One late night in 2011, Huang Zhizhong sat on the sofa with his wife, He Yin, and talked.
He Yin originally thought that his efforts for the family would make this man change his mind.
But Huang Zhizhong plunged headlong into another woman's gentle hometown and could not extricate himself.
Coupled with the perennial gathering of less and more, the two hearts that were originally in love gradually drifted apart.
The two talked from dusk until late at night, and finally chose to let go of each other's hands for each other's future happiness.
But Huang Zhizhong still knows that he is a man.
He transferred his family's house and car to He Yin's name.
It seems that everything has been arranged, but what about the children?
After discussion, they decided not to tell the child about the fact that they were divorced.
After completing the divorce procedures, Huang Zhizhong pulled the suitcase and called his son to his side: "Dad went out to shoot a drama Oh, you have to listen to your mother's words at home, you can't make your mother angry." ”
After saying that, he stood up and touched his son's head, and then he pulled the luggage head and left the house without looking back.
But as the children grow up day by day, the divorce is gradually discovered by the son.
In the face of his son's questioning, Huang Zhizhong could not say a word.
From then on, no matter how much he offered his courtesy in front of his son, his son did not say a word to him.
Huang Zhizhong tossed and turned in countless late nights, unable to sleep.
Now that Huang Zhizhong is more than half a hundred years old, he has not yet married the woman who divorced his wife at the expense of the chaff in the past.
Years later, Huang Zhizhong's son Huang Boyuan said a sentence to him, which made him cry.
01 Huang Zhizhong's basketball dream was shattered
In 1969, Huang Zhizhong was born in Tianjin, where he was "born to speak crosstalk".
Huang Zhizhong's parents were ordinary workers.
Not long after giving birth to Huang Zhizhong, Huang Zhizhong's mother had to return to work.
His parents could only send him to his grandparents' house, and Huang Zhizhong became a "weekend baby".
But Huang Zhizhong, the eldest grandson, is the "lifeblood" of grandma.
No matter what delicious food there is at home, it will be filled in Huang Zhizhong's mouth.
Huang Zhizhong also grew stronger and stronger in his grandmother's "pig raising" style feeding.
Huang Zhizhong also did not live up to the blood of tianjin people on his body, and often made his grandmother very happy.
I also love this precious grandson even more in my heart.
Under the feeding of his grandmother, Huang Zhizhong has been one head taller than children of the same age since he was a child, and has become the "little bully" in the class.
Huang Zhizhong was also fascinated by playing basketball, and often after class, as soon as the bell rang, he followed several male classmates in the class to the basketball court.
He sweated on the basketball court day after day.
"Why is it not tall?" Is it because you don't exercise, how much bounce you can grow tall? How many people have ever lived in the shadow of this parent's words.
But apparently, 13-year-old Huang Zhizhong did not have this trouble, because by this time he had grown to 181cm.
Not to mention that Huang Zhizhong's family is generally poor, and his grandmother does not know what nutritional collocation is.
The 181cm Huang Zhizhong played basketball with a group of 13-year-old children, which was simply unstoppable.
He made basketball players his lifelong dream.
Once, when Huang Zhizhong and his classmates were playing on the off-campus basketball court, they were discovered by the coach of the Tianjin Sports Team.
The coach called Huang Zhizhong, who stood out from the crowd, and asked him, "You have to have 17, 18, right?" Why do you still play with a bunch of kids? ”
Huang Zhizhong looked at the coach with a confused face and said, "No, I'm only 13." ”
The coach was overjoyed after listening to it: only 13 years old, he has grown so tall, and he must be a good material for playing basketball in the future!
So 14-year-old Huang Zhizhong entered the Tianjin Sports Team for professional basketball training and theoretical knowledge.
It is also strange to say that after joining the sports team, Huang Zhizhong's training volume is much larger than that of playing in his spare time before, and the dietitian's meal matching is also very balanced.
But after entering the sports team, Huang Zhizhong's height was not long.
At first, the coach thought it was a problem with the food, so he called Huang Zhizhong's parents and said that they would give Huang Zhizhong more bones.
In order to make Huang Zhizhong tall, the coach and his parents took him to massage the stretchers.
Countless methods were tried, but Huang Zhizhong was not a centimeter long.
After four years in the sports team, Huang Zhizhong's height was always stuck at 181cm.
Such a height is not low in the eyes of ordinary people.
But it is still far from the standard of professional basketball players.
Then, Huang Zhizhong was "returned" by the Tianjin Sports Team.
02 Refusing to stay in school to teach, Huang Zhizhong went to the actor's road
After leaving the sports team, Huang Zhizhong was very confused, and his efforts over the years turned into a bubble in an instant.
Helpless, he could only obey the arrangement of his family and enter the textile factory to work.
The day-to-day mechanical labor in the factory made Huang Zhizhong unable to breathe.
Soon he was tired of living such a chaotic life.
But the "future" is still very confused for Huang Zhizhong.
On the way to work one day, the co-workers saw Huang Zhizhong's listless appearance and took the initiative to ask what happened.
Huang Zhizhong said all the distress in his heart.
"Brother, you're tall and handsome, you can be an actor."
"Pull it down, just my little worker, and the actor."
Although Huang Zhizhong's mouth was sharp, his heart was itching.
actor? Can I be an actor?
"Forget it, no matter what actors are not actors, I really can't do this job."
Huang Zhizhong discussed with his family that he would leave Tianjin and go to Beijing to develop.
Huang Zhizhong's mother knew that her son's ambitions were high, and the textile factory could not tie up the wild horse, so she wrote a letter to her brother who worked in Beijing and asked him to take good care of his son.
At this time, Huang Zhizhong did not know that the letter that his mother entrusted him to bring helped him a lot.
Huang Zhizhong's uncle, a photographer at the studio, said in the letter that he should take good care of his nephew and teach him more about photography.
The uncle looked at his nephew, who was already half a head taller than himself, and felt that it was a bit condescending to let his nephew be a photographer.
Huang Zhizhong's uncle patted Huang Zhizhong's shoulder: "Boy, do you want to be an actor?" ”
This is the second time Huang Zhizhong has heard such words from outsiders, and perhaps he is really good material for doing actors.
Hearing that his nephew gave an affirmative answer, Huang Zhizhong's uncle immediately found him an actor training class to prepare for the examination of Chinese opera.
Huang Zhizhong also competed, stood out in the examination of tens of thousands of people, and successfully entered the door of Chinese opera.
Huang Zhizhong knew that his opportunity was not easy to come by, so he cherished it even more.
He uses all the time to hone his acting skills, from small movements to micro-expressions, Huang Zhizhong can feel it thoroughly.
He knew that he had already rubbed shoulders with his dream once, and this time he must not let the dream slip away from him again.
He studied harder than other students, and even Huang Zhizhong's instructor called him a "little drama maniac".
College time passes quickly for Huang Zhizhong, after all, he did not waste time in falling in love or teaming up with his classmates to play games in the game hall.
After graduating from university, The Chinese Opera saw that Huang Zhizhong had excellent academic performance and wanted him to stay in school to teach.
Huang Zhizhong did not hesitate after listening, his dream is to be an actor, not a teacher.
Without thinking, he refused the school's proposal, and the school also saw that Huang Zhizhong was so insistent, so he was assigned to the China Children's Art Theater.
03 Rely on chili sauce to "trap" the goddess
The days of working in the theater were the most difficult days of Huang Zhizhong's life, and even if his wallet was embarrassed, he could not receive the play.
There is nowhere to spill their own enthusiasm, a monthly salary of 600, not to mention how good the living conditions are, even to solve their own food and clothing is a problem.
So Huang Zhizhong could only rent a 6-square-meter basement in Beijing, occasionally running the dragon set to earn himself some extra money to make a living.
In 1996, Huang Zhizhong finally received his first drama "Cao Cao", in which he played the role of "Cao Zhi".
But Huang Zhizhong, who performed brilliantly, did not let the audience remember him with this drama, and was quickly submerged in the torrent after a short time.
In 1997, This year's Huang Zhizhong was 28 years old, mixed in the entertainment industry for 6 years, and was still a "small transparent".
Just then Huang Zhizhong met a girl, a girl who illuminated his gray life like light.
When Huang Zhizhong was filming "Mainlander", he met He Yin, the "most beautiful Qiong girl".
He Yin is the female number one of this drama, and at this time, He Yin is already an actress who is red through half the sky.
The director saw that Huang Zhizhong was tall and handsome, so he arranged the role of "heroine husband" for him.
Hearing that his "wife" was the great beauty He Yin, Huang Zhizhong was so happy that he could not find the north.
Don't look at Huang Zhizhong at this time, he is not mixed up at this time, but in the pursuit of the goddess, he is a king level.
At the first sight of Huang Zhizhong when he saw He Yin, he knew: "This must be my daughter-in-law."
Huang Zhizhong knew that He Yin was from Sichuan, so he deliberately ran to the store to buy a few bottles of hot sauce.
Every time the crew put on a meal, Huang Zhizhong would pull He Yin to avoid the crowd and share a bottle of hot sauce with He Yin.
The bloodline in the bones of Tianjin people is "able to nag", and the rhetoric coaxes He Yin to a red face.
It is said that funny women have no love, but funny men have ah.
Huang Zhizhong relied on these bottles of hot sauce and a clever mouth to chase the goddess in his hand.
But his heart was like a mirror, and he knew that it would not be easy for him to "take down" his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
He Yin is a traditional woman, and she treats Huang Zhizhong wholeheartedly.
So after filming "Mainlander", He Yin took Huang Zhizhong home to see his parents.
At first, He Yin's parents did not agree to the marriage between the two.
He Yin is already a popular actress, but Huang Zhizhong is still an obscure poor boy, and he wants a house without a house, and he wants a car without a car.
However, seeing that Huang Zhizhong was honest and able to speak the Tao, and was also good to his daughter, he agreed to this marriage.
04 He Yin chose to retire from the circle to take care of the family
From the acquaintance of Huang Zhizhong and He Yin to the marriage, it was only a short period of eight months.
Because Huang Zhizhong could not afford a house, the two had to live in a rental house in Beijing.
The marriage did not have any impact on He Yin's career, and the drama continued.
But Huang Zhizhong was still a small transparent who could only run the dragon suit at this time.
He Yin could only rely on his own resources and pull Huang Zhizhong forward.
So that no one knows that he is Huang Zhizhong, only that he is the "husband of the big star He Yin".
The combination of "strong women and weak men" hit Huang Zhizhong's self-esteem in the north.
Although He Yin was a hot actress of the year, she was still a considerate southern girl.
Over time, such a different emotion shifted from Huang Zhizhong's heart to his face.
He Yin sensed her husband's strange appearance, so he told Huang Zhizhong: "We want a child, after the child is born, I will withdraw from the circle, take the child at home, and be your reserve army." ”
When Huang Zhizhong heard his wife's words, he also put his mind at ease, and when He Yin was busy filming, he was at home concentrating on acting skills.
In 2002, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin's son Huang Boyuan was born.
He Yin also fulfilled the promise he made to Huang Zhizhong and gradually faded out of the entertainment circle.
He also handed over all the human resources he had worked hard in the circle for many years to Huang Zhizhong.
Feel at home at home with your husband and son.
Under the turnover of He Yin, Huang Zhizhong's career has gradually improved.
In 2006, Zhang Li was preparing to shoot "Daming Dynasty", and found Chen Baoguo and wanted him to play Hai Rui.
However, after Chen Baoguo read the script, it was the role of the emperor that came to mind.
Since Chen Baoguo wants to play the emperor, who is the right person to give the role of Hai Rui?
At this time, Chen Baoguo remembered that He Yin had asked him to let him bring up his husband Huang Zhizhong.
He recommended Huang Zhizhong to Zhang Li.
But according to the plot setting, Hai Rui is a thin person, but Huang Zhizhong is a strong old man.
Zhang Li was obviously not satisfied with Huang Zhizhong, but Huang Zhizhong was open-minded this time.
He only consumed a small amount of vegetables and fruits every day, and lost more than 20 pounds in 12 days.
Seeing that Huang Zhizhong was so desperate, Zhang Li was not good enough to say anything more.
This time, Huang Zhizhong, who has been lurking in the show business circle for 11 years, finally "stood up".
With this role, Huang Zhizhong opened up his popularity and received the script softly.
Career and family are difficult to complete, but Huang Zhizhong, who has endured for so many years, is not willing to give up every opportunity.
Slowly, the connection between him and He Yin decreased, and even it was not easy for his son to see his father.
05 Huang Zhizhong was unfaithful to the marriage, and He Yin was abandoned
In 2008, Huang Zhizhong ushered in the peak of his career.
He Yin also looked in his eyes and was happy in his heart, and his husband, who had been precipitating for many years, was finally seen by the audience.
"The Right Way in the World is vicissitudes" allowed Huang Zhizhong to win the double film emperor in one fell swoop, and also let his marriage relationship come to an end.
Just during filming, Huang Zhizhong and the actress of the same crew, Ke Lan, spread a scandal.
In fact, at the beginning, Huang Zhizhong still stuck to his bottom line, but in the face of Ke Lan, a big beauty, Huang Zhizhong finally bowed to the beauty.
These rumors gradually penetrated He Yin's ears, but He Yin still firmly believed that her husband would not commit such a misdeed.
Even at that time, when Huang Zhizhong was in front of the media and constantly used the rupture of his relationship with He Yin as a pretext to defend Ke Lan, a third party, He Yin still believed in Huang Zhizhong.
But when He Yin saw the media breaking news that Huang Zhizhong and He Yin were dating in the same car, He Yin suddenly woke up.
When Huang Zhizhong returned home, he calmly filed for divorce with him.
Since then, Huang Zhizhong's image outside has finally been single, but in front of his son, he is still He Yin's husband and Huang Boyuan's father.
But there is no impermeable wall in the world, and Huang Boyuan, who sees that his father is always home, is still suspicious.
Start searching the Internet for information about your father on your own.
"Huang Zhizhong and He Yin divorced, can Ke Lan 'turn right'?"
When Huang Boyuan saw this title, he was stunned.
A phone call reached Huang Zhizhong's mobile phone, "Are you cheating?" "Why abandoned my mother?" The son's questioning made Huang Zhizhong unable to refute a word.
06 Huang Boyuan's words after growing up made Huang Zhizhong shed tears
Since then, Huang Zhizhong's father-son relationship has completely dropped to a freezing point.
He wanted to make up for his son, but he never accepted anything he gave, not even saying a word to him.
Huang Zhizhong's heart panicked to the extreme, thinking of his son in the middle of the night, tossing and turning in bed and unable to sleep anyway.
He Yin was very worried when he saw the concern of their father and son, and he did not want to see his son regard him as an enemy.
He sent Huang Boyuan to his grandparents' house to ease their father-son relationship.
Huang Boyuan, who was at his grandparents' house, still ignored his father's love, and his grandfather was anxious to burst into flames in his heart.
Grandpa pulled Huang Boyuan to the front and told him, "Your father is actually very sad, he has secretly cried several times." ”
Huang Boyuan untied the knot.
In 2014, Huang Boyuan fell in love with music, and Huang Zhizhong traveled all over Beijing to find him the best music teacher.
In 2020, Huang Zhizhong sent him to Canada to study for better development of his son's future.
"It used to be that I didn't understand things and made you sad, but now that I'm older, I don't blame you." In my heart, you will always be my best dad. ”
07 Conclusion
Now that Huang Zhizhong is 52 years old, he has lived with Ke Lan for many years, but he has never set foot in marriage again.
Curran has said that she is firmly unmarried, and the two live together without a name.
In 2014, He Yin and Xu Yunfan, who was 9 years younger, once again entered the palace of marriage.
She often posts Huang Boyuan and her husband on social media accounts.
With the love of her son and husband, He Yin always had a smile of a happy little woman on her face.
But no matter how many times Huang Zhizhong proposed the idea of marriage to Ke Lan, he waited for rejection again and again.
Huang Zhizhong has a little tradition in his bones, watching his girlfriend's refusal again and again, Huang Zhizhong can only break his teeth and swallow into his stomach.
After all, the consequences of all this now are what they "did" in the first place.
Dreaming back in the middle of the night, I don't know that Huang Zhizhong is in countless nights because his son can't sleep.
Have you ever thought that if it wasn't for his own impulsiveness, it would still be him standing next to He Yin.
Fortunately, the knot between his son and him has been unraveled, adding a touch of comfort to his middle-aged tragic love life.