Every winter and summer vacation, the children are a few joys and sorrows, in addition to the test results, whether they can get honors is also their most concerned issue.
Parents are naturally happy when children are able to pull out a certificate of award from their bag, but what do they do with children who do not have an award?
In front of a stationery store in Ji'an, Jiangxi Province, two children in the lower grades of elementary school were lying on the ground writing something.
Looking closer, it turned out to be two award certificates, which made people cry and laugh, and it seemed that the two children were going to award themselves awards.
The child wrote very seriously one by one, and perhaps thought out in advance what kind of award he would give himself, so there was no hesitation when writing down the four words of the outstanding student, and soon the two award certificates were freshly baked.
It's just that netizens can't help but worry about them after seeing it, the words on the award certificate are obviously from the hands of primary school students, and the school has not stamped the official seal.
Many netizens said: This class of primary school students is very good, but this word is a bit difficult to say.
Can such a fake award be fooled through? It is estimated that even if parents just glance at it, they can see that the award certificate is a fake.
Some netizens simply suggested directly that the child find the owner of the stationery store to help write the award, after all, this will look more real.
As for whether to stamp the official seal, many netizens are uneasy, because they find that their children have taken home awards, and there are many without the official seal of the school.
Netizens said that the two children were really smart, but also questioned and denied their behavior.
Calling on children to win awards for their true talents and practical learning is a way of deception that is completely meaningless and will even be beaten more severely by parents.
Why do children behave like this?
1. Vanity is at work
When children see that other classmates have awards, but they do not, their mood will naturally feel very low.
Due to age, they cannot find the right way to vent their emotions, but it is easy for them to make some wrong behavior under the influence of vanity.
2. Scolding by parents
Some children will change their scores on the test paper, including homemade award certificates, which are actually the helpless actions of children.
Of course, they know that these are not good, but they are afraid that when their parents see the results or they do not get the award back, they will make them angry and be scolded by them.
How should parents avoid such behavior in their children?
1. Teach children to be honest people
Honesty is a very valuable quality, not only for learning, but also for all aspects of life, and has a crucial impact on the growth of children.
Parents should let their children know that honesty is the most important thing compared with achievements and honors, and if you lose honesty in order to create achievements and honors, then it is not worth the loss.
2. Let the child have a normal heart
Nowadays, many children like to compare, including learning and all aspects of life. But this kind of comparison is not good for the growth of children, and will only make children become a person who loves vanity.
Therefore, parents should keep their children normal and not care too much about the opinions of others, after all, no one knows who can laugh to the end, so don't be too anxious to envy others.
In fact, whether there is an award certificate is only a small matter, the key is that the child can know his own shortcomings through this matter, so as to try to catch up in the next semester.
Use the compliance method to get the award certificate, so that the child will have a clear conscience.