I used to think that it was a pity that Qi Heng and Minglan could not be together, but this time re-brushing "Knowing or Not" saw the plot of the fifth and sixth episodes to understand that Qi Heng was not suitable for Minglan from the beginning, and his love revealed the selfishness of not knowing the suffering of the world, which would only bring trouble to Minglan.
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Qi Heng is the only son of the Principality of Qi, who grew up being loved by thousands of people, and has such a strong and capable mother, no matter what it is, Qi Heng does not have to worry too much.
However, if it is too protected, it is inevitable that it will be in a state of ignorance about the sinister situation of the world.
Of course, Qi Heng's nature is undoubtedly kind, but he is under the protection of the group leader's mother, too ignorant of human suffering, like this boy, he wants anything, he can be wantonly begged, can also be liked without scruples, anyway, no matter what, there are people to help him to the bottom, and in his capacity, generally no one dares to disobey him.
But Minglan is different, as a maid, from a young age, she watched her birth mother and brother being killed, although she was later adopted by Mrs. Sheng, but as Minglan said, she can't be too sharp, so as not to cause trouble to her grandmother.
Unfortunately, Qi Heng did not understand Minglan's bitterness, and when he liked Minglan, he blatantly approached Minglan and gave her gifts.
Minglan leaned on the grass and dozed off against Xiao Tao, and Qi Heng deliberately asked Xiao Tao not to be silent, and crept over to take the book to Minglan fan.
Later, his actions were seen by Gu Tingye and Sheng Changbai, who deliberately dragged Qi Heng to the shushu first in order to help Minglan avoid suspicion.
From this point, it can be seen that Qi Heng's love reveals selfishness and willfulness.
He liked Minglan but he had never stood in Minglan's point of view for her, as an unmarried man approaching an unmarried woman in broad daylight, and making such an intimate act, if this had been passed out in ancient times, Minglan's reputation would have been almost ruined by him.
Fortunately, those who saw this scene were all their own people, otherwise others would definitely talk about Minglan's behavior and laxity, and did not abide by women's morality.
Qi Heng as a man, at that time the society itself had a high degree of tolerance for men, but the woman's words and deeds were stared at in the rules and regulations, and it was not allowed to exceed half a point, otherwise others would have to put a watery Yanghua hat on you.
Chang Bai knew that he was guarding his sister's name festival, but Qi Heng was doing things that might affect the Minglan festival in the name of love.
Not only that, the matter of sending a pen to Minglan can also reflect that Qi Heng's love is too selfish, he only cares about vigorously expressing his love for Minglan, but he completely ignores Minglan's difficult situation in Shengfu.
Minglan was punished by Zhuang Xuejiao for copying books, Qi Heng openly stopped Minglan, first offered to help her copy the book, after seeing Minglan refused, he thought he was sending Minglan pen and fruit, Minglan did not intend to receive it, Qi Heng directly forced it to Minglan and left.
Qi Heng thought that he was good to Minglan by giving Minglan a gift, but he didn't know that what he called "good" had brought trouble to Minglan.
Just when he gave Minglan a gift, Sheng Rulan had been secretly observing, seeing that Qi Heng was so good to Minglan, Sheng Rulan's disgust for Minglan in his heart was a little more.
In fact, since Wei Xiaoniang used her own death to warn Minglan to survive in the courtyard of the deep mansion, she must know not to stand up and not to emerge, Minglan has become very low-key, deliberately covering up her wisdom, but Qi Heng completely disregards Minglan's situation and gives Minglan gifts in public, which not only destroys Minglan's reputation but also attracts the jealousy and resentment of other sisters.
After Minglan was forced to give the pen to Rulan and Molan, Qi Heng also blamed her for not appreciating it.
Looking at this, I just want to say that this proud son of heaven, Qi Xiaogong, does not understand what a fearsome person is.
If you really like it, you should be like Gu Tingye, and make plans behind your back, and get closer after making sure you can give her a name, instead of blatantly destroying her reputation if you can't marry her.
2
Compared with Qi Heng, Gu Tingye's love for Minglan was much more comfortable.
Although the difference between Gu Tingye and Minglan's life is also relatively large, because he and Minglan have encountered sinister people since childhood, Gu Tingye knows more about Minglan's difficulties than Qi Heng, and also knows how to express his love for Minglan within a safe range.
Take the case of Yuyang Minglan coming out of the funeral but encountering Liu Kou, after Gu Tingye stepped forward to save Minglan, he gave her a hidden arrow to use for self-defense on the way back, and when Minglan went back alone, Gu Tingye had been escorting Minglan behind his back.
Shi Shi did not understand why Gu Tingye did not personally escort him, but instead secretly followed Sheng Minglan.
Gu Tingye said that Sheng Minglan was now serving the mourning period, and if people saw her being sent back by herself, it would inevitably be gossiped.
Gu Tingye also likes Minglan, but he likes Minglan in the right way, and he will not be like Qi Heng, completely disregarding whether his liking will hurt Minglan, just thinking of wantonly venting his heart.
Therefore, it is reasonable that Minglan will finally choose Gu Tingye but reject Qi Heng.
One is the selfish liking of not knowing the sufferings of the world, and the other is the liking of thinking about you everywhere.
Anyone will be touched by the latter.
Of course, Qi Heng's growing environment from childhood determined that he would not understand how difficult it would be for a woman to survive in the deep mansion compound.
So the way he expressed his liking was so naked, and he couldn't imagine how much hatred his actions would give Minglan.
Coupled with the fact that he has always had the protection and honorable status of his mother, what he wants is given to him by others, and Minglan is just a small maid, in terms of the pride in Qi Heng's bones, it is not her honor to like Minglan, why do you need to worry about those courtesies and shames, anyway, from the small mother's favor for herself, if it really destroys Minglan's reputation, it is a big deal to marry her back, anyway, in his opinion, the mother will not refuse.
Although Qi Heng's selfish liking of not knowing the suffering of the world stems from the environment in which he grew up, it is undeniable that the way he expressed his liking did hurt Minglan and caused Minglan a lot of right and wrong, which shows that they were inappropriate from the beginning.
So not being able to be together in the end is also the best arrangement.
After watching "Knowing or Not", it was difficult for Qi Heng and Minglan to be peaceful, and later when I brushed these details, I realized that the original inappropriateness of Minglan and Qi Heng laid the groundwork at the beginning.
It can only be said that the first love is beautiful, but after hurting and loving, we will always meet the person who is most suitable for us.
Past articles
"Knowing or not": Why did Lin Xiaoshuang allow Wei Xiaoniang to give birth to Minglan in the first place?
"Know it or not": If Wei Xiaoniang really turned to Mrs. Sheng, would she be accepted?
"The Legend of Mi Yue": When throwing pots, why would Mi Yue prefer to risk offending Mi Yin and win her?
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