Weighing more than 500 pounds, lying on the bed, it is a mountain of meat, want to take a bath, you need to send 7 fire fighters, even dragging the belt, before barely sending him to the bathroom door.
Zhang Hangjun could not take care of himself in the bath, he needed his mother to serve, there was too much fat on his body, he had to lift up layer by layer to wash, after washing, 7 people worked together to carry him to the bed.
Such a bathing routine may be greatly shocked in our eyes, but for Zhang Hangjun's mother Ma Xiaoqiu, this is just a small fragment of her life, Ma Xiaoqiu is a single mother, her daily life, is to take care of 500 pounds of her son, every morning up, she has to spend a lot of effort to let her son get up.
Because of the long-term oppression, resulting in Zhang Hangjun's legs deformity, coupled with a fat body, even if it is a simple turn over and get up, it will take five minutes, Zhang Hangjun's body is fat, fat layer by layer, in order to prevent the growth of pressure sores, at least seven to eight times a day to wipe, and then pour on the talk powder, if it is summer, it is more difficult.
Every meal, someone must also be fed to the mouth, not because Of Ma Xiaoqiu's doting on the child, but forced, in fact, in addition to excessive obesity, Zhang Hangjun also suffers from severe cerebral palsy and autism, 21 years old, only 2-year-old children's intelligence, even worse.
Ma Xiaoqiu said that when she first gave birth, the child was premature and difficult to give birth, not long after birth, it was diagnosed with severe cerebral palsy, coupled with secondary diseases, the doctor asserted that he could not live to be 16 years old, at that time Ma Xiaoqiu's heart was like a knife, she sought medical treatment everywhere, but the result was that the child had no cure, in the face of the doomed ending, Ma Xiaoqiu never wanted to give up.
She was alone, taking care of the child's eating and drinking Lasa, since Zhang Hangjun was 6 years old, he had been lying in bed without getting off the ground, since then, his weight began to increase dramatically, and now it is close to 500 pounds of weight, and it is still growing at a rate of 20 pounds per year, but what makes Ma Xiaoqiu feel most tired is his son's autism.
Because of autism, Zhang Hangjun's mood is uncertain, half a point is not smooth, he will cry, he must take something in his hand, and he must hear a sound in his ear, so the electric fan and TV next to the bed are turned on day and night, and every night he sleeps with an electric lamp.
Taking care of her son Zhang Hangjun almost consumed all of Ma Xiaoqiu's energy, but partially, she was originally born twins, and the younger son also suffered from cerebral palsy, fortunately, the younger son's condition is better, with the ability to take care of himself, more than twenty years of hard work, when asked whether Ma Xiaoqiu regrets, she confessed that she is very happy.
Life is hard, but the happiness brought to her by two children is not less than that of ordinary children, and her life is to live for two children.
Ma Xiaoqiu's parents are already eighty years old, taking care of children, the old two can not help too much, every week will still take a two-hour bus, come to the suburbs to visit their daughters, by the way to bring them some dishes, Ma Xiaoqiu has no job, life basically rely on low insurance, and the help of parents, the old man looks at his grandson, and has never been abandoned, between words, more regrets.
Ma Xiaoqiu is a typical Chinese mother, who does not complain, does not accept defeat, accepts everything calmly, and strives to adapt to life, so where does her other half go to the side of her mother who thinks she is positive? Speaking of this topic, Ma Xiaoqiu is full of regrets, if there are four seasons in life, Ma Xiaoqiu's first 26 years are spring, and the birth of a child has become a watershed in her life.
Ma Xiaoqiu was young and beautiful, in college she liked to sing, the classmates liked to play the piano, the two participated in the party together, one came and went, the two fell in love, and finally married, this marriage from the campus, beautiful and happy, until 1994, Ma Xiaoqiu gave birth to two children.
However, unfortunately, the eldest son was diagnosed with severe cerebral palsy, the younger son was diagnosed with moderate cerebral palsy, mild autism, and the sudden blow caught Ma Xiaoqiu and his wife by surprise, they had not heard of cerebral palsy, nor did they know what kind of children with cerebral palsy were, but if there was a disease, they had to be cured, Ma Xiaoqiu quit his job and took the child around to seek medical treatment.
After searching for medical treatment without results, Ma Xiaoqiu and his wife accepted the facts, the two worked together to take care of the child, but the tragedy happened again, in 2006, under the pressure of long-term life, and the rumors of neighbors, the husband suffered from depression, the child cerebral palsy Husband depression, the joke of heaven, opened to Ma Xiaoqiu alone.
For the future of her husband, Ma Xiaoqiu consulted with her husband, the two divorced peacefully, after that, Ma Xiaoqiu alone, silently carried everything, for her husband, she never remembered hatred, but some debt, when she first became a single mother, Ma Xiaoqiu was also confused, also trance, but also thought about jumping off the building to live.
But one day the news of the death of a classmate jumping off a building came and woke her up completely, she understood the fragility of life, she understood even more, if there was no self, two poor children, there would be nowhere to go.
After that, Ma Xiaoqiu moved to a low-rent house on the outskirts of Shenyang, the rent was paid for by her parents, she took two children, officially started her life, a single mother, maybe God's mercy, maybe the end of the joke, Ma Xiaoqiu accidentally, discovered the musical potential of the younger son, she was happy, more importantly, the younger son was discovered by a piano teacher when he sang a song.
After learning about the situation of Ma Xiaoqiu's family, the teacher took the initiative to invite them to come to her own piano lesson, she was willing to teach for free, Ma Xiaoqiu attached great importance to this opportunity, the younger son was also very competitive, practiced very hard, the teacher saw that they did not have a piano at home, and also took the initiative to give out their own piano, and now Ma Xiaoqiu's happiest thing is to listen to his younger son play the piano.
After so many years of hard training, he has also reached the level of piano level four, and he can perform on stage, take some public welfare performances, every time he sees his son, the confidence on the stage, Ma Xiaoqiu's pride in his heart, listening to his son's singing of "Mother in the Candlelight", it is even more tearful.
In 2015, at the end of the year, Ma Xiaoqiu and his youngest son wrote a blessing for the New Year, Ma Xiaoqiu wrote "music", she hopes that the family can be happy, but also hopes that the younger son can chase his own music, the younger son wrote the "piano", he hopes to practice the piano, he hopes to be diligent, can help his mother share the pressure.
This is the story that happened in 2015, Ma Xiaoqiu's experience, every time I see it, I am touched, she is a bitter person who is played by fate, and a strong mother, she poured the sweat of her life on her son, only hoping that they can grow green buds in the withering.
In 2018, Ma Xiaoqiu lost, his eldest son Zhang Hangjun, he died of illness, when he left, very peaceful, some people say that she unloaded the burden of 500 pounds, this, I do not agree, Ma Xiaoqiu used half of her life to support her son, what she lost, not a burden, but 500 pounds of expectations, now, Ma Xiaoqiu has been with her younger son, experienced life and death, she wants to grasp the child's hand.
Mother's love, a word with temperature, has always been hot in Ma Xiaoqiu's vitality, and has never cooled.
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