As a world-class literary hero, Su Dongpo's emotional life is also rich. He had three lovers in his life, Wang Fu, Wang Yanzhi, and Wang Chaoyun, three women who accompanied him throughout his life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > is unforgettable</h1>
In the first year of The Song Dynasty (1054), the sixteen-year-old Wang Fu married the nineteen-year-old Su Shi. She is Su Shi's first hair-tying wife, and she is the eternal moonlight in Su Shi's heart.
She was born in Shuxiang Mendi, Zhishu Dali, Xiuwai Huizhong. "Sensitive and quiet" is Su Shi's evaluation of her, she is intelligent and low-key, knowledgeable but not self-talking.
In the beginning, I did not try to say that I knew the book. When he saw Shi reading, he didn't go all day, and he didn't know that he could understand it. After that, Shi forgot something, and Junyuan could remember it. Ask about other books, and you'll know a little bit about it. From the beginning of the knowledge of its sensitivity and quiet. - "Epitaph of the Deceased Wife Wang"
She is not only a good companion for Su Shi to study, but also a helper for him to make friends in the world.
Shi and the guest spoke outside, And Jun Li listened to it, and he would repeat his words repeatedly: I am afraid it will not last long. It is sharp with people, and it will go to people quickly, and it has been done. - "Epitaph of the Deceased Wife Wang"
The two are young, talented and beautiful, and they are in agreement. Less than two years after marriage, Su Shi temporarily left his wife and went to Beijing with his father and brother to take the exam.
When we arrive in Luoyang, it is the late spring season, and the weeping poplars are green and swaying. Su Shi couldn't help but think of his newlywed wife, Wang Fu, so he composed a song "A Hu Zhu Luocheng Spring Festival Gala" to pin his love for each other.
L.A. Spring Festival Gala. Weeping Yang chaotically covered the red chamber and half. The small pool is light and the waves are like a seal. Before the candle flowers, I was drunk and left the feast.
Self-pity is scattered. Guan Shan is limited and unlimited. Wait for jun to see you again. For the sake of saying acacia, the eyes cut off the West Lou Yan.
Unfortunately, Tian's jealous face was red, and she only accompanied Su Shi for eleven years, leaving a son, Su Mai, who was less than seven years old, and left the west at the age of only 27.
After that, Su Shi "broke his intestines year after year" and "thought about his deceased wife day by day, thinking of the extreme and dreaming"? Finally, ten years later, on a miserable and rainy night, this sad and frustrated person wrote this poem "Jiang Chengzi", "mourning his wife" or "mourning himself".
Ten years of life and death are vague, not thinking, unforgettable. Thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate. Even if they do not know each other, they are full of dust and sideburns.
At night, the ghost dream suddenly returned home, the small window, is grooming. There are no words for each other, but there are thousands of tears. It is expected that the intestines will be broken every year, the night of the bright moon, and the short Matsuoka.
The eulogy began from Su Dongpo, and this "Jiangchengzi" is also the pinnacle of the eulogy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > lives are different and die in the same cave</h1>
When Su Shi wrote "Jiang Chengzi", he had already continued to have children for many years. Su Shi's second wife was none other than Wang Fu's cousin Wang Yanzhi.
Three years after Wang Fu's death, su shi, 33, married wang yanzhi, 21. It is said that Wang Yanzhiyin's smile is quite similar to Wang Fu's, although she does not have the talent of her cousin, she is as gentle and virtuous as Wang Fu, and she is stoic and stoic.
She gave birth to Su Shi and Su Guo, and regarded Su Mai, the eldest son of Wang Fu, as well as her own. "Three sons are one, and love comes from heaven".
Among the three women, Wang Yanzhi spent the longest time with Su Shi and spent 25 years with Su Shi.
In the past 25 years, Wang Yanzhi accompanied Su Shi from his hometown of Meishan to the capital city of Kaifeng, and then traveled to Hangzhou Yimizhou - Xuzhou - Xuzhou - Huangzhou - Ruzhou - Changzhou - Dengzhou - Kaifeng - Hangzhou - Kaifeng - Yingzhou - Yangzhou and Kaifeng, "traveling thousands of miles and half the world".
These 25 years are the ups and downs of Su Shi's life, which can be described as ups and downs and prosperity. During the period of great ups and downs, great joy and great sorrow, the capital of the king leap is safe and calm, and the treatment is calm,
"Moisturizing things are silent", Yan Zhi also won su Shi's respect and love with her most simple love. With the passage of time, Su Shi became more and more trusting and dependent on this "old wife". The two met and returned to their hometown of Meishan to cultivate the fields and weave cloth and live a life of seclusion.
However, the heavens did not fulfill people's wishes, and in the eighth year of yuan you (1093), Yan Zhi died of an illness in Kaifeng. Husband and wife cannot return together, and Su Shi swore that "only if they are in the same cave, they still follow this."
After Su Shi's death, Su Rui buried Wang Yanzhi and Su Shi together. The two could not "return" to Meishan in their lives, and after death, they finally "shared the same cave" in a foreign land, which drew a less than satisfactory end to Wang Yanzhi's life.
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In huizhou, Guangdong Province, there is a liuru pavilion in the eastern foothills of the West Lake, and the six pavilions have a picture of Yang Lian: it is not timely, only the clouds can recognize me; play the ancient tune alone, and think of Siqing in the twilight rain.
This painting was written by Su Shi for his confidant and soul mate Wang Chaoyun.
Wang Chaoyun was originally a "famous prostitute in Qiantang", and when Su Shi was released from Hangzhou to pass the sentence, he met the 12-year-old Chaoyun at the banquet, "beautiful as the moon, at first sight to cover the twilight clouds, more yan is more beautiful" . Rejoicing in his heart, he accepted him as a maid (concubine?). ）。
Among these three women, Chaoyun is undoubtedly the most beautiful. In Su Shi's pen, she is an otherworldly goddess, a peony of national color and heavenly fragrance, and a light and elegant plum blossom...
Chaoyun is versatile and can sing and dance. According to records, once Su Shi took Chaoyun to a banquet, Chaoyun's three "Minus Magnolia Flowers", the technique pressed the crowd, the four were stunning, and Dongpo was also quite comfortable.
Chaoyun is Su Shi's confidant and soul mate. "The joy of life is in the heart of acquaintance", the love between Su Shi and Chaoyun is based on the solid foundation of "knowing the heart".
According to the Song Dynasty's "Liangxi Manzhi", when Dongpo was excluded from being appointed as a judge in Hangzhou, once he touched his belly after eating and asked the maids what was in their stomachs. The maids replied one after another: "It's all articles" and "full of knowledge", and Dongpo didn't think so. Chaoyun replied, "The bachelor's belly is not appropriate", which makes Dongpo praise. This is called "having a spirit in the heart and a sharp point".
Su Dongpo, who was out of date, was released many times and was belittled several times. And what makes Chaoyun most praised and moved Dongpo is that she suffers together and vows to die.
In the twilight years of Dongpo, he was relegated to the barbaric land of Huizhou, and it was difficult to have hope of recovery. In the previous four or five years, the concubines around him had all resigned one after another. Only chaoyun did not abandon him, and accompanied him.
Su Shi was worried that Chaoyun's delicate physique could not withstand the invasion and destruction of "miasma rain blowing wild wind, withering away is too late", and repeatedly advised her not to go with her. And Chaoyun "does not be a Wuyang Cloud Rain Immortal", and is willing to follow the eastern slope to the end of the cape.
This love and righteousness of Chaoyun made Su Shi, who was nearly the age of Hua Jia, feel deeply comforted, and issued a sigh of "not like Yang Zhi Bei Lotte".
In Huizhou, Chaoyun took on the responsibility of taking care of the whole family, and warmly and thoughtfully took care of Dongpo's food and living. In her spare time, she sang lyrics for Dongpo, making the old poet feel happy in the midst of difficulties. The most sung is "Butterfly Loves Flowers. The flowers fade red and green apricots are small" and the two are "the same fallen people at the end of the world", as the confidant of Dongpo, Chaoyun understands that Dongpo is just a frustrated hurried visitor outside the wall in the face of harsh reality.
Su Shi was a good Buddha, and he often compared Chaoyun to a heavenly goddess who scattered flowers and accompanied himself, a self-Vivian (Buddha). Influenced by this, Chaoyun also began to recite Buddhist scriptures.
On the fifth day of the first month of July in the third year of Shaosheng (1096), Chaoyun, who had served Dongpo for 23 years, also left him. On her deathbed, she recited the Diamond Sutra "Six Ru" (like a dream like a bubble like a shadow like a mist like electricity) and passed away peacefully.
After Chaoyunxian's death, Su Shi buried her in the southeast pine forest of Qichan Temple on top of Fenghu Lake according to his will, and the monks of Qichan Temple sighed and built a six-like pavilion next to his tomb.
After Chaoyun's death, Su Shi wrote "Mourning Chaoyun and Introduction", "Chaoyun Epitaph", "Huizhou Recommended ChaoyunShu", "Slow Flowers in the Rain", "ChengZi Zhongjiu Two Songs", "Three Parts of Music", "Hetao and Hu Xicao Show Gu Thief Cao", "Xi JiangYue" and "Xi Jiangyue" Plum Blossom", deeply nostalgic for the red-faced confidant who accompanied him.
In the Huizhou Recommendation chaoyunshu, he prays to the heavenly god Buddha for chaoyun:
Every grass and tree in the Fu wish mountain is illuminated by the Buddha; tonight there is less incense and less flowers, and it is all over the Dharma Realm. Lake mountain Anji, grave forever strong. Attract the souls of the dead and give birth to the Pure Land early. Whatever is evident, everything is seen and heard. The supreme bodhisattva, the house of fire of the Three Realms forever.
In "Mourning Chaoyun and Citing", Su Dongpo, who has always been bold and heroic, was "sad to pay off his previous debts and pointed to the three lives and the back edge" because of Chaoyun's early death.
"Flowers Slow in the Rain" writes about the thoughts and guilt of Chaoyun: a drunken forget, but after drinking, think about it. Count the negative you, tears in front of the pillow, thousands of points and thousands of lines.
After Chaoyun's death, Su Shi remained widowed and never married again.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > who is the favorite</h1>
Of the three lovers in Su Shi's life, Wang Fu was the lover of his youth, Wang Yanzhi was his middle-aged companion, and Chaoyun was the guardian of his old age. Su Shi has great respect and appreciation for them, and it is indeed difficult to measure which woman Su Shi loves the most.
Wang Fu and Su Shi lived in the period, Wang Fu was 16-27 years old, Su Shi was 19-30 years old, both of them were young and young, and their lives were more about the sentimentality and longing of youth. During this period, Su Shi had just started his career and did not have too many bumps. Wang Fu did not accompany Dongpo to experience the ups and downs of life together, so he was not a true confidant.
Many people love to take "Jiang Chengzi. Ten years of life and death, the most famous eulogy, said that it was bloody and tearful, affectionate, and Wang Fu should be the most loved woman in Su Shi's life.
As mentioned earlier, when Su Shi wrote this poem, he had already married Wang Yanzhi, who was "a woman's office is cultivation, and the mother's ceremony is very good". Although Wang Yanzhi is not as intelligent as Wang Fu, he is definitely a competent xiannei helper. With such a virtuous wife, Su Shi missed his ex-wife for a few days a year, and there was nothing to say. But to say that he "thinks about his ex-wife all day long, thinks to the extreme and dreams", one is unlikely, and the other is that he is not very kind.
When he wrote this poem, Su Shi's career was not smooth, and his life was frustrated. Imagine if he had been proud of the spring breeze and had a bright future, would he still write such a word? The eulogy of "Jiang Chengzi" actually has more elements of "mourning oneself".
In the past, when it came to Su Shi's lover, Wang Yanzhi was often overlooked. Yu Shihua, an expert on Su Shi, believes that Wang Yanzhi occupies the most important position in Su Shi's married life.
His reasons are mainly three points: First, she has accompanied Su Shi for the longest time, and during this period, Su Shi has had great ups and downs and experienced ups and downs. The second is the literary works created by Su Shi for the three lovers, and the largest number is not Chaoyun, but Leap Zhi. Third, Su Shi's sacrifice for Wang Yanzhi was the richest in content, and he was buried together after death, realizing the wish of "sharing the cave after death".
Although Wang Yanzhi is a good wife and mother, I feel that she is not Su Shi's confidant, and Dongpo has more respect for her.
What really walked into Su Shi's spiritual world was Chaoyun. The love life of the two of them is a typical example of the love of the talented and beautiful people in ancient China, and realizes the love ideal of "death and life, and joy with the son". Chaoyun voluntarily made great sacrifices when Su Shi was trapped and needed comfort the most, so Su Shi's sense of knowing her was also particularly deep, even exceeding his feelings for his two ex-wives.