Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and there is a loss of self-preservation. In general, there should be no rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd avoidance. Know Yourself: Promote your most prominent talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you understand your strengths and grasp it, all people will be prominent in something. No exaggeration: Exaggeration is detrimental to truth and can easily lead to doubts about your opinion. The shrewd restrain himself, show a cautious attitude, speak concisely and concisely, and never exaggerate himself. Overestimating oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very bad impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your elegance and intellect.
Adapt to the environment: Survival of the fittest, do not spend too much energy on chores, and maintain the relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you. Something new must always be felt. The person who shows a little bit every day will keep expectations and will not bury your talents. Big-sighted: It's easy to think about poverty when you're prosperous. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain relationships between good friends and colleagues, and one day you'll value people or things that don't seem important right now. Don't lie and lose faith: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid saying big things, we must do what we say, and it is better not to say what we cannot do.
Looks are not annoying, if you don't look good, let yourself be talented; if you don't have talent, then always smile. Temperament is key. If fashion is not good at learning, I would rather be simple. When shaking hands with someone, shake them for a while. Sincerity is a treasure. You don't have to use "I" as the subject to insist on saying good things about others behind your back, don't worry that this good word will not reach the ears of the parties. When someone says something bad about someone in front of you, you just smile. Self-criticism always convinces people, but self-praise does not. Don't expect everyone to like you, that's not possible, getting most people to like is a sign of success. If you see a post that's worth seeing, then you must reply, because your reply will give people the courage to move on and will give people a lot of motivation. At the same time, it will make people appreciate you.
Don't talk to your colleagues about the rights and wrongs of your boss or other colleagues, your inadvertent words are likely to become evidence that others are hitting you. Learning is endless, not only to learn book knowledge, but also to learn how to treat people, society is far more complicated than you think. To live in this world, people must first learn the word "forbearance." You can't be in tune with everyone in life, but one thing is universal: how you treat others, how others will treat you. When others criticize you, even if he is wrong, don't argue with it first, and then explain it after everyone has calmed down.
Only when you have the ability to do it yourself is really the ability not to expose the shortcomings of others. When listening to others, don't move your eyes. This seems very rude. When he finished eating, he said, "I'm done eating, you use it slowly." "Handing people water and rice must be hands. Don't look at someone while they're staring at you and pretend they didn't notice. When others pour water, do not look at it dryly, but use your hands to show courtesy. No matter how smart, capable, and well-equipped a person is, if he does not know how to do people and do things, then his final end is definitely failure. Doing things is an art, but also a science. The reason why many people have been doing nothing all their lives is because they have lived a lifetime without figuring out how to do things.
Everyone lives in the real world, eager to succeed, and many people with lofty ideals have paid a lot for the dreams in their hearts, but they have received very little, this problem can not but cause people to think deeply: you can't say that they are not hard enough, not industrious enough, but why did they end up with nothing? This deserves serious consideration on by each and every one of us. On the surface, it seems very simple to be a person and do things, and who wouldn't? In fact, if you are a teacher, your subjective desire is to be a good teacher, but in fact it is not popular with students; you go to business, your subjective desire is to make a lot of money, but you lose money. Putting aside these superficial phenomena and exploring the crux of the problem, you will find that doing things is indeed a difficult science to master.
It can be said that doing things is a science that involves all aspects of real life, and it is impossible to get a glimpse of it from any aspect alone. In order to grasp this knowledge and grasp its essence, it is necessary to refine and summarize real life and come up with some laws of universal significance, so that people can have rules to follow and not be confused. In terms of dealing with people, few people do a good job, first from the point of view of making friends, making friends should be called worthy friends, doing things to do meaningful things, and slowly learning to be people and dealing with things.