Sun Li, Qiu Chaoju, Xiang Haiqing Who is at fault? All wrong

Just now I read Xiang Haiqing's letter to Qiu Chaoju, and I would like to talk about who is right and who is wrong among her and Sun Li, as well as reporters.

Journalist Qiu Chaoju is wrong and even illegal in announcing the privacy that others do not want to disclose.

Is Sun Li at fault? Wrong. Many people may not understand why Sun Li is obviously doing good deeds and why he is still wrong. To do good things, we must also pay attention to ways and methods, and if the ways and methods of doing good things are not right, good things may become bad things.

From Xiang Haiqing's text, we can feel that Sun Li's suggestions to Xiang Haiqing in the key steps of Xiang Haiqing deeply affected Xiang Haiqing. When he went to school, he went to Shanghai, where Sun Li was located, and reported that he took his mother to the station to pick him up and take him to school. It is these behaviors that make Xiang Haiqing feel that Sun Li is a dependent, and even regards Sun Li as a relative.

A child who has just gone to college can be said to be not fully mature, and when he needs help, he will first think of finding relatives and friends, and among Xiang Haiqing's relatives and friends, only Sun Li has the ability to help him.

When he asked Sun Li for help without success, he would feel that he had been abandoned and abandoned. A child who has lived in poverty since childhood is a little inferior to the heart is sensitive and fragile. He especially hopes that others can help him, and he especially hopes to be loved.

After not getting sun li's help, he broke up with sun li, which can be seen as a man's self-esteem and stubbornness.

This is a typical example of doing good and turning a good thing into a bad thing. So Sun Li is wrong, she should not let a child she supports rely on herself, nor should she plan the future for this child, since you have planned the future for him, you need to help him on this road, but you are not.

Xiang Haiqing's letter to Qiu Chaoju was originally a confused young man like an elder he thought was reliable, and his friend sought some help and some comfort. Unexpectedly, it was Qiu Chaoju who waited to expose the letter, which pushed Xiang Haiqing to the cusp of the storm. The incident hurt him too much and the blow was too great. It was so cruel that the letter should not have been blown up for whatever reason. Such a reporter has also lost his original intention.

Whether Xiang Haiqing made a mistake I can't say, maybe Sun Li wouldn't become like this if he didn't make such a big package, who knows?

Here is a advice to friends who want to fund poor children, it is best not to get too close to this child, once you participate in the decision-making of the child's growth path, you need to be responsible for the problems he encounters on this road.