When I was a child, I liked to eat tomatoes, thinking that I would love them for the rest of my life.
But when you grow up, you don't like to eat, you don't love to eat.
There is no reason.
I'm not wrong, and neither am I wrong with tomatoes.
What is wrong is only those self-righteous lifetimes.
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What is it like to give up on someone you've liked for a long time?
One of the high praises replied: "You will find it difficult for you to fall in love with someone else anymore."
It's like, you've written an article in earnest, and the teacher has torn it off and said you've scribbled your handwriting and asked you to rewrite it.
You remember the beginning and the passage, but the article that was torn off took all your energy, and only one ending left you to start all over again. ”
From now on, whenever you think of that person, you will repeat it several times in your mind along with everything that happened in the past.
He was once your armor, but then it became the pain of never speaking to anyone again.
And you think, unless deliberately, this life, most likely, is never seen again.
The imagination is all "If you had one more ticket, would you come with me?" ”
But where in the world there is an if, the only result is the one that has already happened.
It is a divine fate to meet a person who likes and understands each other, but if you do not grasp it and do not cherish it, even if it is a destiny, it will become a regret.
The biggest regret in people's lives is not to miss, the most sad thing is to think back one day, always feel that the original "could have been", but unfortunately things are not people, everything is "no longer possible".
Like a line in the movie "Later Us": "Later we have everything, but we don't have us." ”
It seems that we all have to go through three stages in our relationship.
When you are young, you are inevitably naïve, and when you hold hands, you really feel that this life is TA, and a lifetime is the most solemn commitment that can give each other.
Later, it became more and more clear that there was no direct relationship between the result of love and the time of love.
It is yours that is yours after all, and after seventy or eighty turns it will still come back to you; if it is not yours, it will eventually be lost, even if every minute and second is together, even if the oath is spoken ten thousand times.
Later, I was slowly relieved, "There is nothing difficult to reconcile, and when you meet, you sign it."
In the past, I would feel that it was a pity to like and finally like, but now I prefer to believe that the things that are easily lost are not really ours, so it is not a pity.
And those seemingly abrupt endings are actually just the fate of every relationship and every thing.
Just as the key will be lost somewhere, the ice cream will melt to the ground, the milk will be knocked over and spilled, and the loved one will choose to leave.
When that moment comes, no matter how sad and sorry you are, try to say goodbye as decently as possible, don't say if, don't think about maybe.
Convince yourself and let the past pass. Adjust your mentality and state as soon as possible, and the future can come as scheduled.
Today I saw a passage that said:
In fact, in this world, it is really difficult to meet the kind of people who can share happiness.
It's the kind of guy who doesn't envy you, doesn't laugh at you, just simply because you're happy and is happy for you.
That is true.
Being put in the heart of anyone is not a matter of course, and cherishing it well can last.
I hope you always have good luck and will not miss the last train, and I hope that you will always remember to cherish and will not miss the people who love you.
Good night and a good dream.