Love is about feelings, not the length of time. Then, Liu Hegang listed the various benefits of marriage: marriage can increase the accumulation of wealth, curb impulse consumption, and improve the quality of life. When they get married, they have free nannies, cooks, hourly workers, drivers, and even security guards... In short, marriage is a thing that benefits both spouses.
Marriage is a girl's ultimate destination, what girl in love does not yearn for a sweet and happy marriage? Zhan Yang felt that Liu Hegang's words were quite reasonable, and she suddenly had the idea of getting married in her heart, but she did not know what her parents' attitude was. In the afternoon of the same day, Zhan Yang relayed Liu Hegang's words to his parents on the phone. Anya Hui empathizes with Liu Hegang's words and supports her daughter's marriage.
On January 22, liu hegang and Zhan Yang met for only 103 days, and then went through the marriage registration procedures at the Haidian District Civil Affairs Bureau and became a "flash marriage" family. Because it was the end of the year and the beginning of the year, Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang were busy performing, the two did not hold a wedding, and the parents of the two sides only ate a reunion dinner together, and the two individuals were thus integrated into a whole.
On January 26, Liu Hegang accompanied Zhan Yang to Tianjin, and the purpose of his trip was to fulfill his pre-marriage promise and prepare to take his father-in-law and mother-in-law to Beijing to live together. At this time, Anya Hui and her husband went through the internal withdrawal procedures in advance because of the poor efficiency of the unit. When Liu Hegang explained his intentions, his father-in-law politely declined: "Thank you and Zhan Yang for your kindness, we have lived in Tianjin for most of our lives and do not want to go to Beijing." Besides, Beijing to Tianjin is only an hour's drive away, so it's very convenient to come and go, and you can often go home to see us. Anya Hui's reason is more realistic: "He Gang, your parents live with you, I and your father mixed in, the 4 elders mixed together easily caused contradictions." ”
Liu Hegang emotionally told his father-in-law and mother-in-law: "Mom and Dad, Zhan Yang and I often sing "Often Go Home to See", and we know that family affection needs to be maintained. Although Beijing is not far from Tianjin, the characteristics of the profession determine that we can't see you once or twice a year, you will fight a child, and it is a pain for everyone to separate family affection. Besides, my parents are very simple old people, and you are reasonable, and there will certainly be no contradictions in living together. But Anya Hui and his wife always insisted on their own opinions and refused to leave Tianjin.
Before going to Tianjin this time, Liu Hegang deliberately told his parents about his intentions. Mr. and Mrs. Liu Zixi agreed very much. Seeing that her son and daughter-in-law had returned with a lost face, Yi Yanqin carefully asked, "Why didn't you take over your own mother?" Knowing the concerns of Zhan Yang's parents, Yi Yanqin immediately dialed Anya Hui's phone: "Mother, he and Gang and Zhan Yang are very busy in peacetime, if you come to Beijing, we can share the housework for the children together." Besides, now the neighbors are not in contact with each other, and our two old sisters can nag and go shopping together, and they are not lonely with each other. If you don't come, I and his father will go to Tianjin to pick you up. ”
Yi Yanqin's heartfelt words infected Anya Hui, and she also began to look forward to a harmonious life for a family of 6 together. If you and your husband refuse again, it will be a little impersonal. On February 1, Liu Hegang went to Tianjin again and took his father-in-law and mother-in-law into the house. Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang's wedding room is a 200-square-meter duplex building, where the young couple cleans up the two master bedrooms with the best lighting and ventilation conditions as the bedrooms of both parents. Because Anya Hui and her husband are five or six years younger than their own mother, the two took the initiative to ask to live upstairs, which could save Liu hegang's parents from the hard work of climbing the stairs every day.
Before that, Yi Yanqin and zhan yang's parents had only met once, and now they suddenly lived under the same roof, and they couldn't help but be a little restrained with each other. They are careful in their speech and deeds, even if they pour a cup of tea, they must ask each other's opinions, lest they cause the other party to be unhappy. This made Zhan Yang's heart a little heavy. After all, Liu Hegang is 10 years older than his wife, and his mind and way of handling problems are far more mature and sophisticated than his wife, and he seriously told Zhan Yang: "It is excusable that the parents of both sides are born together, as children, we must be their bond and tie the hearts of the 4 old people together." Zhan Yang nodded frequently.
In this way, Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang respectively told each other's parents about their parents' preferences and living habits; and took the initiative to create opportunities for the 4 elderly people to get along alone and let them communicate freely. After all, their children are each other's relatives, after all, they are all kind and simple old people, Yi Yanqin and his wife and their relatives and mothers are soon familiar with each other like a family.
The 4 old men understood that they lived with their children and did not come to be blessed. Seeing that Liu hegang and Zhan Yang were busy at work, they took the initiative to take care of all the housework. Every day at breakfast, Liu Zixi and his relatives carried baskets to the farmers' market to buy, And Yi Yanqin and her mother wiped the glass and floor at home, washed clothes and sheets, and cleaned up the home neatly and warmly. In the evening, Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang came home from work, greeted not only by the smiling faces of their parents, but also by fragrant meals. What a harmonious symphony of pots and pans!
After dinner, Liu Zixi and his relatives bathed in the sunset and sat on the balcony to play chess; Yi Yanqin and her mother held hands and walked in the community; Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang nestled on the sofa while drinking tea and watching DVDs. The harmony and warmth of a family of 6 envies others. And the filial piety of Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang is even more popular in the show business circle...
However, after all, the parents on both sides are individuals with very different life experiences and habits, living under one roof for a long time, and various unexpected contradictions and frictions are gradually highlighted. Yi Yanqin and her husband have lived in the northeast countryside for most of their lives, life is very frugal, every time it is her turn to cook, they have to mix the leftovers of the last meal into the dish, so that the fried dishes are not only sometimes ugly in color.
Mr. and Mrs. Anya Hui are cadres who have lived in big cities for decades, and they pay great attention to the quality of life, and Yi Yanqin's approach makes them quite critical, but they are embarrassed to say it directly, and they frown every time they eat.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="61" > happiness to knock on the door, a family of six love under one roof</h1>
On May 3, Yi Yanqin and her mother squatted in the living room to wipe the cold mat, and the two chatted about the luxurious wedding of a sports star a few months ago. Yi Yanqin felt from the conversation of her mother that Anya Hui still very much hoped that Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang could hold a decent wedding, and saw that the two children were very busy, so it was not easy to open her mouth.
Liu and Gang Zhanyang were married
That night, Yi Yanqin said to her son: "He Gang, your father and I think you should have a wedding with Zhan Yang, so that you have an explanation for your father-in-law and mother-in-law." This is also Liu Hegang's idea, after consulting with Zhan Yang, the young couple set the wedding on May 15. This morning, Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang held a grand wedding at the New Century Hotel, a star hotel in Beijing, with Zhang Zequn, a famous host of CCTV, as the wedding host, and more than 60 friends in the circle, including Han Hong, Yan Su, and Jiang Dawei, to congratulate them.
Zhang Zequn asked 3 questions to "make things difficult" Liu Hegang: "Who is in charge of the economic power of your family after marriage?" Liu Hegang replied with a smile: "One hundred percent belong to Zhan Yang's management." "What about the small vault?" "I have already changed my bank account to Zhan Yang's name, and I have to apply to her for money." "What if my wife goes shopping with my girlfriend on the weekend, and I want someone to accompany me?" "I'm carrying my bag in the back."
At the wedding scene, Liu Hegang improvised the song "A Lifetime with Each Other", and he sang with Zhan Yang arm in arm: "A lifetime of love two hearts in this life without regret / Sauvignon Blanc dreams with each other like intoxication / It is difficult to see each other and it is difficult to butterfly love double fly / A lifetime to follow, a lifetime to follow / Love is crazy, life and death are with / a lifetime is with each other, a lifetime is with ..." After a song was sung, Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang were in tears. The parents of both sides saw that their children were happy and intoxicated, and they could not help but feel excited, and the contradictions between them were temporarily alleviated. ......
Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang
Since then, although Yi Yanqin has had little communication with her mother. Their emotions affected the mood of Liu Zixi and his family, and the two fathers were also sullen all day. The discord between the parents of the two sides deeply touched the hearts of Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang, who were upset, sleep disorders, and work and study were affected. The state of life of her son and daughter-in-law shook Yi Yanqin's soul, and she fell into deep contemplation...
On the evening of October 4, Yi Yanqin came to her mother's bedroom and sincerely reviewed her own mistakes: "During this time, my attitude is a little bad, you must not care, a family of six is a whole, friction between family members will affect everyone's heart." The contradiction between the two of us not only affected the feelings of the old wives on both sides, but also disrupted the lives of the younger generations. We come to children's side to make them live happily, and things have developed to this point, which is completely contrary to our original intention! ”
A heart-pounding and lung-pumping remark said that Anya Hui was tearful: "Old sister, during this time, I saw that the children were sleeping and eating, I felt very uncomfortable, there were some places where I did not do well before, you must forgive me." Since then, we have gotten along well and have quarreled again. The hands of the mother-in-law involuntarily clasped together...
Calmly, the parents of the two sides made a division of labor: Liu Zixi and his family were responsible for buying vegetables, repairing light bulbs and faucets; Yi Yanqin and her mother were in charge of cooking, laundry and cleaning. However, parents and in-laws are not nannies at home after all, and as children, they must know how to give back. Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang got fitness cards for their fathers, driving them to the health club every Wednesday to swim and play bowling; they also got beauty cards for the two mothers. On weekends, Yi Yanqin and her mother went to the beauty salon to do skin care. In this way, the mother of the family has a good complexion, elastic skin, and looks younger and younger.
In order to promote the harmony of the extended family, Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang often use holidays to take 4 elderly people out to travel, so that they can open their hearts and see the world. In the face of the elderly on both sides, Liu Hegang was more filial to his father-in-law and mother-in-law than to his own parents, he did not say a heavy word to his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and most of the wine in the wine cabinet at home was the brand that his father-in-law loved to drink.
Zhan Yang also followed Liu Hegang's approach and was even more affectionate to his in-laws. In December 2010, the in-laws returned to their hometown to visit relatives and friends, and Zhan Yang not only accompanied them, but also bought gifts in advance and let the in-laws distribute them to relatives and friends one by one. Relatives, friends and neighbors took Yi Yanqin's hand and praised the battle: "The Liu family has such a good daughter-in-law, which is the blessing cultivated in the past life." "This trip to Heilongjiang has made Liu Hegang's parents earn enough face."
Liu Hegang on stage
The harmony of the family has promoted the take-off of Liu Hegang's career, and he has not only held many solo concerts in Tianjin, Beijing and Shijiazhuang, but also launched a new album "Mama". Moreover, with the support of Zhan Yang and the parents of both sides, Liu Hegang donated 200,000 yuan to build a love school in Qilin Town, Juye County, Heze County, Shandong Province, where his father's ancestral home was.
February 2, 2011, is the first Spring Festival that everyone has spent together. Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang were busy pasting spring leagues and cutting window flowers, and their parents sat around making dumplings and making braised lion heads. Excitement and happiness filled everyone's face.
Yes, two people in love live together, eating meals and washed fruits made by the elderly, eating meals and washed fruits made by four elderly people, eating delicious porridge in the morning, warming the stomach with hot soup in the evening, and there are countless booing and cold greetings and warm and wind and rain advice, this traditional, from the blood and in-laws from the heart of care and care, is a young person living alone can never understand. They believe that as long as there is more tolerance and accommodation between relatives, less complaints and accusations, happiness and harmony will knock on their doors, and they will stay in this family of six forever!
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