At the National Annual Photography Exhibition, Bao Mama can't go to join in the fun. However, the best photography exhibition of the year in Baoma's industry, this photo has undoubtedly resonated with countless families, and it has deservedly become the gold award of the "Best Photography of the Year Award".
The emotions expressed in the photos are very distinct, two people, two emotional worlds.
Baby World:
Crying with pear blossoms and rain, the small mouth was extremely exaggerated in the middle of the big howl, faltering, and was very reluctantly pulled forward by his mother.
At this time, he had eighteen martial arts, and seventy-two became magical, and he couldn't change his mother's determination to move forward. So she had to cry while being pushed forward by her mother.
Mom World:
Smiling as brightly as a flower, walking as agile as Goku, holding his favorite magic weapon in his left hand and holding a "tight hoop set" in his right hand, he sent the "Divine Beast back to the cage" in a dashing manner.
But after sending the child to the "nursery", he is temporarily liberated, but will the child really grow up to be the ideal as expected?
The neighbor's little nianyuan is a very cheerful child, but since entering the kindergarten, he has become particularly introverted and sensitive, and his voice is much smaller. Mom originally did not care, every day the circle of friends is with girlfriends shopping, shopping, playing together in the daily life, she said: the child went to kindergarten, she was finally completely liberated.
Until one day, after finding bruises on the child's body and going to the school to check the monitoring, I learned that there was a small bully in the school, who always took advantage of the teacher's lack of attention to bully the child and often yelled at the child.
At this time, the mother suddenly woke up, and it turned out that her "custody" put the child in a "unguarded" situation.
There are also many parents who are also throwing their hands in charge
The niece began to learn piano from the age of 4, because her mother is an executive of the enterprise and the work is particularly busy, so the accompanying child to learn steel is generally replaced by the elderly in the family. By the time the child is 6 years old and participates in the school art competition, the parents are very confident that the child will be able to make a splash.
So the couple went to the audition with great anticipation, but when they saw the child performing, they were really shocked. The child even played a simple entry-level "jingle bell" very reluctantly, not to mention entering the semi-finals, and even the side of the audition was not enough.
At this time, the parents were extremely angry to find the art teacher, and the teacher's words made the couple blush: "2 years, how many times have I called, parents to participate in the child's teaching, accompany the child to practice every day, have you done it once?" Dear parents, 3 points for learning the piano depend on the teacher, and 7 points on the parents. ”
Yes, the person who ruins a child's life may be the parent.
Therefore, whether it is a kindergarten or an interest class, parents cannot completely "shake off their hands", because no kind of education relies on "money" to achieve the goal.
Parents are willing to spend for their children, but at the same time, real parenting must also be willing to spend time, energy, and wisdom for their children!
So, it's still early, and as soon as it starts, it's possible. If the parents at this time see the article and are willing to start trying to change, everything will be in time, and the future of the child will be expected.
Parents should strengthen their investment in these three aspects, and there will be benefits
1. Maintain sincere communication with educational institutions and teachers
First of all, in the choice of children's educational institutions, parents must also pay attention to them, and try to choose schools with relatively stable teachers and good reputation.
Because the child's teacher is very important, and parents should communicate with the teacher in a timely and regular manner, learn more about the child's application and living conditions, and guard a relatively safe and free environment for the child.
Learning is a long-term thing, parents are irreplaceable, but we must understand, care, and create a strong environment and mood for children.
2. Communicate with children, relieve sorrows, and ignite happiness
Parents love it, children don't love it, this is also an emptiness. When the child is still uncertain, parents can assist the child to choose and try.
In the process of learning, if the child encounters difficulties or does not have a clear mind, parents should communicate and communicate with the child in a timely and cordial manner.
Language and thinking are the best medicine in the world, she does not cure the symptoms, but it can cure the root cause for a long time, so that children can truly feel understood, loved, respected, and loved, so that it is easier to feel the interest and joy of learning.
3. Family interaction
The impact of actual work and life, in terms of educating children, is likely to require the participation of the whole family. Everyone's parenting philosophy and ideas are different, if you follow your own ideas alone, the child is likely to be overwhelmed by multiple standards and unable to adapt.
Therefore, if you want your child to grow up healthy and beneficial, family members must adhere to family meetings, communicate their respective ideas, and then educate children in a relatively consistent manner. In this way, the child's growth will be more effective and beneficial.
Sometimes, parents indulge themselves, but they ruin their children's lives. If the child indulges himself, he is likely to ruin the life of his parents. Therefore, to want both parties to live a relatively free and happy life, it is a process of parents and children to learn together, grow together, and explore together.