Women's beauty is reflected in "outward beauty" and "inner beauty".
"Appearance beauty", that is, the figure and appearance belong to the level of beauty, which makes people feel moved when they see it;
"Inner beauty", that is, good qualities such as kindness, virtuousness, and gentleness, are the "beauty" that can be discovered after spending time with them, unlike "external beauty".
"Outward beauty" is short-lived and unstable,
It cannot withstand the "polishing" of time and the "erosion" of wind and frost, just like the flower season, once the season has passed, the face is as withered and haggard as a flower. This is something that no one can change.
"Inner beauty" is relatively enduring and stable,
Because a woman with a good nature is likely to maintain this kind nature for the rest of her life, and the accumulation of random time and the increase of experience, her good quality is likely to be like wine, more and more "mellow".
From this, it is obvious that "outward beauty" is always "depreciating" more and more with time, and "inner beauty" is usually more and more "value-added" with time.
So when we look at a woman, we should not only look at her "appearance", but also pay attention to her "inside".
Just as we have the old saying "marry a wife and marry a virtuous person without marrying a look", putting the importance of virtue above appearance, such a rational and wise choice fully demonstrates the wisdom of our ancients.
So the question is, if a beautiful woman with a bad character and a woman with good character but an ordinary appearance, choose one of the two, let you choose one to be your partner, which one will you choose?
I think most boys will still choose beautiful women. Even if she is a "snake and scorpion beauty", I think most boys will still be willing to fall under her pomegranate skirt.
Because most of the boys' reason still can't overcome emotions, in the face of "beauty", how many boys can resist it?
This may be the performance of "men are visual animals",
Maybe it's a footnote to "heroes are sad to be beautiful",
Maybe it's the excuse that "love is unreasonable."