When I was a child, I looked forward to growing up, and when I grew up, I looked forward to going back to my childhood, which is the true portrayal of adults now.
At this moment, I was on the high-speed train, ready to go to work, and I finished watching the last episode of "I Love You", and my heart suddenly poured into a kind of social oppression.
People always say that romance movies are not worth watching, too fake, every day love ah love ah what does it mean, I just want to make money now, in fact, when I say this sentence, aren't we carrying the weight forward, so we can no longer bear the power of love?
Such a phenomenon, "I Love You" has achieved a real repaint. Previously, I felt that the success of this show was because of its true love story, and at this moment, I feel that the success of this show has a part of its practical significance.
Back to the point, "I Love You" not only tells the sweetness of love stories, but also the stories of the workplace, marriage, original family, and growth are even more moving.
The story of the workplace is particularly true, Wang Yi, a hot-blooded and literary youth, eventually went to the company to become an ordinary small clerk. At the beginning of the play, Wang Yi showed his "talent" and used unique ideas to make a perfect plan, in his heart, Wang Yi felt that this plan could be said to be 100% approved.
However, in the eyes of the boss, it is like a nonsensical whimsy, and even if it is not looked at, it is directly rejected, because it does not meet the needs of the public, and there is no use value without a profitable plan.
This is not the status quo of most workers, bosses, customers are not satisfied with the plan again and again, we revise it over and over again, but we never get the approval of the leader, and some will be scolded by the dog bloody head.
Not only that, but later, when Wang Yi's hard-working plan was snatched away by others, and when he indignantly sought answers from the leaders, the answer he got was that the relationship was the most important and was still not reused.
To be honest, when I saw this, I felt that society left people with only coldness.
Young and vigorous, we have also been like Wang Yi in the play, not understanding, not understanding, trying to seek answers, but there is no response, even if there is a response, it is only the so-called fairness.
Liang Anqing, who is also another male protagonist, has entered the workplace for many years, but he has never been able to get the essentials of work, is not accustomed to the unspoken rules of society, is not accustomed to strange ways of talking about business, and wants to use the enthusiasm of his student days to change the status quo of society, but he has annoyed the big boss.
I know that this is not a phenomenon that should exist in the workplace, but I also have to say that how many people have become hypocritical and sophisticated in order to survive in the workplace.
Gradually, we become adults in the eyes and mouths of others, familiar with the world, and understand everything, but who knows that this belongs to the inner torment of adults.
Obviously in our twenties, we are forced to grow up, forced to deal with the chaotic world, forced to smile, forced to change different masks, and finally, only a small rental house hears its silent collapse. But even so, he is still a small ordinary clerk. The cycle went on and on, exhausting.
Later, Wang Yi was poached by his female boss, when I thought that he was finally appreciated, who knew that the female boss had feelings for him, at first Wang Yi did not understand, thinking that he and the boss's thoughts were synchronized, the three views were similar, and after the boss drove away the colleagues who had communicated with him closely, he understood all this.
But the boss's realism collided with Wang Yi's idealism, doomed to all this still have no end, the Tao is different and does not conspire, Wang Yi seems to understand, after experiencing two emotional failures and special workplace life, Wang Yi finally said that sentence - I don't know what I want, but I know what I don't want.
Constantly experiencing, constantly feeling, Wang Yi slowly matured in one experience after another, and So did Lang Ting. Unlike Wang Yi, Lang Ting has a deeper understanding of family affection.
Because the drama of her father's love for her sister happened to her, Lang Ting was already difficult to accept, and her father repeatedly blocked her desire to learn dance, and the misunderstanding between Lang Ting and her father deepened, resulting in the two finally breaking off the father-daughter relationship.
With this hatred, Lang Ting ran away from home and lived alone outside, leaving for a few years. When she saw her father again, she was still harsh, but she did not see his father's trembling hands because of her arrival.
Later, her husband had crazy behavior, and when her father's lover, her own sister, reappeared and told her about her lost child, Lang Ting understood the preciousness of family affection. The words that Xuejie said - we will all eventually pass away, but we can choose whether to bring love or hate, melting Lang Ting's cold heart.
It feels like when we were students, facing the nagging of our parents and the temptations of the outside world, we want to escape from home, away from our families, and find our own world every day.
However, it is too difficult to grow up, although it is fun to go out and run around, but the feeling of freedom to leave home is too much difference in imagination, and the people who urgently left in the original juvenile period will be people who are now extremely worried.
Relatives are the most precious to us, the first half of life is parents, the second half of life is lovers. The only couple in the play, Liang Anqing and Zhang Chunlan, who become husband and wife, are the people who will spend the second half of their lives together, and the marriage of adults is not simple.
Zhang Chunlan wanted to quarrel because Liang Anqing did not put away his shoes, because he said don't wait for me to eat together to quarrel, this marriage did not see the appearance of happiness, more is endless quarrels.
Now many people have not yet experienced marriage, they have begun to fear marriage, the reason is not the hardships of life, not the ups and downs of the waves, or the inconspicuous chai rice oil and salt.
Later, the two of them who plucked up the courage planned to face a new life, change a new house, abandon their bad memories, and have a new child, but when they started again, who can guarantee that everything will be better? Sure enough, Zhang Chunlan lost her temper again, just because Liang Anqing did not help her prepare dinner together.
How can a cracked relationship be so easily restored, and how can a problematic marriage pretend not to be seen.
The adult world is complex, and now we have to face all kinds of tortures of family, career, and society in addition to talking about love.
When I thought that several protagonists were slowly lost in society and were about to sink and fall, when they grew up, they also found themselves in the tempering time and again, and found the true meaning of love in various setbacks, and they still maintained a positive and sunny attitude towards love, life, and family affection.
Perhaps only now do I understand that the meaning of "I Love You" is not only to say a sweet confession to the people I love, but also a positive force - even if the life is not satisfactory, it cannot see the suffering of the world, even if it is tired, I must say to the world that I love you.