"The kid just went out at 8 o'clock! It's been three hours now and I haven't come back, help..."
At 11 o'clock the night before, an anxious voice came from the opposite side of the police hotline of the Paitou police station, saying that the child was running away from home in a negative mood and urgently needed help from the police station.
The son of the policeman, Mr. Zhang, is 14 years old this year, and like most middle school students, Xiao Zhang likes to play with adults' mobile phones during the holidays.
On the night of the 17th, Xiao Zhang wanted to take his sister's mobile phone to play games, his sister did not let him, the sisters and brothers quarreled because of this, Xiao Zhang ran out in a thin coat despite the cold weather, and the whole family went out to look for more than two hours without finding it.
After learning the details, the police Mao Relay arranged for the auxiliary police in the station to find Xiao Zhang's figure through the video screen on the one hand, and on the other hand, he took several auxiliary police officers to search all the way near Xiao Zhangjia.
"The temperature is only a few degrees at night, so cold, he can't stand it all the time, he is likely to find a place to shelter from the cold." With this in mind, Mao Relay asked everyone to focus on searching for shelter from the wind.
The hour hand passed 12 o'clock, the search has been carried out for nearly 2 hours, cold day, but the police are steaming hot because of the rapid movement around.
Finally, when passing by the doorman of a certain community in Paitou Town, the police found that there seemed to be a figure in the backlight, and when he turned on the flashlight in the past, it was a teenager sitting on a chair shivering, he had tears in the corners of his eyes, and he didn't know whether he was scared or frozen.
When asked, this "shadow teenager" was Xiao Zhang, who everyone was looking for, and the police immediately took him to the police car, let him warm up first, and then drove him back home.
"Thank you! Really thank you! Otherwise the child doesn't know when he'll be back! ”
Seeing that Xiao Zhang was safe and sound, the family showed a grateful smile.
Before leaving, the police gave Xiao Zhang some enlightenment, then criticized his behavior of running away from home, and instructed the family to pay attention to the communication method for children of this age, and parents should also mediate the contradictions between children in time.
# Shu has something to say #
Winter vacation is coming, the child stays at home for a long time, and sometimes there is some friction. Running away from home may seem simple, but it is actually a very dangerous behavior, the child is young, poor judgment, alone outside, it is easy to encounter unpredictable risks.
How can teenagers be prevented from running away from home?
1. Parents should pay attention to observing the child's psychological state and emotional reaction at various times in their daily life, communicate with the child in time, understand the child's voice, help solve the problems encountered by the child, and form a good family atmosphere and parent-child relationship.
2. Parents should pay attention to observing and paying attention to their children's Internet access and dating, and timely discover abnormal behaviors in communication, such as indulging in online games and recharging a large amount of money; chatting with netizens for a long time affects sleep, losing interest in learning, and unwillingness to communicate with parents. After discovery, we should strengthen peaceful communication with children and correctly guide children to use the Internet and make friends healthily.
3. Strengthen children's awareness of self-protection and help improve their security precautions, such as not easily leaking their own identity information and private information; do not trust others; do not be tempted by others; strengthen their awareness of self-protection and do not go to appointments alone. In case of danger, call the police for help in time.
What should I do if my child runs away from home?
1. Report the case in time and get police assistance! Strive to grasp the child's dynamics and exit direction in the first time.
2. Start from yourself, find the reason why the child ran away from home, and think about how to solve the problem after finding the reason.
3. Focus on positive persuasion education, actively guide, and avoid such things from the root causes.
Edit: Si Yuru
Review: Wang Yu
Contributed by: @Paitou Police Station