In May, the weather starts to get muggy. Don Juan is an employee of the company. At lunchtime, her cell phone kept ringing, as if urging her to answer the phone quickly.
The caller ID is "Mother-in-law". As soon as Tang Wang answered the phone, his mother-in-law said loudly: "Hope, Jenny has a high fever, you hurry home and take her to the hospital." ”
Don Juan immediately asked the leader for leave and took a taxi home. In the car, Don Juan called her husband and urged him to hurry home and take the child to the hospital together.
But the husband said impatiently on the phone: "I am very busy today, I don't have time, you take your child to the hospital by yourself." ”
Don Juan felt very aggrieved. Every time my daughter got sick, my husband was always too busy to take my daughter to the hospital because I didn't have enough time.
She also has to go to work and cook for everyone when she comes home in the evening. She could have gone up the hall and down to the kitchen, but her husband was not aware of her hardships at all. With just a few words, she was sent away and didn't have to go home to take care of the children.
Many times, although Don Juan was married, it was as if he had lost his husband.
When Don Juan returned home, he saw Jenny's face turn pale. As soon as he saw his mother, he shouted, "Mom, I'm so uncomfortable." Don Juan looked at his daughter very distressed. She immediately picked up her daughter and asked her mother-in-law to pack up her things and go directly to the hospital.
After arriving at the hospital, Don Juan hurried to the emergency room. The doctor prescribed some fever and cold medicine to Jenny and instructed Jenny to take the medicine on time. Don Juan anxiously asked the doctor, "Is the child okay?" "The doctor told her that the child just had a cold and fever and was fine. At this moment, a stone in Don Juan's heart finally fell.
Don Juan dragged his tired body, hugged his daughter, and went home. When the mother-in-law saw that her daughter-in-law was so tired, she said: "Why is Jianwei busy all day long, and even his daughter has no time to come back to see?" ”
The mother-in-law continued, "Look, when he comes back, I'll talk to him well." Tell him not to just be busy with his career and ignore his family. ”
Seeing that the mother-in-law is so sensible, the grievances in her heart have also dissipated a lot.
Before entering the marriage hall, Tang Wang was the goddess in Jianwei's heart. I never dared to slacken off, but after getting married, Jianwei's attitude changed a lot. Although the work is very busy, sometimes you should also have a good rest and spend more time with your family, so as to create a warm family and environment.
Don Juan felt that she was a woman who needed her husband's company. She hoped that her husband would love her as much as he did when he was unmarried, instead of being a hand-thrower every day as she is now, entrusting her with the big things and small things in the family.
Don Juan was waiting for her husband's text message, hoping that her husband would comfort him and take good care of his daughter, but after waiting for a day, he did not get a message from his husband.
She finally broke out and called Jianwei. As soon as Jianwei answered the phone, Tang Wang said, "You've been busy all day and don't have time to send messages?" Daughter has a high fever, you are never around, at least make a phone call or text care this should be able to do it! ”
Jianwei replied: "I am really busy, and it is enough to have you and my mother take care of the family." ”
"If you don't want to have children, don't let me have children in the first place."
"Didn't I pay for the children?" Why is it called no children? ”
Don Juan was so disappointed that he hung up the phone. In Don Juan's heart, companionship is far more important than money.
To support a family, you not only need money to support your family, but also need to accompany your wife and children when they are most helpless.
At eleven o'clock in the evening, Jianwei returned home with a smell of wine, and fell asleep as soon as he entered the room. Don Juan couldn't suppress the anger in his heart and roared, I and my daughter are in your heart, what is it? ”
Don Juan put his hand on Jianwei's neck, hoping he would wake up. Finally, Jianwei shouted, What do you want to do, you? ”
Don Juan cried and said, "It was you who made me a resentful woman, and it's all your fault!" ”
In this marriage, don Juan made her feel particularly tired because of her husband's inaction.
Usually to take the children, wash clothes and cook, physical work is very tired, she only wants her husband to understand his hardships, care more about himself, maybe mentally can be much easier.
But Don Juan's husband is a selfish man, and after marrying Don Juan, he returned to the life of a bachelor, which made Don Juan heartbroken.
Any form of widowed parenting can make women feel tired in marriage. Therefore, Don Juan's husband should adjust his father's mentality in time, give Don Juan some spiritual care, and work together to raise the family well.