A life of independence and solitude

A life of independence and solitude

Yellow Evergreen/Original

There are always such people, there are always some times when people have paid hard work, but they can only live a plain, ordinary life. They just don't have a high income and live a life that needs to be tailored; they need to pinch their fingers and calculate, squeeze their money bags to live, can we blame and laugh at them? Or do we friends and family need to lend ourselves a helping hand, give them love and support, give them help and cheer, and change the status quo of life?

The ideal is full, the reality is bone. Everyone and every family has their own way of living. No matter what kind of choice, it is everyone's freedom to choose, and friends, relatives and family must learn to respect, understand and tolerate.

There is no need to blame for perfection, or even discriminate, compare, and accuse others to elevate themselves and satisfy their vanity and wealth; they must learn to balance themselves, adjust their mentality, find a reason for themselves to go down the ladder, find the joy of life, and learn to be "poor and happy".

A perfect life is a spiritual pursuit and yearning that is different from the perfection of life and advanced. We should be kind to others and seek harmony. Career pursuit, we should work hard, be proactive, have a place to do, and show our talents. Only by living a down-to-earth life and being a human being can we not rise and fall, have an unbalanced mentality, or rebel against each other, or even lose touch with relatives and friends.

Climbing the dragon and attaching to the phoenix, the tendency to inflame and attach the situation is the manifestation of different aspects of people's inferior roots and abnormal outlook on life, so that some "ugly" or humble lives may be helpless choices or means of survival in order to achieve the purpose of survival; it may also be the way of life and the concept of lofty ambitions that some people are accustomed to, we cannot blame for perfection, and there is no need to agree with people, or even imitate.

In real life, we need to clean ourselves up, and we need to protect ourselves, but we want nothing wrong! Try to be a self-disciplined person, a law-abiding person; don't get into the flowers and weeds, different streams, even if the heavens have the virtue of good life, they are very small, and they practice what they preach!

In interpersonal communication, we should mention less "virtual strength" and less "punching the shell". Such a "fake beating" act is like drinking to quench thirst, degrading and deceiving others, and also anesthetizing yourself! It is not real, but it is also awkward and feels too tired of contrived and disguised.

We don't have to play in front of others, unprincipled pandering, contrived, or even hoping to exalt our status by showing off and showing off, expecting to sit on an equal footing with rich people and people of status! Satisfy your own vanity.

Facing the shortcomings of real life calmly, doing our best to pay our own hard work, creating wealth, changing real life, owning a home and everything is our only right choice.

A quiet, peaceful, contented life does not have to be lofty and luxurious. We don't have to pursue flashy happiness, gain the approval of others, and don't have our own bones and self-esteem!

I'm in charge of my life! My happiness I create! Such a concept of life is the embodiment of our spirit of independence and solitude, and it is the personality manifestation of our personality charm! How can we put the cart before the horse?