"Ask what the worldly situation is, and the Orthodox Church promises life and death." These two poems speak of the longing and yearning of all sentient beings for love, and the kind of vigorous and desperate love makes people envious.
The pursuit of true love and the vision of a better future are the goals we strive for and the source of our perseverance. We often say that "happiness is won by ourselves", after encountering the object of our choice, we should take the initiative to attack and do everything possible to chase the other party to achieve a beautiful marriage.
Some people entrust non-people to fall in love with someone who is not worthy of love at all, and the more she tries, the worse the results will be, and even pay a painful price.
Ms. Wang is like this, she fell in love with the rich man who was 14 years older than her, she fantasized about marrying him, did not expect the original match to find the door, accusing her of being a "fox spirit" who destroyed other people's families, Ms. Wang could not stand such humiliation and almost did something stupid.
When she was young, Ms. Wang looked very pretty, and many young men pursued her, and Ms. Wang chose a man who could speak and make her happy. Ms. Wang thought that this man would bring her happiness, and after getting married, Ms. Wang found that he had a lot of problems, quarrels and cold wars became the norm of life, and the marriage lasted only three or four years.
This failed marriage made Ms. Wang physically and mentally exhausted, Ms. Wang began to distrust men, at the same time her attitude towards feelings changed, she wanted to find a man who truly loved her and hurt her and was willing to spend the rest of her life with her, otherwise she would rather be single for the rest of her life.
By chance, Ms. Wang and Mr. Liu met, and Mr. Liu talked well, matured and steady, leaving a good impression on Ms. Wang. Mr. Liu took the initiative to show kindness to Ms. Wang, Ms. Wang naturally understood Mr. Liu's careful thinking, Ms. Wang has experienced emotional hurt, she does not dare to believe in men casually, and she does not dare to easily start a relationship.
Ms. Wang did not refuse or pander, she needed to take the time to get to know Mr. Liu, Ms. Wang's ambiguous attitude aroused Mr. Liu's desire to conquer, and Mr. Liu pursued it more violently.
With the deepening of the exchange, Ms. Wang knows more and more about Mr. Liu. Mr. Liu has a house and a car and has good economic conditions, and Mr. Liu runs a chain of restaurants and is a local owner with a head and a face. Mr. Liu likes Ms. Wang very much and often gives Ms. Wang gifts and takes Ms. Wang in and out of high-end places.
Mr. Liu is gentle and considerate, meticulous, always able to take into account Ms. Wang's feelings, and mr. Liu together makes Ms. Wang feel unprecedented happiness and happiness. Ms. Wang was knocked unconscious by the sudden love, and she was trapped in this relationship and could not extricate herself.
Ms. Wang and Mr. Liu have been dating for more than a year, and Mr. Liu has spent more than 100,000 yuan on her. "A man spending money for you is a manifestation of love for you", Ms. Wang is convinced of this sentence, she firmly believes that she and Mr. Liu are true love, and she loves Mr. Liu without hesitation.
Mr. Liu has repeatedly stated that he is single, but Ms. Wang has found that Mr. Liu has many mysteries. For example, When Ms. Wang mentions Mr. Liu's family, he hides it, Mr. Liu sometimes does not want to spend the night at Ms. Wang's house, Mr. Liu always secretly answers the phone behind Ms. Wang's back, although Mr. Liu's actions are suspicious, but Ms. Wang believes in Mr. Liu's character, she did not take it seriously.
One day, Ms. Wang received a text message from the other party claiming to be Mr. Liu's wife, and she asked Ms. Wang to leave Mr. Liu immediately so as not to cause unnecessary trouble.
After knowing this, Ms. Wang was quite annoyed, she did not expect Mr. Liu to have a family, and she did not expect that she had become the lover of a husband with a wife. Ms. Wang couldn't bear this breath, and she offered to break up.
Mr. Liu explained: "My wife and I have no feelings for a long time, divorce is sooner or later, the person I really love is you, I will definitely marry you in the future!" Mr. Liu admitted to cheating on Ms. Wang, and he apologized for it and promised to divorce and marry Ms. Wang as soon as possible.
Ms. Wang has a lingering feeling about the previous marriage, Mr. Liu's deception once again touched Ms. Wang's fragile nerves, Ms. Wang refused to forgive Mr. Liu, and even more refused to accept Mr. Liu's request to reunite, Ms. Wang insisted on severing the relationship.
Mr. Liu spent a lot of time and money on Ms. Wang, how could he give up? Mr. Liu repeatedly sent threatening text messages to Ms. Wang, and at the same time expressed the idea of being with Ms. Wang forever, but even so, Mr. Liu still could not shake Ms. Wang's determination to break up, and they were entangled on this issue.
Ms. Wang tried every means to hide from Mr. Liu, and to Ms. Wang's surprise, Mr. Liu actually ran to Ms. Wang's house with his wife to make trouble.
Mr. Liu's wife accused Ms. Wang of destroying her family, is a full-fledged "fox spirit", a group of people surrounded Ms. Wang, said all kinds of unpleasant words, Ms. Wang has a hard time arguing, from beginning to end Mr. Liu looked at her coldly and did not say a word of justice for Ms. Wang.
Mr. Liu is old and heavy, mature and golden, has status and status, and Ms. Wang fantasizes about marrying him so as to live a comfortable and comfortable life, but this is just her wishful thinking. Mr. Liu has a family with a wife and children, Ms. Wang is just Mr. Liu's pastime, after the matter was exposed, Mr. Liu also took his wife to the door to ask for guilt, after experiencing a series of events, Ms. Wang was deeply shocked.
Ms. Wang's mother also can not accept this matter, the old man was angry and sick in bed for several days, Ms. Wang could not see her mother for her sorrow, and could not bear the humiliation, Ms. Wang could not think of a moment to drink pesticides to find short-sightedness, fortunately the family found out in time, otherwise the consequences were unimaginable.
Ms. Wang had an unhappy marriage, and her desire for a happy life was stronger than that of ordinary people. After meeting Mr. Liu, she was confused by Mr. Liu's rhetoric, blinded by Mr. Liu's family wealth, she fell in love with each other, and fantasized about marrying Mr. Liu, but she did not know that she fell into Mr. Liu's trap step by step.
Ms. Wang's pursuit of a better life is understandable, but she started a relationship without a comprehensive understanding of Mr. Liu, and rushed into love without understanding Mr. Liu's marital status, which is the root of Ms. Wang's tragic experience.
It is undeniable that Mr. Liu's approach is immoral and disgraceful, but Ms. Wang is lustful and blinded by Mr. Liu's appearance and money, and her behavior is very irrational.
I hope that Ms. Wang can learn from these failed emotional experiences, seriously reflect on herself, take every step of her life in the future, and at the same time, when choosing the other half, she should polish her eyes, carefully screen, and do not give people with bad intentions an opportunity.
Ms. Wang has experienced two failed relationships, what do you have to say to her? Do you think Ms. Wang deserves sympathy? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.