Zhang Ailing once said: When she saw him, she became very low and very low, low to the dust. But her heart was joyful, and flowers blossomed from the dust.
This classic love quote vividly depicts the woman's humble and condescending posture in love, the state of suffering from gain and loss.
In fact, is it not only a woman who is humble in love? Even if he is rational like a man, he will fall in love with a woman and can't help but fall into it and can't help himself.
Men who are emotional will willingly humble and give everything for the woman they love.
As long as you can exchange for a bright smile on the other side, you will do anything without complaint or regret.
This is the expression of deep love for someone.
However, not all the efforts will be rewarded. Not all love can blossom from the dust.
To love a woman again, you must also know how to grasp the measure and love with dignity. In this way, you will be respected and cherished by her.
A woman's three requests, the more you refuse, the more she tends to love you.
01. Refuse to stick together all the time and leave appropriate space for each other
Once a woman falls in love with a man, she wants to see each other all the time, and stays with the other party all the time, inseparable.
A woman's willingness to stick to you is enough to show that she has your place in her heart, and she values you enough to be enthusiastic about you.
And a woman who does not love you will only deliberately alienate you and keep a certain distance from you, how can she stick to you?
A woman who asks to be with you all the time and is willing to stick to you, although she loves you from the bottom of her heart, this love is not rational enough.
Because a truly long-lasting love is to know how to grasp the measure and grasp the scale.
Sticking together all the time, it is easy to lose the freshness, so that each other is tired and disgusted. It's like holding two people in a cell, which makes people feel suffocated.
Men should know how to refuse to stick with women at all times, keep an appropriate distance from each other, and leave appropriate space for each other.
In this way, we can give each other the space to imagine, maintain a sense of mystery and freshness, close the distance between the two people, and enhance each other's feelings.
02. Refuse to compromise without a bottom line and let the other party see their principles
In fact, it is a woman's nature to love to be spoiled.
There has never been a woman in this world who will not be spoiled. It's just that the way each woman coddles is different.
Especially in front of the beloved man, women will be extremely willful and desperately spoiled, which is a way to ask for attention and love.
However, for women's wayward pampering, men can be appropriately tolerated, but do not compromise without a bottom line and make concessions without principle.
In the case that the other party has not violated their own principles, appropriately tolerate the other party and let the other party feel their love.
However, when the other party challenges her own bottom line, dare to refuse her unreasonable request, show her own hole card, and let the other party see his principles.
Excessive pampering will not only not make a woman restrain her sharp edge, but will make her inch. Only by adhering to the bottom line of care and tolerance can we get the attention and cherishing of women.
03. Refuse to humble and please each other, and establish a relationship of equality and respect
Every woman will desire that a man's love for himself is greater than her own love for him.
Because, even in love, everyone is selfish, there will be a certain selfishness, will expect the other party to give more, love themselves more.
However, even in love, men and women are equal, and there is no distinction between high and low. Both sides need to respect each other and give to each other.
Men should learn to refuse to humbly please each other and establish equal, respectful relationships with women.
You can spoil women and cherish women, but don't be humble and flattering, lose your principles, and lose your bottom line.
Because of humble love, it will never be paid attention to and valued by the other party. Equal love will harvest a decent and dignified in love.
Emotional Message:
Love a woman again, and don't forget to stick to your principles and be a decent man.
The three requests of a woman, the more you say no, the more she tends to love you.
You have to learn to refuse to stick with women all the time, to leave appropriate space for each other, to create a sense of mystery, to maintain a sense of freshness.
You have to learn to refuse bottomless compromise and let women see their own principles in order to get the other person's attention and get dignified love for themselves.
You have to learn to refuse to be humble and flatter each other, establish a relationship of equality and respect, and let each other love each other in an equal atmosphere.
Love without a bottom line is never valued. Only decent love, dignified love, and valuable love will be cherished.
May every man learn to love a woman appropriately, so that your love will shine in the sun and last forever.
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