#全网帮 the "hardest Chinese" to find his son #
I saw this news on my way to the company and suddenly felt that the whole world was empty. Moving heavy stuff around, more than 200 at a time just for family subsidies.
Is the new crown infected person in Beijing Shandong Rongcheng part-time worker looking for a son father? Local police: Investigating
People are gleefully exploring the world, wandering through the ocean of digitization, looking for all sorts of so-called "real and virtual" connections, and even thousands of people in a company stay up late doing data, optimizing functionality just to get real-life users to stay on an app for a few more seconds and a minute.
What is real life like?
I often feel that we see more of the hustle and bustle of the online public opinion field, the "I" and "you" on social media will gradually strengthen, and the feeling of "I am how big" will blur the differences in the world, so that the real and cruel life will be written into news and presented in front of our eyes, which is amazing.
But do you know what's the saddest thing about this?
The vast majority of what we can do is just sit by and discuss.
If there is no new progress, the timeline of the hotspot is up to 14 days, and after 14 days, our attention will be updated and activated by the new hotspot, and then into the next discussion.
In the face of such a public opinion ecology, what else can we do?
It must be admitted that we do not have the capacity to do much. After all, the bystanders who rushed through the scene simply did not have the strength at all.
There are so many points that he can touch people's hearts, but the most heart-wrenching thing is the following paragraph:
On August 12, 2020, he said that he had a stomach upset and was going to go home to find his mother, and the director of the food factory sent him to the bus station, and then he was lost, and suddenly disappeared and did not get into the car. I was still fishing in the sea, but on the 15th of the same month, I rushed home to find my children. I called the police at the local police station, wanting them to locate my son's mobile phone, adjust the monitoring to find someone, they said that this is an adult, do not give the location of the mobile phone, two or three days later, my son's mobile phone will be out of power and shut down; as for the monitoring, they said that they only manage the car, regardless of people, do not give the adjustment. It took three months for the case to be filed.
Later, I went to the Weihai Municipal Public Security Bureau, and the Weihai Municipal Public Security Bureau pushed the case back to the Rongcheng Municipal Public Security Bureau. I went to the Shandong Provincial Public Security Department and then to Beijing. I think that in the days when my son was lost, if I had been located, I would have found it. There is no hope now. At that time, my wife cried at the door of the police station for two days, and they ignored it, and the director was still very difficult to hear.
We usually see so many good people online that we lose some of our empathy for vulnerable people. I couldn't help but wonder how the comments would have been discussed if the news had been on the hot search at the time.
I also went to the hospital morgue to inquire. On October 12, 2021, they saw me petitioning, saying that a body was my son and asked me to go to the Second Hospital of Rongcheng City to identify the body. I saw the man, his face unclear, very fat, round face. My son is 1.74 meters tall and very thin with a long face. I don't think it's my son. I said I wanted to test the bones of the corpse, and they didn't want to. At first, he said that it would take dozens of days to go to the Weihai City Public Security Bureau for experiments, and then he said that the doctor was on a business trip, and after half a month, he called me and said you don't bother me, don't add a burden to me.
Presumably some people will say that the disappearance itself is not filed, or that the police will help find it if they are lost without waiting for 24 hours?
After suffering everything, what was his wish?
I don't feel pity either. I just work hard, I don't steal or rob, rely on my own strength, rely on my own hands, earn some money, earn money to find children. It's for life, for taking care of this home.
I looked for children and spent tens of thousands of dollars so far. Part-time work is a casual job, and when you earn money, you find children, and when you have no money, you work part-time. I worked hard to get my child back. I worked harder, even if I put my life in it, I still had to get the child back.
Some time ago, Sun Haiyang found his son Sun Zhuo, and now the family of 5 lives happily, I can brush the video of their family every day, see them happy every day, it is easy for these lost children to empathize.
Life is like this, no one can foresee the misfortune of the future, a child can destroy a happy family. There are too many ordinary people who deserve our sympathy, but sometimes there is nothing they can do. I hope he finds his son as soon as possible, this is the most important thing for this family and him, if it were not for the fact that he was looking for his son to travel around, he might not have the new crown, and I hope that he can also recover as soon as possible and be reunited with his family.
Pictured: Photo of the missing son