Happiness is your own, and only by grasping yourself can you get true happiness.
Y Sauce racked her brains to keep her boyfriend. The boyfriend chatted with someone and said that she liked short hair, and she actually cut off the long hair that she had left for three years. The boyfriend said that she liked the big chest, and she was already a D cup, and she actually planned to do breast plastic surgery. Her boyfriend likes the street style, so she abandons the cute wind that suits her and spends all the money on buying new clothes. In addition to appearance, she also did her best to meet her boyfriend's requirements.
She went to buy small things that could guard love, and superstitiously believed in every so-called love code. But in the end, the boyfriend left her.
After that, it took a long time for Y Sauce to get out and began to embark on the road of blind dates and boyfriends. Once found it again, the cycle was circulating, Y Sauce felt very heartbroken, did not understand why he was suffering so much, the whole person was haggard and gloomy.
Her good friend is on the opposite path, she has no boyfriend, and she lives freely and alone. When Y Sauce was thinking about how to please her boyfriend, Lu Lu was thinking about how to make herself happy. She goes to see plays, travels outside, reads books in her spare time, learns to cook, and can make a good dish.
Meet regularly with little sisters to do beauty, fitness. She has a wide range of knowledge, and can talk to anyone she chats with. Although some people think that it is problematic for a woman who is almost thirty years old not to marry and not to have a boyfriend, Lulu does not mind at all, and lives her life freely, not to please anyone, but just according to her own wishes. Although Y Sauce was very envious of her, he could never do it.
Y Sauce once asked Lu Lu how not to care about the outside world's eyes. Her family had been urging her to get married, because she was almost thirty years old. A lot of people think that women should get married before the age of thirty in order to have children. This makes Y sauce very stressful, constantly dating, treating everyone as a marriage partner and a life-saving straw, which is desperately trying to please.
Lu Lu told her not to think about the so-called standards if she wanted to be happy. Just follow your own heart, don't be afraid that no one loves you, even if no one loves, you can live happily.
Too many people like to point fingers at other people's lives, but no one wants to be responsible. Once influenced by them, they are kidnapped by so-called social standards and lose themselves. Y sauce is too concerned about those standards to let yourself fall into one strange circle after another. In fact, does she really need love so much? So need a boyfriend?
When she didn't have a boyfriend before, she was as dashing as Lulu. It was only as she grew older that the voices urging her to marry engulfed her, and the various criteria for judging women made her panic. In order to become the elder and the woman expected by everyone, Y Sauce began a journey of chasing love. In order to achieve the goal of marriage as soon as possible, she is afraid of losing and does not dare to be herself.
In fact, every woman has an independent soul and can live well without love. It is not the man who makes a woman lose her independence, but the sense of crisis. If you break up, you will be talked about, you have to get married if you have to find a boyfriend, etc., these are the real culprits that make women lose themselves.
Too concerned about other people's eyes, too much concern about the rules of society, too much concern about other people's gossip, and even based their own judgment standards on these, this is the Y sauce and many women often make mistakes. Y sauce passed through the road reminder, but also felt that he did not need men so much. It is only because she is afraid of becoming a family member and the old girl that many people say cannot marry out, that she desperately pursues love and keeps love regardless of self-esteem.
Many people say to go with the flow, and so do feelings, once forced to chase after external forces, only yourself are hurt. If you want to not be swayed by the outside world, you must cultivate your own strong heart and have your own things as support.
Feelings cannot be forced, life cannot be forced, and since these cannot be forced, the only thing that can be done is to live your own life. Just like the road, live your life in the way you like. I don't care about other people's eyes, I don't care about worldly gossip. Because happiness is your own, only you can experience it, and only you can grasp it. Once you put the criteria in the hands of others, you will only make yourself miserable.
There are many ways to judge life, and it is not that having a rich and good husband is success. Many people are rich and their husbands are good, but they are not happy. Returning the right to judgment to oneself and living only in a way that makes oneself happy is the greatest happiness. Living under the eyes of others and social rules will only lose oneself.
Later, Y Sauce also understood these truths, and she also began to stop paying attention to the urging of others, sink her heart, and wake up from the pursuit of love. She also began to live with her heart, focusing only on herself, rather than focusing on how to achieve the goals set by others. No longer bound by those so-called social norms, no longer pleasing men, just so as not to become an old woman that other people can't marry. Y Sauce feels a lot happier, just like many years ago, just be yourself, don't care about others.
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Happiness is your own, and only by grasping yourself can you get true happiness. What others say cannot replace your thinking, and you can't blindly chase and lose yourself because you are afraid of becoming something in other people' populations. Know that no one but yourself is responsible for your life.