Once we said "women are pleasing to themselves", now we say "women are pleasing to themselves".
Everyone knows that Samantha actor Kim Cattrall refused to star in the sequel to Sex and the City, and recently heard that she may parachute into Lily Collins starring in the TV series Emily in Paris! After the news came out, the original reputation of this American drama plummeted, and the topic of this American drama suddenly doubled, after all, who can refuse to be able to Fabulous to 140-year-old Samantha!
Why Kim Cattrall refused to play HBO Max's Sex and the City sequel is already an open secret, and even if it is rumored that each starring actor will be paid up to $1 million per episode, it will be difficult to impress Kim. She bluntly said that she and the other three leading actors are not intimate, and even in IG spit SJP fake benevolence, always using unwarranted sisterhood to set up a person, but Kim has really been too lazy to pretend.
"After filming SATC, I left New York, and everyone's contact was naturally less, and I and them were never just acting." Plus I'm 10 years older than them, which is why I don't want to make a third film – 60-year-old Samantha? Forget it! ”
Not only because she can't play together, but also because she is not optimistic about the "just leftovers" game, and even directly shouted the screenwriter in the interview: "I only ask the producer to promise me one thing, that is, never arrange any plot for this character to have children, never." Because Samantha is not one of those people. ”
After Kim confirmed his resignation from Samantha, the internet exclaimed: "Sex and the City" without Samantha can only be called "The City"!
"Sex and the City" is a lot of post-80s and post-90s enlightenment American dramas, and when they were chased before, they would be Mr. Big and Carrie's emotional ties will also yearn for the scene where Carrie writes about the window; occasionally longs to be a professional role like the legal beauty Miranda Hobbes; and later feels that Charlotte's gallery art work is also a romantic option...
But after more and more experience, we found that Samantha's self-confidence is the quality that can hit the heart and impress us the most.
"I love you, but I love myself more."
"I've always been Comfortable."
"The old lady doesn't care."
Speaking of blonde beauties with high heels, do you have the idea of objectifying women? But the presence of samantha, the blonde beauty, tells us that the only one who can define herself is herself.
She met Richard, who was on an equal footing with herself, and her heartbeat warning made her panic for a while. She was also constantly wary of the "hard nature" at the moment she chose to embrace love, so after misunderstanding Richard's stealing, she made a decision. Instead of being suspicious and losing yourself, give yourself back: "I love you too, Richard. But I love me more.”
Leaving an unworthy relationship is about meeting better love: Smith is a star 20 years younger than her, and he's willing to shave her hair with her while she's on chemotherapy.
Everything changed until Smith bid on Samantha's favorite ring and gave it to her, because she was Samantha: "Once upon a time, whenever I saw this ring, I would think of myself, but now, all I can think of is him." 」 ”
Samantha strives to get what she wants most, including the initiative in love, so the premise of this "good" must be "given by herself".
When she left Smith, she still said the famous Queen's words: "I love you, but I love myself more." But this time, she gave a note: "I have been with myself for 49 years, and I need to maintain this relationship even more." ”
How not to lose yourself in a relationship? Maybe it is too abstract to say "love yourself", but it is better to say that you should not be swayed by material desires and lusts, and be your queen in love.
"Buckle my hat less."
"It's awesome that an innovative leader is so blind."
“Hi，My name is Fabulous.”
The economic base determines the superstructure, do not have to worry about chai rice oil and salt, but also have enough confidence to support themselves to live the life they want most.
Samantha, the richest of the four, lived the life she wanted early: the workplace suit is still a dressing template and even referenced by the former president's wife, Melania; there are deposits to support her small interests as a loyal jewelry lover, from vintage to couture; even if friends say that Hermès is not her style, she does not hide her desire for Hermès!
But no one ever imagined that Samantha, who is very fond of luxury brands, is only from a working class and has an alcoholic father. Because of this, she learned to navigate the workplace with ease when she entered the society early: she could calmly pull out her business card and introduce herself to customers at the time of the crowded party: "I'm Fabulous".
Such a flamboyant style of doing things is too pompous? She gave an explanation: "If I care what others say, I just don't go out!" ”
Admittedly, the PR industry isn't as flashy as it was in the TV series, but Samantha's life credo holds true — it's hard to succeed if you always put what other people think first. It is no wonder that she can not only sit in the position of public relations director early, but also be a "part-time" boss in the outer self-reliance portal.
"The old lady is amazing! What an age! ”
"I need to wear reading glasses, but there's nothing to be embarrassed about."
"As long as the old lady still has a breath, I can wear whatever I want, and I can do whatever I want!"
Samantha is always full of flowers, always with high-saturation colors you don't expect to wear on her body — because she never uses age as a yardstick. At the age of 45, she said " I don't have anything to hide " ; when the 52-year-old waiter questioned that the skirt was not suitable for her , she said " The old woman can wear this dress at 52 years old " ; when she heard her friend complain that she was 35 years old, she replied , "I'm still 140 years old" when she hears her friends complain that she is 35 years old!
We love her disdain for age, love her teeth and claws, and in the end we love her love and fearlessness in life.
She has her own clear sexual standards, doesn't please men, and doesn't mind dating women, but can justifiably reject men who come to talk on girlfriend nights. Because if you want to maintain the balance of your own world, you must first strictly abide by the rules of the game you have set.
She said she was "not the kind of woman who wastes her time with men," so she threw a "no baby party" when people around her longed for marriage. She doesn't like to go with the flow, but it doesn't mean she's an "outlier", she just knows exactly what she doesn't want and what she wants.
Friends suffer from loss for feelings, she directly bombards and scolds each other, she is the best girlfriend, but also the most sober wise. Because powerful as when she hears others talking about her, she will turn around and scold the sentence that we all want to shout out when we are mentally bullied: "If you want to say anything, say it to my face"!
"Yes, I'm demanding, I'm demanding, opinionated and self-sufficient. But more importantly, I'm always right, in bed, in the office, and anywhere. Even 20 years later, Samantha is a pioneering independent woman, teaching us to "forget what others think and do what's best for herself" and tells us that "it's her style not to judge others."
A lot of people say, "If you have half of Samantha's confidence, life won't be like this," and no, you've missed her wisdom.
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