The Best State of Life "Good Night"

Time flies, the years are hurried. At the end of the year, are you also planning how to live in the new year?

In the past year, all the encounters, gains, losses, and growths have been transformed into the strength to keep us going, and also to make us more aware of what is the best state of life.

01 The ability to stay happy

When people reach a certain age, life seems to have pressed the accelerator button. Waking up every day is like a top, busy with work, busy with life. If the purpose of hard work is to achieve happiness, then no matter how busy your daily life is, don't forget the ability to stay happy.

　Bask in the sun on a cold day, carefully tidy up the room, buy a few flowers, immerse yourself in a good book... The so-called happiness is actually composed of many small pleasures. In the new year, please continue to love, maintain the ability to feel happy, calmly face the impermanence of life, and live every day into a wonderful day.

02 Life self-discipline, change yourself

　Confusion and stress actually run through every stage of our lives and iterate as we age. But what is different is that some people are willing to sink in, and some people become better selves. The biggest difference between the two is whether you can maintain sober self-discipline. I have seen the saying, "The first solution to life's problems is self-discipline." Without this link, you cannot solve any troubles and difficulties. "People may be able to achieve temporary success by relying on small cleverness, but what can make you go further must be your diligence and persistence."

03 Always be grateful and born to the sun

Gratitude is an attitude towards life that stems from our love and hope for life. In the new year, may we all always have a grateful heart and remember every touch. Grateful for the selfless efforts and protection of parents, grateful for the hardships and hardships of lovers in the wind and rain, grateful for the encouragement and support of friends at low points, grateful for the warmth around them bit by bit.

Even if there is still wind and rain in life, we must be a person born of the sun.

04 A little less complaining, a little more positive

You've also had such bad moments: sometimes at work, you meet difficult customers and nitpicking bosses; sometimes in your relationship, you quarrel over a small matter... It's easy to get caught up in huge emotional ups and downs because we're not happy at all.

But have you ever found that the more negative energy words are said, the harder it is to see the positive side of things? And the smarter people are, the more they know how to tolerate the bad parts. In the days that follow, bad things will happen, but fortunately we can choose how to face it. When you stop complaining and face it with a more positive attitude, life will have surprises.

05 Good health always comes first

I used to think that "to grow up healthily" was a congratulatory message that only children could receive. However, the more I experienced, the more I felt that "peace and health" was the most sincere blessing in the world.

　In the new year, physical health should be ranked first. Stay up late less, work and rest regularly, temper tobacco and alcohol, eat healthily, and take care of your body. Take a break when you're tired, go to bed early when you're fine, don't grit your teeth and brace yourself, and don't let your health overdraft.

06 Reduce dependence and learn to be self-reliant

We've all been dependent on others, parents as children, friends, lovers, and even strangers when we grow up. But everyone has their own way to go, and if you rely too much on others, you will only plunge yourself into endless sorrow and sadness.

In 2022, we all have to reduce our dependence and try to do what we have to do. When your heart is strong, you are no longer afraid of loneliness; when you are self-reliant and self-reliant, you will have a broader choice space, step by step closer to the more you like yourself.

07 Be a simple person and live a simple life

Some people say that the more complicated things you go through, the more you want to return to simplicity. In the new year, no longer pursue useless social circles, spend more energy and time to improve themselves; no longer enslaved by desires, no longer bound by past emotions, the past is cleared, and lightly traveled forward.

Be a simple person, have a simple heart, and live your life the way you want it to be.

08 Always love the present and look forward to the future

The most tender sentence I heard in these two days was, "I have ended up with the old things, and this year is still blossoming." "I've always felt that what's more important than life itself is the lifestyle and attitude to life.

Everyone has a difficult journey in life, but don't be afraid, keep going, and your life will eventually become beautiful and vast. No matter what you encounter, please always remember: don't stop running, continue to run in your love; don't live up to the time, and embrace your own life.

　In the new year, I wish you success and happiness. In the days to come, may we all become better people.