If you love someone, love her the way she likes. In reality, too many people love others in the way they feel they love each other, and they can't get the approval of others. It is all giving, and the care when you send charcoal in the snow and peace is of course different in the eyes of the sister.
Students love others in their own way, and often get the result of "let's be friends", "I don't feel sorry for you", "my parents don't agree".
In fact, this is all an excuse, if you can give her enough to rely on, she is not willing to break up, who said that girls break up is not sad, but in the end she does not know what to do except mention the breakup.
Today, I use the actual situation of a student to analyze how to read the woman's heart.
The trainee is 36 years old, has no experience in love, and has only been in love once before meeting this girlfriend. The woman is 21 years old, the youngest in the family, who suffered domestic violence in the previous relationship, psychological trauma and insecurity. Currently unemployed at home.
The trainee said that she and I met online, and at first it was just a simple greeting, and later she should have seen that I had a good feeling for her. Once, she took the initiative to talk to me about the inner trauma, and I was very sad for her. I think she is a gentle and kind mushroom cool, soft on the inside and sunny on the outside, I sympathize with her, I want to protect her.
Later, I took her to dinner, bought clothes or something, and during that time she was also very active, and she should like me quite a bit. One day, she told me that I was so good to her, she was very stressed, and gradually she was hot and cold to me, and her information to me was sometimes returned and sometimes not returned.
Mentor analysis
When a girl takes the initiative to approach you, it shows that you have something to attract her, and your attraction comes from your value.
Being too good to girls will make you lose your price. Many times, brothers think that chasing girls is to give gifts, please eat, and ask for warmth, which is actually very wrong. Not only will it put pressure on the girls, but you will also become worthless yourself.
When meeting a girl they like, most brothers like to take the initiative to chat with the girl, the content of the chat is whether they have eaten or slept, and every date will seem very nervous, and even dare not look at the eyes of the girl. And we see those Oba in Korean dramas, not to mention the looks and body, at least you have to learn to be confident in yourself, which is half the battle.
It is not that blindly good to girls can get her favor, sometimes bully girls, but also get the good feelings of girls, what you have to do is to release freely, want to indulge.
Immature, childish, emotional
Women are often emotionally influenced by things and thus insecure. And if a man also likes to be emotional, he will appear unstable and cannot give girls a sense of security.
Don't know how to show your value
In all relationships, the initial attraction comes from value. Value is divided into hard value and soft value, hard value is the material aspect of money, and soft value is your character, character, the way of dealing with people, and so on.
In the process of interacting with women, we must learn to constantly show our own value, otherwise we will enter the trap of girls, and men who cannot extricate themselves usually have nothing but knowing that they are blindly good to women, as if the world can't get by without this woman.
But from the woman's point of view, that is, I am giving you, you are relying on me, then your value does not exist, over time, the girl will slowly alienate you. Pay attention to me, there are more practical love skills to teach you, I am a strategy we will see you in the next issue.