In those years, we chased girls together

When I first entered the school, there was always a girl with a hair shawl in the front row of my seat, and she always wore different colors of clothes throughout the week, red, pink, black, like colorful flowers. Later, because they often sat together, they slowly became familiar with each other and could generously call her name Xiao Dan. When I was in school, as long as I had time, I would talk to each other about the bits and pieces of life, almost to the point of talking about everything. However, I never thought that the two of us would have anything to do with "love". It's just simply communicating together and facing every day of life together.

Maybe the feeling of liking will really be different, at least at that time, I think love is something special. As I once read in a book: "Falling in love is when two people come together unconsciously." Although Dan and I are very good, it is not a thing to say that we are already in love, at least I am absolutely not. As for Xiao Dan, I have quietly observed it a few times, and unfortunately, she can't see anything except for the occasional blush. So, I characterized my relationship with Dan and I as friendship, the very good one, because we see each other almost every day.

When my 20th birthday came, I went out with my roommate for a hot pot that day, and I also received a copy of "How Steel is Made", in which Paul Kochagin is the protagonist I like, and there is a greeting card in the middle of the book, which reads: Dear Mr. Paul, are you willing to establish a sincere friendship with me and go down with the revolutionary cause? Familiar fonts! Is this the happy feeling of being in love?

I found Xiao Dan with a nervous heart, but at the moment of meeting, the words I had thought of in my heart could not be spit out, as if I had suddenly lost my voice. Xiao Dan laughed when he saw my embarrassed look, and I was embarrassed to rub my hair and laugh, just like that, we officially came together. I always couldn't sleep that night, which made the roommate of the lantern night battle online game see the situation.

"The third elder is in love," the second elder swore.

"Where's it"? I argue.

"Definitely, if I'm not mistaken, it must be Dan," the eldest looked at me with an understanding look. In this way, at the end of my freshman year, I gained the brotherly love of a roommate and the love that belonged to me.

Time passed like this, and my relationship with Xiao Dan was also heating up, and in the sophomore year, we basically all studied and lived together. Maybe feelings are really like parabolas, there will always be a vertex, and then slowly fall. Because they are familiar with each other, it is inevitable that there will be friction after getting along for a long time, and the real irreparable contradiction is in the senior year.

Because my English is not very good, I want to come out for an internship and then work, and Xiao Dan's idea is to continue to study for graduate school, if so, then the two people can do their own things and then work hard together for a better tomorrow. However, Xiao Dan feels that the competition in society is fierce now, and if there is a higher degree, it will be much easier to find employment in the future, and he hopes that I can go to graduate school with her. In this way, neither of us accepted defeat, and the relationship between the two people instantly dropped to a freezing point. Later, with the formation of a new circle of two people, there was gradually less contact, and when the reaction came, there was no way to turn back. In this way, unconsciously missing each other.

Until one day, I inadvertently saw Xiao Danfa's words in the circle of friends, she was about to get married, and suddenly a sharp pain in my heart, it turned out that I still hadn't really put it down, but the past had passed and could never be found again.

"At that time, you were an optimistic and cheerful boy, and I had established a sincere love with you, but in the end I could not resist the passage of time, only that warmth would last exist..." This was the last word Xiao Dan sent to me. I've missed something precious, but no matter what, I'll always remember harvesting such a true feeling at some point in my life.

In those years, we chased girls together

Postscript: The breath of life is accompanied by the vitality of youth, even when we are old, there is still a touch of brilliance that belongs to us in the past, which makes people nostalgic.

Yu Mo said life, recording the trivialities in life, recording what he saw and heard in his growth, and recording only to leave an unrepentant youth.

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