Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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The more you experience, the more mature you are, the more mature you are, the more silent you are.
It doesn't matter to you, and you don't have to speculate. I like to argue with people, mostly because my heart is not firm enough.
Zhuangzi once said in the "Autumn Water" section: Summer insects cannot speak of ice. That is, don't talk to summer bugs about winter ice, it's a waste of time. Arguing with people at different levels is a kind of unnecessary consumption!
Be careful in your words and deeds, and don't throw salt on other people's wounds. The so-called sophistication of human feelings, half in action, the other half in speech!
It has been said, 'Silence is cowardice', on the contrary, silence is because it is strong.
When people speak softly, they should cultivate themselves with deep concentration, and do not complain about how unfair life is to them.
Sometimes not speaking is the best word, and silence is the best answer. Silence is the beginning of a person's real strength.
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Huainanzi Human Training wrote: "Ten thousand words are better than silence." ”
Obsessed with other people's gossip, the last thing to tire is their own heart. People with abundant hearts never live in the eyes of others, never live in the mouths of others.
Slowly, you will find that there are only two things in the workplace: you can talk, you can do things, and what you say represents what kind of person you are.
It is better not to say what is said than not to speak; it is better not to say what is to be faithful than not to speak. Silence is not a high level, but a kind of calmness. Good character, no fear of gossip, pure self-purification, and a life without shame!
Silence is not only a person's practice, but also the tone of a person's maturity. Saying less, doing more, seeing through and not saying broken, is the real great wisdom.
-03-
Hemingway said: "We have two years to learn to speak, but it takes sixty years to learn to shut up." ”
Speaking is a person's desire, but shutting up is a person's practice. Some things, see through to maintain a silence, that is to give themselves a calm and calm.
Meditation often thinks about oneself, and gossips about others. Knowing people without judging is the kindness of being born as a human being. Gossiping behind the scenes makes it seem that a person has no education and quality.
The more you talk, the more you are wrong, and the more you are naturally not less. Only those who have experienced the wind and rain will be less reticent.
Saying too much always offends people, rationalizing too clearly, and feeling weak. True maturity has bid farewell to immaturity, and people are relatively rounded and smooth in the world.
Man, when he reaches a realm, understands the wisdom of silence. People who understand themselves need not say anything, and people who do not understand themselves do not have to explain.
-04-
More words will be lost, and more words will be passed.
Half a life has passed, looking back, how many times have you suffered losses because of more talk?
Keep your mouth in the group, and keep your heart in the alone. If you can't speak, try to be silent! When people reach middle age, they should know a certain sense of risk and people's hearts, and prevent it before they happen.
"The mouth cannot be kept, and the god of wealth will take a detour", manage the mouth, and good fortune will naturally come.
Han Han once said: "If you don't understand, you shut up, because you never know what others have experienced." If you understand, then you should shut up even more. ”
The able express themselves in words, and the wise express themselves in silence.
Penetrate the world and be considerate, and look down on right and wrong without dispute. When you know how to be silent, it is the time when the heart is quiet, and it is also the time when the heart is most quiet.
A girl who likes words, I am glad to meet you in my words, and I am willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.