"Big Girl" is of course because of Ms. Yang Lan's fame to read. It is a collection of essays about women that unfolds and describes three philosophical questions according to who I am, who I want to be, and who I want to be with. Every woman is a work of art with a soul. Unique and irreplaceable.
Throughout the ages, Europe, America, Asia and Africa, people have become accustomed to male cultivators and female weavers, male superiority and female inferiority, seemingly because of the physical difference between men and women. In society there will be a phenomenon of differentiation, a deep-rooted inequality of thought and behavior. Although there is a difference between men and women, we must also face up to their own bodies, whether they are tall, fat, thin, bumpy, or unremarkable, mutilated, they are also natural works of art. It is worth being appreciated. Women should pay attention to themselves and be willing to follow their hearts, bravely express their thoughts and put them into action. The progress of the world is probably that women are more and more understood and recognized by this society, open-minded, and treated equally. The article cites a large number of Chinese and foreign literature circumstantial evidence about women, cites scriptures, and in order to justify the name of the big girl, gives us a good list of books, some of which overlap with the books recommended by Fan Deng. It does not affect your appreciation of famous sayings and aphorisms.
Don't jump out of your comfort zone, never make a mistake if you don't try for your dreams. If you don't do it, you can never make a mistake, and how can you succeed without making a mistake? How far a dream goes, how far a person will go. Wang Yangming's knowledge and action are one. Illustrate the importance of action. Develop good self-discipline habits, and good habits can achieve us. If you can't be strong, who is weak? Only by overcoming the ultimate suffering can we see the ultimate beauty.
Who you are with does not affect your independent self, because you want to be a better you. I want to be a better version of myself. The book says that men and women love like animals, and marriage is like plants. Be yourself, have no distractions, and naturally become better than others. Become your favorite Siberian fir tree in your heart.
"You live up to time, time doesn't fail you, time is fair for everyone." I remembered this sentence in the book at once, everyone pays attention to different points, and what makes you remember will grow in time.
"I think the really smart people are the ones who can slow down." "I slowly find my own psychological rhythm, keeping a soft and open mind. To enjoy the busyness, but also to create leisure. "When I read this paragraph, I thought of the star Lin Chiling, not pretentious, it seems to be a slow and rational rhythmic beauty. I don't want to be a big girl, just live my life the way I like.
If you don't live the way you want to.
Sooner or later, I will think in the way of life.
Make a work of art with a soul.