A person's appearance can be said to be the first business card of this person to go to society, and when everyone has not yet known you, the first impression of you must be very important.
Therefore, the current medical beauty industry is also extremely hot, and many people are willing to pay a high price in order to make themselves more beautiful.
For example, in order to make the face smaller, cut the bone; in order to make the nose high, the ribs will be removed and put into the nose; in order to look younger, they will constantly inject themselves with some injections.
We have nothing to blame for the love of beauty, but excessive pursuit of beauty will make this society develop in an abnormal direction.
Now not only girls love makeup and plastic surgery, but more boys are also joining in.
When you go to South Korea, where the plastic surgery industry is developed, you may feel that although plastic surgery makes people look more beautiful, it has lost the essence of beauty.
Although there are many beautiful women and handsome men on the street, they seem to be made from a mold, just like we feel when we see Africans, there is a barrier to their facial recognition, unable to distinguish their faces.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing beauty, but people wrongly define beauty.
Beauty is not only the image beauty we see, because the judgment of beauty depends on a person's values, cognitive ability and his growth environment.
Therefore, beauty is not only the external beauty seen in the eyes of the child, but also the correct values brought to the child by the parents, but this is particularly important.
Yang Guifei is beautiful, but what is left for us to know? Besides Bai Juyi, li bai wrote poems about her, what else can you think of?
Deng Yingchao is the wife of Premier Zhou, and she is not very pretty, but she is a beautiful woman because her heart is very beautiful.
When Premier Zhou wanted to invite the marshal to dinner, Deng Yingchao directly took out his salary and handed it to the premier, telling him that he must let the other party eat enough and not be scrupulous because of money.
When I saw this scene in the TV series, it not only made people feel unusually comfortable.
Because we accept too many foreign things, we forget our nation's judgment of beauty.
For today's society, this also applies.
What we see in beauty now should be self-confidence, heart, character, not just appearance.
Spicy Yoko, I don't know if anyone knows her.
The first time I saw this girl on TV was on a variety show at the Supernova Games. I was a little surprised at the time that she wasn't a beauty, and in some sense she didn't meet the criteria for a TV show, but the first impression she left was that she was super confident.
Just last year, I watched her participate in "Actors Please Take Place" and found that she was a very good actress, and it brought people her confidence.
Because of Yoko's performance in this show, I specifically searched for her on the Internet and found a video of her walking on the catwalk, small, slightly fat, small eyes and big mouth, but it was unusually attractive.
This is her unique beauty, I think it should be called confidence!
Not only her, Jin Jing is not a beauty in the traditional sense, but everyone likes her;
And Huang Bo, who does not look like a good person, he also makes everyone like him with his unique personality charm;
And the artists of the past, who did not fully conform to the popular aesthetic;
Those heroes who gave their lives for epidemic prevention, for the fight against disaster relief, and for the safety of people's lives, don't everyone call them the most beautiful people?
Beauty is our pursuit of beautiful things, which is very important.
But we need to convey the right beauty to the children, so that they have the eyes to truly discover beauty, but also to teach them not to be inferior and confidently pursue their ideals.
Little S's daughter, she has a pair of small eyes, but also a single eyelid. Of course, she is not the beautiful girl we define, but Xiao S teaches very well, she is very confident, it is her self-confidence, and she also walks the catwalk on the catwalk, showing the confident beauty of girls.
Whether it is an adult or a child, they should establish a correct outlook on life and values.
Appearance can not be a value label to judge a person's good or bad, only as a plus, parents should tell their children the correct criteria for judging.
Whether you look beautiful or ugly, this is a gift from Heaven.
Beauty cannot become pride, it cannot become capital; ugliness cannot be an excuse for inferiority and discouragement.
Children now need such a correct value orientation, parents as the child's first teacher, but also the teacher who has the greatest influence on the child, must set a good example.
Just like the song sings: The teenager has his own juvenile madness, like a mountain and a river with a strong backbone, dare to measure the sun and the moon again, and now I am the only young man. Dare to ask the heavens and the earth to test the sharp edge, who can stop the thorns, the world laughs at me and I am self-reliant.
A good "the world laughs at me and I am self-reliant", this is Liang Qichao's "Young China Says" written in modern times, this is the spirit that teenagers should have, and this should be the faith of our nation.