Introduction: Life has no smooth road, a wonderful life, and it needs a fearless spirit.
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- The Spirit Recluse
Many people have heard the words: "At any age, do whatever you want." "When I was a child, what did I do when I didn't go to school, to work, to start a business?" Do you go to a sports competition when you are old? Obviously this is not appropriate.
I was born in 1988, and I only got married this year [in 2012], which is considered to be the late marriage in the circle around me. In this short period of half a year, I thought about my previous mentality. Like many people, I have had the idea of not getting married, and it is okay to describe this as "fear of marriage".
Marriage and love, most people understand, but also experienced. It's definitely trouble and happiness, and so is life. Many people say that one person regrets it, two people still regret it, so why get married. Similarly, if one person regrets it, two people still regret it, so why not get married. It's not that the former is cowardly and the latter is brave. But I chose the latter and went towards getting married and having children.
In fact, it is obvious that people with philosophical common sense understand that freedom is not the essence of man, and freedom is man's ideal and desire. Sociality is the essence of man, and man cannot break free from the shackles of sociality. So secular ideas and social relations are a thrust that pushes you forward. Birth, schooling, further education, graduation, joining the workforce, getting married, having children... Each is a story of a certain age. So there's the old saying at the beginning: "What age, what age things." ”
If you have to go against the trend, you don't have to say that society rejects you, your family doesn't understand you, and so on.
I can live without getting married, but there's nothing wrong with having an experience like getting married. Having figured this out, you might as well be bold and brave enough to get married, even if it turns out to be divorced and divorced again. Liu Bang started a business, how many battles have he won along the way? There are also records of children and daughters abandoned during the escape. However, he lost many battles and finally won the victory.
A real eagle, soon after birth, has to fly off a cliff. If you've never tried to fly off a cliff, how can you soar into the sky and become a true eagle? Lions are also, when they reach adulthood, they will be driven out of the lion group, so that he can face life and death independently, and go to the road independently, which is the only way to become a true lion king. What about people? Also be brave enough to "go into the water" and not be afraid of being "drowned" without experiencing it.
Mao Zedong wrote in his youth: "The child is determined to go out of the countryside, and he will not pay back if he does not become famous." Buried bones why mulberry land, life is everywhere green mountains. This fearless spirit of courage ran through his revolutionary cause throughout his life.
I like the word "born to die". Everyone is toward death, and life is only a hundred years. For the universe, it is even more a flick of the finger. Just the momentary bloom, don't you cherish it? Do you still want to take the initiative to end yourself? Bravely to live, fearlessly to fight, to experience, this is the process of your life.
In the past two days, the three astronauts of Shenzhou 12 have returned to the ship and spent more than 90 days in space. Fast back in 1967, the first astronaut killed in manned spaceflight was Komarov. After his crash, the soyuz 1 was inspected and 203 structural problems were found that could make the spacecraft's flight in space dangerous. However, no one dared to report these problems to the Soviet leader at the time, Brezhnev, for fear of being demoted and expelled. The task is therefore still on schedule. Less than a month before launch, Komarov met with demoted KGB agent Winyamin Rusayev and told him: "I will not come back alive on this mission." ”
When Rusayev asked him why he did not quit the mission, Komarov replied: "If I don't carry out this mission, they will let the substitute pilot go." And Gagarin was my substitute. He will die for me. We said we would take good care of him. After saying that, Komarov covered his face and cried bitterly. On the day of launch on April 23, 1967, There were no problems with soyuz 1's launch, but then a malfunction ensued. When the final return to the ground, the parachute did not open, the spacecraft was knocked flat, and the rocket used for buffering exploded in a violent collision.
The small human beings dare to step out of the earth and go to space, which is a fearless spirit of exploration. Knowing the danger, Komarov stepped forward and stepped into space. This spirit deserves to be remembered.
The unfairness and unhappiness encountered by everyone in the process of life are inevitable, and they need to be bravely faced or accepted calmly. Life is not a smooth road, a wonderful life, need a fearless spirit.
Excerpted from the prose works of independent scholars, writers, and artists.