Famous Artists Gallery | Guan Shanyue, formerly known as Guan Zepei, is a famous Chinese painter and educator. Representative figure of the Lingnan School.
Life has never had a universal formula.
Some people say that life has never been a universal formula, and everyone grows up in a lot of trouble.
In fact, the more complicated the puzzle, the simpler the answer sometimes.
After thinking about this life, in the final analysis, there are six words: no fear, no regrets. Not afraid of losing, not afraid of suffering, not afraid of the unknown; not regretting the mistakes made, not regretting the choices made.
Many people must have had the experience of knowing that some things have long since lost their original meaning, but they are still reluctant to give up.
If we are willing to face reality, we will find that what is really painful than the result of loss itself is the process of fear of loss. The attachments that arise from this are like heavy shackles, trapping a person firmly in place, trying to break free but unable to.
When you get something, you want to hold it in your hands all the time, which is a good expectation.
But when life is always unsatisfactory, a person's maturity lies precisely in knowing how to accept shortcomings and cultivate their ability to bear loss.
Cherish it when you have it, and let it go when you have to lose it.
What is the truth about the adult world? It is inevitable that everyone will have to experience some suffering and difficulties, and only if they are not afraid of suffering will they not be bitter all the time.
Some people are always reluctant to suffer. When you encounter a little setback, you complain a lot, or simply push away and escape, and the result is that you are also retreating step by step, allowing yourself to cross and fail.
People who are truly sober must be people who know how to face difficulties. Even if the difficulties are great, they will still choose to face them with all their might, because they know that these are the experiences that must be experienced to grow.
There is never an easy life, but in every suffering, there is a reward.
Famous Artists Gallery | Guan Shan Yue
Sometimes, some people tend to worry too much about the future.
To do something, you always have to think about it, and even think about all the worst results, and in the end not only did nothing, but also added a lot of troubles.
The way to be responsible for the future is to seriously grasp the present.
Put the focus on the process, and let yourself do the immediate thing in the best state, everything will develop in a good direction.
Look down on the gains and losses and enjoy the process.
A friend often talks to me about the past, saying that the biggest mistake he has made in his life is that he did not make the right career choice in the first place.
In fact, there is nothing in life that "knows this", and some are just "facts and circumstances".
For mistakes made in the past, no matter how much it has affected a person, it is already a thing of the past, and no amount of regret will help.
If you want to minimize the cost, the only way is to stop the loss in time from the moment you realize the mistake, and then learn the lessons you should learn from it to avoid repeating the mistakes.
To some extent, all the mistakes we have made can become a wealth in life, as long as we have the wisdom to face and resolve them.
There is a kind of road called the detour that must be taken.
Although looking back now, you may wonder how you could have made such a choice in the first place, but perhaps that is the choice that you will inevitably make based on the conditions of your cognition and ability at that time.
Ten thousand steps back, how many people can make all the choices?
As there is a saying, the multiple choice question of life, no matter how you choose it, there will be regrets.
There are many detours to take, but there is no road in the world. To understand this, I believe that we will no longer struggle with whether to make the right choice.
In the end, the best choice is never right or wrong, but the choice that a person has the least regrets.
The rest of your life is still very long, may you remember, do not have to lament yesterday, do not have to worry about tomorrow.
Light up "watching", may you live every day, always clear and frank, no regrets and no fear.
Author: Nian Nian Source: Nian Nian Mu Xin
Xinhua News Agency New Media Center, Xinhua News Agency Audio and Video Department
No regrets and no fear!
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