Warm spring, can not withstand the temptation of the grass and flowers outside, invited to a friend's house to gather green, said that the invitation is actually a friend in recent years career development, newly built country house, golden house hidden jiao, the husband and wife feelings cracked, invited three or five friends to take advantage of the spring to bridge and repair its slightly flawed marriage.
The newly purchased villa of friends is indeed a quiet environment, suitable for human habitation, surrounded by clear water, surrounded by green trees, there is no city hustle and bustle, but there are songs and swallows dancing, a quiet and quiet. Before I got close, I saw a bright red apricot out of the wall early, and this scene could not help but make people have the reverie of "the spring color of the courtyard can't be closed, and a red apricot comes out of the wall". For friends, it is not the wife's red apricot out of the wall, but the friend's pocket is gradually bulging, and there are new joys, even if the front is full of flowers, but the wolf smoke in the rear is continuous. As a mutual friend of the couple, even if they are clever, they don't know where to talk. For the family, for the children, for the cause, extinguish the passion, maintain a dead marriage; for the heart, for the love, for the freedom, break through the shackles of marriage, take a brave step, no matter how persuaded, can be left and right. But it is really difficult to be able to get into the affection, into the reason, into the heart, and find a way that both husband and wife can accept. Here we do not predict the future of the couple, but the reason for their failed marriage can indeed be used as a lesson for everyone.
The husband and wife of the friend originally belonged to the same state-owned enterprise, but later through the matchmaking, they eventually became a family. The husband is talented and gentle, and the wife's small family jasper, such as the bird yiren, is a good match recognized by our circle of friends that year. After marriage, the two are like shadows, the feelings are very strong, the husband sings with the woman, the qinse and the ming, becoming a model of a beautiful family in the circle of friends. However, with the restructuring and bankruptcy of the state-owned enterprise where the couple is located, a harmonious family is instantly plunged into the quagmire of embarrassment. Forced by the pressure of life, the talent of friends has been fully reflected, the enterprise can not be relied on, simply do it themselves, cobble together to raise funds to set up their own company, after the hardships of the rock wind and rain, the brilliant rainbow finally appeared. However, just when the friend's own career is in full swing, the feelings have shifted, the marriage has cracked, and the taste can only be experienced by himself. Perhaps when the economy is in difficulty, the wife weighs more on the pots and pans of the family of three and the oil, salt and vinegar, less the gentle romance of the two-person world and the birds rely on people, more of the tediousness of life and nagging complaints; there is no fashion pursuit, the sarcasm of the husband is increased, and the communication of getting along day and night in the past is missing. Perhaps it is the beginning of a friend's career, paying more attention to the infinite expansion of the social circle, devoting himself to his beloved career, and ignoring his wife who suffers and shares hardships and hardships, and the daily rush makes him have no time to take care of his wife's emotional needs. In short, it is until the husband and wife get rid of the difficulties of life and the economic distress, but it is the day when the relationship between the two is flawed and the marriage is difficult to maintain.
This is the trajectory of a friend's marriage, who can say whose problem is the problem? I don't know how many people are now following this fading trajectory.
People are passionate, the pursuit of fresh fashion, the exploration of endless mysteries are the common characteristics of human beings, and emotions and marriage are no exception. When they first fell in love, they were full of many novelties and secrets, and they were closely attracted to each other. After marriage, as the days are prolonged day by day, the novelty and secret between each other are slightly depleted, the emotion will be inadvertently shifted, then if you can understand each other, get involved in each other's various fields, constantly innovate, and constantly create novelties and secrets, you can adjust the shift of the emotional boat in time; if you are still the same, each along their own path, the feelings of the two will gradually drift apart, and the marriage boat will no longer dock in the family's harbor.
Modern open ideology and marriage ethics provide theoretical guidance for people to break through the shackles of marriage, which binds emotions, and the mode and structure of production and life in modern society also provide convenient material and technical conditions for the deviation of people's feelings. The Grand View Garden of Life and Society not only provides countless Lin sisters and bao sisters for men, but also provides countless bao brothers or bao brothers for avant-garde women. Colleagues who get along day and night can go out of the wall with red apricots and interpret extramarital romances; infatuated men and women at the end of the world can also play gorgeous online love songs.
The proud husband who is struggling on the stage of life, please return to the prime minister to see Xiao Yu when the wind and waves are calm; the wife who is struggling between family and society, please look at the tired husband in the hurry. Next to the table, on the side of the bed, there is more communication and understanding, less complaints and suspicions; erudite, mutual improvement, more novelty and mystery, less monotony and silence. Let the feelings and marriage be under the inspiration of "if the two loves are long-lasting, will they be in the twilight of the dynasty", in order to make the two loves last for a long time, pay more attention to the twilight of the dynasty.