Hi, I'm Robert Scheinfeld!
Welcome to the Relationships Theme Series. What I want to emphasize to you is that I will invite you to think about relationships from a very different perspective.
- This perspective is not the same as other books you flip through;
- It's different from the workshop you're attending;
- Or maybe it's not the same work you do with your coach, or your mentor and all kinds of teachings;
This is my way of teaching, and I give a very different perspective because it is the only thing that works for me, and it is also what I share out of my personal experience.
Here, I invite you to look at relationships in a very different way, whether it's a personal relationship, a business relationship, or a working relationship, whether it has had a small impact on you or a huge impact on you.
- Here, I will take a closer look at the relationships, what are they?
- Why do we have these relationships?
- Why are other people treating us the way they treat us?
- How much control do we have over what happens in our relationships with others?
Again, whether these are personal or work relationships. We'll take a closer look deeply and up close.
The first seed planted
Before we go on, I'm going to build a very solid foundation, to sow some seeds, and if you're a new person, if the teachings I've shared are new to you, look at all the teachings I've shared.
Usually one of the cores of what I share is that no one thing happens in our lives that happens randomly or accidentally.
It's all the result of an intelligent plan that unfolds with a specific purpose, which is controlled by a higher aspect, a higher intelligence, a higher aspect of where you really are, which I call the true creative essence (TCE).
The same core of the teaching I share is the truth.
Although many teachings talk about it, and I have said in many places, what happens in your relationship is not determined by you alone, not by your thoughts, not by your feelings, not by your vibrations, by your energy, not by what you attract, not by what exists in your subconscious mind, not by things like this.
The core of the teaching I share is that these things that happen to us and all that happens to them are created as part of an intelligent plan, for a specific reason.
Created by our higher aspects, created by higher wisdom, not this, not this, but another part of us, which you might call the part of the Supreme Spirit, which I call the true creative essence (TCE).
The same applies to relationships.
Whatever's going on in your relationship, the hard things, the good things, the challenging things, whatever it is, it's not accidental, it's not random, it's not the result of what happens between you and others, it's not the result of what's happening within you, it's coming from somewhere else.
That's the first seed I want to plant in this part, for the foundation I want to build.
Drama is like life, life is like drama
The second part is that in the relationship series, I ask you to think about your life, just like the movie you are watching, and I will use the movie as a metaphor many times, because the film metaphor is far more accurate than any words we say about the subject of relationship in this video.
Because basically everyone loves to watch movies, in terms of personal experience, they can understand and empathize with what I share.
So, let's take a look at the characters and relationships in the movie.
When you watch a movie, you see a lot of people on screen, and in what's going on between people, there's a lot of relationships that are happening, and those relationships happen on a personal level, on a business or work level.
In movies, as I said before, nothing happens randomly or accidentally, and anything you see on a movie screen is the result of an intelligent plan that works through the playwright and the filmmaker.
If in a movie you see someone on screen, whether they're playing the main character in the story, or the small character in the story, no matter what kind of impact they have, whether one person influences another person, or one person influences a lot of people, it's intentional, and it exists as part of an intelligent plan.
Because it's important for a story that's constantly unfolding, and that's what movies are all about.
Imagine you're watching a movie:
In the movie one of the protagonists enters a restaurant;
Lots of tables in the restaurant;
Many people are sitting, eating or drinking something;
There are a lot of such people in the movie at the moment;
They don't talk to the protagonist, they don't bring any shadow to the protagonist.
They only exist in the background, so why?
Well, if you see this scene in the movie, again, everything you see in the movie, exists as part of the plan, and if it doesn't matter, if it's not needed, then it won't happen.
So you can see what I just described, and the reason is that it all makes the scene seem more realistic.
If you see two people, they are the main characters in the movie:
They walked into a restaurant where there wasn't a single person;
Or, they walk down the street and there is no one on the street;
Or, they walked into the office, which was part of their job, but there wasn't a single person in the office.
Then a lot of things will not be possible, and it will not be a funny, acclaimed movie.
So in the movie, for the unfolding storyline, if some characters appear, if the relationship occurs, this is very necessary and very important.
If these don't matter, then they don't show up, because that's how the movie goes.
Again, on the screen you see everything that is absolutely necessary, you see everything that drives the story forward, and they drive the plot in important ways, even if you fail to consciously understand it.
But most of the time we understand why they appear.
So I ask you to think about it, for you, anybody who shows up in your story, anybody you're aware of, they're even just on the bus, or on the plane, or on the street, you never spoke to these people.
It's not really a relationship, but that's part of what we're talking about here.
In terms of building the foundation, any person you are aware of, their existence is for a purpose;
If there is no purpose, if there is no important purpose, if it is not as part of the intelligent plan that enables you to be aware of them and allows them to influence you, then they will not exist.
The same is true of your life, just like in the movies.
In this section, we can go into more depth, but I only have a short time to spend with you here. In my offline course at the Ultimate Freedom Experience Camp launched in China, I'll talk about it in more depth
At present, due to the impact of the epidemic, there will be a period of time when I will not be able to come to China, which is why we are now conducting online courses.
That's the second thing I want to share with you, for the part that builds the foundation, for the part that I sow in the discussion of the subject of the relationship.
So, let me repeat:
In your life, everything that happens in a relationship, whether you call it a good occurrence in a relationship or a bad thing in a relationship, some people have a little impact on you, some people have a huge impact on you.
Whatever it is, if someone else gets involved, then it's not accidental, it's not random, it's part of the intelligent plan in operation, the part of your higher intelligence, which I call the true creative essence (TCE).
To some extent it supports your life story, the story from birth to death, in a very important way, even if you can't fully understand it, even if you can't understand it at all, even if you can never understand it.
For me, that's the truth, the great truth.
And I ask you to think about your life, what happens in your life, what happens in your relationship, it's the same for everything, but we're talking about relationships here, which is very similar to what happens in the movie.
Again, everything presented in the film is purposeful, part of an intelligent plan, part of a written script, and without a doubt crucial to the unfolding of the plot, to the way the storyline is set to unfold.
There's a lot of things that have to do with the metaphor of cinema, which is so precise and quite supportive for our lives, including relationships.
(To be continued...) ）