Park Geun-hye wrote in the book "Despair Exercises Me": Osho once said: "Although life is short, there are stars, moons, flowers, men, women, rivers, mountains and countless joys accompanying each other." And do you want to continue to fight and live this life foolishly? You come empty-handed, you go empty-handed, and when you grasp this, everything becomes cheerful. ”
If you can't struggle out of suffering, then you can only become a grain of dust in suffering, looking up at the trampling of others' footsteps every day and running over you, one day, silently mixed with the dirt. And the person who once struggled to stand at the top, even if he fell under the horse, was still a defeat.
At least I've been there, at least as a trace of history, even a meteor, which has shone brightly.
Park Geun-hye's memory of her mother was always a restrained and thrifty person.
When she moved from her former governor's residence to the Blue House, Park Geun-hye's mother still asked people to buy some rice and coal to fill the rice tanks and coal depots.
Others asked: What do you do if you have to move away or buy these?
The mother replied: These are to be reserved for those who will live next.
Park Geun-hye recalled her mother saying that her mother never showed a tired or impatient look to anyone.
For the education of their children, they are still allowed to walk to school, and because the school of their two daughters is too far from the family, they prefer to live outside the home rather than allow them to take a private car. At that time, they did not enjoy any of the treatment that their father deserved because he was president.
The only toy was a clockwork dog brought back from abroad by a relative who walked automatically, and they played for an afternoon, but the mother was worried.
The mother said: It is not a toy that is readily available, and having precious things that others do not have is not good for the child's education.
Park Geun-hye's mother did not indulge her children because her husband was president and that she was born into a prominent family. She always told her children that one day she would have to go back to Sindo-dong, and that she should not have a sense of superiority because she lived in the Blue House.
When her mother, Lu Young-so, met her father, Park Chung-hee, he was a lowly paid officer. But the mother said: the back of his military boots looks very reliable, although a person's appearance can deceive people, but the back shadow can not be deceived.
Lu Yingxiu said: The selection of objects cannot be measured by money and appearance, but should be given priority to trust and trust. The actual conditions are easy to change, as long as the two people trust each other, no matter how big the difficulties will be, they will be able to overcome.
Park Geun-hye's mother resisted her own father's objections and chose her husband without hesitation. And during the battle, he went to the place where her husband was to visit despite the danger.
With the promotion of Park Geun-hye's father, while taking care of the children, as the first lady, she handled various affairs for her husband. Until he was assassinated.
After her mother was assassinated, Park Geun-hye took over the position of first lady at the age of twenty-two.
In the 1960s and 1970s, South Korea, one of the poorest countries in the world, had no money, no assistance from other countries, and its national income was only seventy-six dollars.
His father, Park Chung-hee, achieved industrialization and the take-off of South Korea's economy during his eighteen-year presidency. Reforms have been introduced to the healthcare sector. It has to be said that Park Chung-hee's era has made a huge contribution to South Korea's future economy.
With the assassination of Park Chung-hee, many of his former supporters began to turn against him. Park Geun-hye really began to experience a life of human warmth and coldness.
After many years, Park Geun-hye once wrote such a paragraph: What I want to thank is not the people who gave me an extra glass of water, but those whose hearts and ideas will not be shaken by the times and who have always been sincere to me, that is, those who are honest in their hearts.
Perhaps people who have not been betrayed will never be able to understand the picture of the allies who once stood side by side with them, turning around and waving at each other. Those who see that you have lost power and fall into the rocks in order to save themselves. Many times, for the sake of their own safety, people who have been closely related to themselves do not hesitate to push them into hell, as if it is the norm, but they can also see people's hearts.
In the years after her father's assassination, Park Geun-hye stayed away from politics and endured unbearable humiliation and indifference from ordinary people. It was also during that time that she visited the monuments, began to read, and faced physical diseases with a tenacious will.
Park Geun-hye said: Over the years, I have endured countless betrayals, almost like standing on the edge of a cliff and precarious. Betrayed by someone I once trusted, I saw clearly the human attachment to desire and power, which was a very bitter experience, but also the most expensive lesson in life.
In the Asian economic crisis that broke out in 1997, Park Geun-hye's sense of responsibility for South Korea rose again, she could not see South Korea once again falling into an economic crisis, could not see her father's efforts for so many years instantly fell, Park Geun-hye decided to enter politics.
As the first female president of South Korea, Park Geun-hye has made a certain contribution to promoting women's rights and interests, although her political achievements have been mixed. The political aspect is not judged here, and from the perspective of her personal life alone, Park Geun-hye has undoubtedly experienced the ups and downs of life.
A person who can stand out from the great difficulties has to be said in some ways to be like a phoenix in blood, from nirvana to rebirth. Whoever can rise up in suffering must have her tenacity. Let the merits and demerits be left to future generations to say, that's all.