I wrote an article last month, and then a lot of people scolded me, and I wanted to reply at first, and then I didn't bother to respond, but I didn't seem to be able to show it when I replied, I couldn't see it, and I didn't know why.
Many of the comments made by netizens are said not to look at direct scolding
It is just a combination of some actual situations to summarize their own feelings, simply share, but many people do not look at the direct scolding. The high probability of being able to see is that you want to live a good life and do not want to pay, only see the difficulties.
Read more, recommend less, don't know how they see it
There are also many people who say that they have reported it, and they don't want to write an article to share anyway. The holiday eased the mood for a while, and then saw this topic, and began to summarize and sort out the direct ideas, or to internalize and share what you absorb, so as to improve your expression ability, after all, sometimes there may be problems with the way of expression.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="21" >, realize that it is destined for an ordinary life, and it is impossible to seize opportunities</h1>
I've read a lot of books lately, and then combined with the sharing of some bloggers, when I look back, I really missed a lot of opportunities. I couldn't see and didn't want to see the opportunities that were in front of me.
When everything passed, I suddenly realized that those were really very good opportunities for ordinary people like me. Those who summarized the online stock speculation in 2006, the purchase of houses in 2009, the development of Apps in 10 years of e-commerce, 12 years of self-media, 13 years of micro-business, 15 years of virtual currency, 16 years of live broadcasting, 17 years of short videos, 20 years of funds, I missed it!
The opportunity in the future will be missed, artificial intelligence and high-tech will not have a chance with me, and I can only seize the opportunity to cultivate the next generation to catch up with this opportunity.
As a post-80s, in his thirties, time has passed and opportunities have been missed. Was it possible to be caught? Yes, it is also possible. For example, whether buying a house before 16 years can be afforded, yes. The house in the downtown area of my hometown only began to soar at the end of 16 years, why I didn't buy it, probably because of the concept problem. The 2020 fund is not to be missed, but the principal is not enough.
Whether the other ones are also possible to catch, yes, it is also possible. But to miss is to miss, always miss for one reason or another, so relying on your own ability and cognition, it is too difficult to turn over!
Future opportunities are also becoming more and more difficult for ordinary people, there is no special ability, no technology, no knowledge, no capital, and there are fewer opportunities to seize opportunities in the future. Missed so much so that I'm still an ordinary person, an ordinary family, an ordinary job with an ordinary income.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="16" > second, hope for new life</h1>
Once unwilling, always singing that I want to transcend this ordinary life, doomed to drift temporarily now. After seeing more and thinking more, I now slowly accept my own ordinariness, but I can work hard to be less mediocre.
Since the opportunities of the times are always unattainable, then rest assured to be an ordinary person, no longer expect to achieve a leap forward with their own efforts, in those people say why not chickens struggle on their own, but also hope for the next generation, I want to say that it is because of the chickens themselves, to work hard to conceive new life. Accumulate well, lay a good foundation for future generations, and make a leap forward in their own children's generation.
Hoping for a new life is not to get much benefit or to provide for us, but only to hope that the next generation can live better, seize the opportunities we can't seize in the future, and the generation is stronger than the next.
The class transition is not achieved by one generation, but I can say that I live better than my parents, live a happier life, and hope that my children will be happier than us in the future.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > Third, why did you give birth to me when you were so poor</h1>
Many people say that the poorer you are, the more you are born, the more you are born to suffer, you hope for the next generation, then you can not work hard? No, on the contrary, children are the driving force for our struggle, for them, strive to become a better self, strive for a better life.
When I was studying hard, I also asked my parents, if I was so poor, why did I have to give birth to me, why did I have to give birth? Now I am very grateful to my parents for taking us to this world and seeing the beautiful scenery of this world. Life is hard, but life is always changing, and all the tribulations will become the wealth of the future.
Movie "A Better Life"
Of course, later I found the answer in the movie "Better Life", and also healed in it, having children is the driving force for struggle, to be able to become a better self, to strive for a better life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="37" >4. Changes in the external environment</h1>
If I had been before, I would most likely have thought of not giving birth, or only giving birth to one, but in China, where the economy is taking off, there are too many opportunities in the future, if I can't grasp it, I won't have a offspring to catch up, and I won't be willing after all.
Now that the three-child policy has also been liberalized, it is really a good time to catch up, and the double reduction also makes it easier for us to be parents, and there will certainly be many favorable measures in the future. Raising children is tough, but we can still work the things we can achieve on tiptoeing.
The house and the car are really not so important, the children are assets rather than our liabilities, and their future does not need us to worry too much. It's a fact that one generation is stronger than the next!
Finally: giving birth to a new life, the bittersweet and bittersweet in it is needless to say, but in the process of conception, we all become better selves and grow up with our children.
Many things will only be understood after raising children, the solution is always more than difficult, and your energy is beyond your imagination. See the rainbow after the storm!