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It is often said, "Born of sorrow, died of comfort." ”
An overly comfortable life will destroy a person's self-motivated heart, and life is a process of constantly enriching oneself.
A life that is too idle is a disaster for everyone.
Whether a person is good or not depends on how he looks when he is idle:
Some people cultivate hobbies and interests in their free time, and some people have nothing to do, waste time in vain, and end up lamenting that time is really fast.
As everyone knows, life slowly passes in idle time.
Too idle life, sooner or later abolish a person.
Idle and idle, a person is ruined
It is often said that if it does not erupt in silence, it perishes in silence.
People who can keep themselves idle are often not self-motivated.
I have seen such a philosophical story:
A man came to a place where a waiter came up and asked, "Sir, is there anything you need help with?" Everything you could want could be offered here. ”
He was very happy to hear: "This is the life I want!" ”
So he stayed and lived a life of doing nothing every day, doing whatever he wanted.
Finally, one day, he tasted all the world's food, enjoyed all kinds of scenery, and he felt very bored.
So he said to the waiter next to him: "I'm tired of all this, can you get me a job?" I want to find something to do. ”
Unexpectedly, this time the waiter rejected him: "I'm sorry, but this is the only thing I can't satisfy you." ”
He was furious: "This kind of life is so boring, I might as well stay in prison!" ”
Life is like this, blind idleness will only make people fall into the abyss of pain, dilemma.
Samuel said: "The greatest poverty of mankind is that everything goes well, there is no need to work hard, and eventually the hope is shattered, and there is no longer a desire to struggle." ”
Just like things are not used for a long time, idle for too long, they can not be used. People are the same, a person who is idle, will gradually lose his spirit, more and more lazy to think and progress.
Saying goes:
Practice one day of exercise one day, one day without practicing 100 days of space; three days without practicing laymen, and four days without practicing staring.
Idle life, perhaps comfortable, but behind the ease hides great danger.
Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
Don't wait until the risk comes to think of effort, don't wait until halfway through life to regret not starting early; seize the moment, so that life is not wasted.
People live to the extreme, but they are not willing to idle
Romain Rolland once said:
"The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom."
The writer Yan Geling is a very self-disciplined person.
Many of her works have been remade into films, with long-established directors such as Zhang Yimou, Feng Xiaogang, Ang Lee, Chen Kaige, Jiang Wen and so on
Since becoming a writer, Yan Geling has published more than 30 books.
Even now, approaching the age of 60, she has never stopped writing.
Because of the perennial writing, in fact, her body encountered many conditions, but she was never accustomed to herself, and she had 4 hours of writing every day as planned, and she couldn't move.
In an interview, talking about how a woman can remain beautiful, she said:
"One age has an age of beauty, or rather charm. Temperament is ageless.
Women can never give up on themselves, nor should they not obediently serve the old and desperately dress up. The heroines in my book are all indifferent to the wounded spring and pity the spring, and they are not idle people. ”
A person who is idle will eventually lose his value.
In "Round Table Pie", Jiang Fangzhou is the youngest resident guest. She has always had the title of "genius teenager", but she still has a sense of crisis when she becomes famous at a young age.
She said:
"Once a person falls, even for a few short years, God will take away your gifts and strength as quickly as possible."
So she keeps learning, constantly exploring new areas, and once she is in a state of having nothing to do for a long time, she will panic.
When a person is idle, the body and soul are subjected to double torment:
Physically, just like people who do not walk for many years, the calves will shrink, and idleness will keep health away;
And idleness will also be easier to think wildly, people will gradually become depressed, lose enthusiasm for life.
So, the best thing to do is to keep yourself busy, hard, but valuable.
Too idle life is actually a disaster
In the art of war, one drum blows, then declines, and three exhausts.
Life is the same way.
If you are lazy, you naturally like to procrastinate, thus losing combat effectiveness, and at the same time, people will become unserious and get by.
Astrophysicist Hawking developed atrophic lateral sclerosis of the spinal cord at the age of 21, and doctors say he can only live for two and a half years at most.
If he bows his head weakly in the face of fate and says to himself, "Forget it, it's only been two and a half years anyway", so that he can live a miserable life, then he can only disappear in mediocrity in the end.
But he said to himself: "Time is only two and a half years, not much, try to do something meaningful, let life leave a little glory." 」 ”
His condition gradually worsened, his muscles atrophied day by day, his walking became more and more unstable, and even standing became difficult.
Despite his efforts, fate had robbed him of his ability to move, and only two of his ten fingers could move.
Nevertheless, he never stopped thinking, letting his assistant spread the information on a small table and read it page by page.
His body never left the wheelchair, but his mind flew out of the earth, out of the solar system, out of the Milky Way, tens of billions of light-years away, into the depths of the universe, flying to the mysterious black hole.
Yuan Longping once said a sentence in an interview: I have not thought about retirement, and I am most afraid of becoming demented after idleness.
Deeply.
In real life, many people have only age, but they do not have the ability, because they never force themselves to grow.
When encountering a problem, there is no way to solve it, but to find a way to avoid it.
It may be happy to be idle, but happiness often contains a deadly poison.
Life is so long, always have to do something, never be complacent because of "idle", now make you comfortable with the things, will always destroy you one day.
In a long-term stable and comfortable environment, people will lose their sense of crisis.
As everyone knows, every gift given by fate is secretly marked with a price.
When I am idle, I think I have earned it.
In fact, this is not earned, but gradually scrapped themselves.
Idle people are used to complaining, and the resentment in their bodies is getting deeper and deeper, but their skills are not long, and their lives are getting more and more depressed.
And busy people, the ability is getting stronger and stronger day by day, there is no time to complain and worry, and life is getting better and better every day.
Author: Xiao Xiao
Source: Philosophical Life Network (ID: zxrsnet)
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