Mention Yan Geling, I have to mention one of her novels, "A Woman's Epic".
The novel was written by Yan Geling on a mission to Africa in 2004 and was published in China in 2006. The novel is based on Yan Geling's parents, her mother was a drama actor, her mother loved her father very much, but her father was never touched by her mother, when Yan Geling was 15 years old, her father proposed a divorce to find his own love.
"A Woman's Epic" has also been adapted into a TV series of the same name, and once it was broadcast on Jiangsu Satellite TV, it achieved the first good result in the golden file of Jiangsu Satellite TV.
This novel mainly tells the drama actress Tian Sophie's inseparable love for the old revolutionary literati Ouyang Yun from Shanghai, who has been "earning" for her marriage all her life, and Ouyang Yun has been looking for his confidant all her life, they have experienced the changes of the times together, and their small family has also found a home in the rings of history.
So, how did Sophie Tian "earn" her marriage and stabilize her family.
1. Meeting him is her "robbery"
All encounters are predestined, beautiful or regrettable, and they are all in ourselves.
In the years that followed, perhaps Tian Sophie also thought that if she had not met Ouyang Yun, or if she had been late, she might have married the chief Du Han and lived the life of an official's wife, and would not have experienced later suffering.
However, the arrangement of fate is always difficult to understand, Tian Sophie met Ouyang Yun and fell in love with him at first sight. Xiao Fei launched a strong pursuit of Ouyang Yun. It is said that men chase women across the mountain, women chase men, and the layer of yarn. They had a child by mistake, and Ouyang Yun decisively gave up his dream lover and married Xiaofei.
Although we do not agree with Xiaofei's approach, girls should be self-respecting and self-loving, but we have to admire her courage. She wanted to be with Ouyang Yun, just as brave as she had been to run to the revolution without looking back for a sweater.
Ouyang Yun is Xiao Fei's "robbery", she has suffered a lot for him, and she has also suffered a lot, but she still tries her last strength again and again to defend her love.
In life, how many of us can be so bold, we will always have all kinds of scruples, even miss the people we love, miss the people who love each other.
2. Trust in marriage is the best glue
Some people say that a solid marriage requires tolerance for each other. It is also said that marriage is fidelity. In fact, the most accurate statement should be that marriage is like a shoe on the foot, whether it fits or not, only the foot knows.
Some people say that Tian Sophie loves too much without self, in fact, when we carefully read this work, it is not difficult to see that Ouyang Yun has many opportunities to leave Tian Sophie, but he does not, because Ouyang Yun does not care about their marriage at all.
Ouyang Yun was away from home for a while, and an ugly affair occurred between Xiaofei and actor Chen Yiqun. Ouyang Yun suddenly returned and interrupted the relationship, but how could the gossip not reach Ouyang Yun's ears? He chose to trust his wife, just as he had believed in Duhan's care for Xiaofei for many years, and never doubted their relationship for this, and lived their life with Xiaofei.
If in married life, if both husband and wife lack the most basic trust, they naturally cannot go on. Therefore, trust is the glue that allows the two to lean close together and support each other.
3. What makes them come to the end is still "clumsy" love
Xiaofei's daughter Ouyang Xue said that Xiaofei loved too stupidly and too hard, just like she acted on the stage, and used her full of bull strength.
Ouyang Yun has been conceited and high all his life, and he always wants to find a woman who can understand him and can pursue poetry and distant places with him. Therefore, he betrayed Tian Sophie again and again, and Xiaofei wanted Ouyang Yun to be happy, and she did not hesitate to borrow public funds to satisfy Ouyang Yun, make him happy, make him happy.
Tian Sophie didn't understand Ouyang Yun, she didn't understand what Ouyang Yun wanted, she didn't care what he wanted, she didn't care who he had in his heart, she just used all her strength to love her lover.
Yan Geling said in the article "Mother and Little Fish" that her father was sent down, and her mother secretly fried small fish for her father in the middle of the night while she and her brother were asleep. This is not like Tian Sophie, in order to supplement Ouyang Yun's body, Xiaofei ignores the danger and goes alone to catch toads in the suburban pond in the dark night.
Some people say that the most humble love is knowing that the other party does not love you, and pretending not to care.
In fact, this can not say that Sophie Tian's love is humble, she is interpreting her happiness in her way and maintaining her marriage. It is also Tian Sophie's clumsy love that supports them through the changes of the times and towards happiness.
Yan Geling interpreted Tian Sophie in the interview: "Only persistent people will love clumsily. It is precisely because of this clumsy love and persistent persistence that Tian Sophie finally earned her long-term marriage and earned her happiness.