The epidemic is at home, my mother chased all the dramas that can be chased, and when I saw Jin Dong and Jiang Xin on the home page of the website, my mother must have to go in, and I looked at the "If the years can be turned back" that was filmed very early.
Because I went to the hotel where I worked when the show was filmed, I was a bit looking forward to it! But after watching two episodes with my mom, I couldn't watch it because I was angry! Especially when I saw Huang Jiuheng, played by Li Zonghan, find out that the daughter I had raised for eleven years was not his own, I was really angry and his liver hurt!
Later, I suddenly remembered a passage from Dr. Zhang Wenhong, who exploded during the epidemic, in an interview: "In society, everyone often feels that honest people are always bullied. In fact, I have been bullied all the time, and now that I am more than half a hundred years old, I understand what it means to be bullied! ”
Yes, the dog blood of people to middle age is mostly the world's bullying of honest people!
You probably heard this paragraph, in the company do not easily scold young people, because they say resignation, to scold those middle-aged people to scold, they have mortgages and car loans, to raise children and the elderly, how to scold, they dare not resign ... Looking at the joke, how sad it is to taste it! In a few words, it is all the oppression of honest people!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01, people to middle age, even divorce has to think before and after! </h1>
When you are young, everyone who does not dare to love and dare to hate, even if the breakup is sad, death can survive, drink drunken shouting a few words on the earth who leaves who is the same! At that time, I felt so impulsive, but now I want to come to relax!
In "If the Years Can Be Turned Back", three unmarried men are depicted, which looks very miserable, but if you think about them, they still have the courage to divorce, which is already very good!
Real life is a person to middle age, even if the dog blood plot is repeatedly staged in life, divorce has thought thousands of times, or dare not take this step! Sadly, such a wandering is not a reluctance to this relationship, but to consider how the child thinks, how to worry about outsiders, and what to do with the nervous future life...
The marriage of a poor couple is to live together, and the two can keep a family running forward, once the divorce is seriously injured! The thought of having a child alone in the future, urging the ex-husband and ex-wife to pay child support on time, it is better to make it up, even if this person has made life hopeless, it is better than not even this one...
When I was young, I was full of energy...
Couples with some assets are not much better, the two people did not fight in vain, saving some family foundation and wealth! But in this busyness, he has lost his feelings, and even has calculated each other in the common property! But still dare not divorce, so many years of integrated hard work, this wealth is entangled, rational and chaotic! Just like Li Guoqing and his wife Yu Yu, the chicken and egg can't be said, and it has become everyone's talk after tea, where to put an old face!
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02, people to middle age, the workplace is too much to swallow</h1>
At the height of the epidemic, medical staff rushed to the front line in a hurry, the epidemic situation has just improved, and the world is cold and cold! Watching the news that day, Ankang Central Hospital issued temporary salaries for front-line personnel, and among the front-line medical staff who aided Hubei, some people received only 3,000 yuan in subsidies, and some emergency medical staff only got 300 yuan.
And the dean and vice president just work normally, normal inspection, the average subsidy is nearly 13,000... Ironically, there is more than one case of this kind of thing, some have been exposed, and some are unknown!
People to middle age, a command, had to rush! Once middle-aged, full of grievances, I have to endure! Honest man, like a piece of plasticine, is pinched and twisted around! Because of life, I had to swallow my anger and had to become less and less like myself...
Don't say what kind of case this is, Professor Zhang Wenhong, who I mentioned at the beginning, said that he was bullied like this all the way! Even if Tu Youyou, who won the Nobel Prize, still can't be rated as an academician of the Academy of Sciences, it's all a truth!
So you see again, "If the years can be turned back" Jin Dong played Bai Zhi bravely drunk like mud to run to the company conference, on stage nonsense and not dealt with at all, is not very Mary Sue! Oh no, Jack Sue!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > 03, it is important for people to have a glimmer of light in their hearts when they reach middle age</h1>
Korean movies are known for daring to shoot, and many times they are not the happy endings we like!
There is a movie in South Korea called "Prison Break Duo", the male protagonist is a diligent civil servant, cautious and cautious do not dare to make a mistake, honest and honest, but because he did not help the bribed boss to do bad things, he was dismissed!
These people also thought that he was holding a "practice meeting" and getting together to eat and drink, and he originally thought that it would be good to have a little warmth at the last party, but in the end, his boss told him: "Remember to buy the order when you leave!" And tell him that an honest man like him who doesn't know how to "be flexible" can't get ahead!
Then his wife divorced him, he really couldn't figure it out, as an honest person he was really wrong? He ends up being an accomplice of terrorists who killed congressional hospitals! Honest man is gone... Did he deserve it or was he driven to the end of his life?
Such a movie really does not dare to watch too much, because when people reach middle age, they still have a glimmer of light in their hearts to continue to carry the weight forward! Even if we are "bullied" by life, please hold the last light, do not bully others, is to be kind to yourself!
The most touching thing about "If the years can be turned back" is that several men have never known each other and gathered together, and they can also push their hearts, whether it is true or not, this is the light in life, we no longer have to cover up, no longer have to brag, just like the innocent teenager at the beginning: inspirational to be a good person, not afraid, not to shrink back!