Staring at the book "Lifelong Growth", I asked myself in my heart, what is lifelong growth? Why grow for life? How to better grow for life? With these thoughts in mind, I flipped through Carol Dweck's Lifelong Growth and embarked on my journey to "delight in reading" and redefine the mindset of success.
Lifelong Growth is a psychological research book that illustrates the power of human beliefs through two modes of thinking, fixed thinking and growth.
The theme of the first chapter of "Lifelong Growth" is "Thinking Mode". The question "Why are people different" was first raised. It then explains "what the two modes of thinking mean to you" and "different lives under the two modes of thinking". This is followed by "Where is the Concept of Mindset New" and gives us a self-examination of who can accurately understand their strengths and weaknesses. Finally, the author asks with great foresight, what will you see?
The author believes that the fixed mindset is a rigid mindset characterized by the belief that effort is useless, too much focus on gains and losses, and lack of self-challenge.
Growth mindset is a systematic mindset with intellectual plasticity as the core concept. Its characteristics are the firm belief that people's intelligence, ability, etc. can be obtained through perseverance and deliberate practice of the day after tomorrow, so that they can move from ordinary to excellent
Therefore, people with a growth mindset think, "Don't go into the tiger's den, get the tiger?" "If you don't succeed in the beginning, try, try, try again!" In their eyes, difficulties are opportunities for growth, setbacks are opportunities for harvest, it doesn't matter if they expose shortcomings, they only appear smart and meaningless in the eyes of others. Progress is important, talent is only the starting point, and hard work is the most handsome.
Reading "Lifelong Growth" gave me the answer to the question: "Why are people different?" People are different because of the way they think. We must get out of the quagmire of fixed thinking, under the guidance of growth thinking, love challenges, and believe in the power of faith. Face setbacks, get back on your feet, and be more successful
So, when there is a traffic jam on the way to work, don't be impatient, calm down and listen to the book. I believe that in the pleasant reading sound of the anchor, your impetuous heart will settle down.
Don't be depressed when your car drives into the parking lot, but can only park in the farthest parking space. You see, how many people still don't have a car, and can only walk as a car, squeeze the subway, and get on the bus. And you already have the ability to drive a big run
At night, the child learns under the lamp, racking his brains can not solve the "chicken and rabbit cage", suppress the anger of his own rubbing up, do not let the chickens and dogs jump at home. You can use media such as Tara, Homework Helper, etc. to understand it first, and then become a teacher for your child. You can also have your child call a teacher, ask a neighbor, or ask friends and family to help with the tutoring. In short, there is only one problem, but there are thousands of methods. As long as you are willing, the family can still be filial to the mother and the child, and harmonious.
Growing Up For Life is the best gift Carol Dweck has ever given us. With it, under the guidance of growth thinking, we can broaden our horizons and improve ourselves. We can think of the problem from a different perspective and look at the world from a different perspective. It will become a tool book for our work, a good helper for family education, let us be positive, sunny and cheerful, embrace mistakes, meet challenges, persevere to the end, and welcome tomorrow.