A friend has worked hard in the Internet industry for 7 years, encountered a career development bottleneck, the first is the limited space for growth, the second is that he is very confused, although he also has the idea of entrepreneurship, but he is afraid of entrepreneurial failure jokes, worried about finding a job is not as good as now, tangled is to continue in the comfort zone or go out to break in, but more look forward to having a career of their own and success.
If there is a gap between your current life and the life you want, and you also have the need for self-growth, but you think that your ability is limited and you are afraid of failure, you may wish to read the book "Infinite Possibilities", which has been recommended by more than 30 medical experts, scientists and intellectual elites such as Yang Bin, professor of Tsinghua University, Wan Weigang, science writer Wan Weigang, "the world's strongest brain", Tesla CEO Musk, and Stan Lee, the father of Marvel, etc. To provide you with method guidance for rapid learning and life advancement, helping you realize your life ideals.
The book points out that creating the infinity of life may require three conditions: the first is the mode of thinking, the second is the internal motivation, and the third is the way and method. Thinking mode is a prerequisite, because our behavior is driven by beliefs, so if we want to create the infinite possibilities of life, we first need to change our thinking mode.
Life faces many opportunities and challenges, not because of inability, nor in lack of intelligence, but because thinking is limited. Our creativity, imagination, determination, or our ability to think and learn are all boundless, and there is no upper limit to the potential that can be exerted.
1) Everyone has the conditions to become a genius
Theoretical physicist Michio Kakai said that the human brain has 100 billion neurons, and each neuron is connected to 10,000 other neurons. It can generate as many as 7W ideas a day, it runs as fast as the fastest race car per hour, and the brain processes much faster than any computer, with an almost unlimited storage capacity. At the same time, our brains can also be changed and shaped according to the surrounding environment and our requirements for it, so that each of us has the conditions to become a genius.
The author of this book, Jim Quake, is a real case, he once had an accident in kindergarten, his brain was damaged, he encountered obstacles in listening, speaking, reading and writing, teachers and classmates felt that his brain was broken, like a fool, so he often laughed at him, and learning became a painful thing for him.
But instead of giving up on himself because of the recognized "intellectual" obstacles, he overcame the difficulty of learning, and has been studying how to learn in a more efficient and happy way for so many years, and now he is a world-class recognized learning expert. He wrote this book to prove to you that you can be whoever you want to be, do whatever you want, have and share anything without any constraints.
Genius is not innate, but requires continuous practice to achieve, identify yourself as a genius, you will work in that direction, which is also the positive thinking mode to bring to yourself. We all have the ability and the right to pursue what we want to be, to create infinite possibilities, starting with breaking the restrictive mindset!
2, there is a lie called "making a mistake equals failure"
Our thinking patterns are influenced by our families, the people around us, and the experiences we have grown up with, and many times "I don't dare", "I won't", "I can't" are all limited by thinking and cognition. From birth to now, we still receive such an education, you study so poorly, it is impossible to become a subject expert, you are really not this piece of material, how did you make mistakes and so on such negative and questionable words, others think that you do wrong is failure, is not OK.
When I first entered the workplace, in a training class, the training teacher randomly selected several representatives to share on the stage, when I stood on the stage to face my colleagues, my head was buzzing, and incoherent, very nervous, back to the seat after the brain is blank, do not know what I said. After that, I did not dare to participate in speech contests and competitive speeches, because I felt that my expression ability was not good, and I was not suitable for public speaking, so that I missed several opportunities to show myself and promote.
Many times, we don't think of making mistakes as a method, but as a tool to measure ability. When doing something, you hit and question yourself, it seems like a trivial matter, in fact, the information conveyed has affected the overall judgment of your life. Most people frequently accept such information, have no choice but to believe it, and it will make us stagnate or even go astray.
There is a lie called "making mistakes equals failure", because of the fear of making mistakes, it is used as a reason to deny themselves; because of the fear of failure, they suppress their own potential. But this is not the case, mistakes do not mean failure, can not learn from mistakes, is the biggest failure. Constantly analyzing and summarizing past mistakes and mistakes can better guide the next practice and can also help you improve yourself.
3. Face the facts and shut up restrictive thinking
Most people choose to avoid pain more than to pursue pleasure, which is also an instinctive reaction of people, it is easy to avoid one thing, but it is difficult to face difficulties and challenges. But in the process of creating the life you want, there is no smooth sailing, you will face a lot of difficult things, if you do not try, do not accept, I am afraid that the opportunity will be missed. And most of the time, a lot of restrictive thinking is nonsense, but it affects our emotions, let us fall into self-denial, it is better to face it directly in the moment, what ideas to implement, mistakes to correct, think about how to be better.
Is it really not possible to talk about public speaking? What evidence is there to prove that this is not possible? How many times have you actually spoken in public? Was there a blast after the speech? Have you been fired directly from the leadership? I'm afraid none of this has happened. For Xiao Bai, facing the task of public speaking, it is true that he is not very good at it at the moment, but I can't do it, and there is no factual basis for me to do it.
This situation is completely their own inner voice of denial and doubt at work, but it is also their own true voice, can not escape, it is better to face it directly, you can try this method: once the voice of "you can't do it" appears in your head, or find yourself always thinking "I always mess up this kind of thing", try to extract it as an independent role, when it appears, you laugh at it for only output negative energy, while refuting it "I used to be not good at this thing, It doesn't mean that I can't do this well now" "You still save it, don't nag", let the voice that restricts your thoughts shut up.
This method is to let us face the facts, break the restrictive thinking, and at the same time let the positive thinking appear, and overcome the beliefs that hinder us, and there will be different results. Maybe after your careful preparation, your audience listened to your speech, felt very infectious, took a lot of notes, and was greatly inspired.
4, positive thinking mode to create unlimited possibilities
People with restrictive thinking patterns often think that this is the only way things can be, and that we have no ability to change the status quo. The positive mindset holds that we have the ability to improve anything, and that we can be improved through personal effort and perseverance. When we are in a positive mode of thinking, we must be full of positive emotions, so that our inner voices of denial and doubt are no longer restless, and we also open up a world full of possibilities.
Although the task of public speaking is very difficult for Xiao Bai, this matter can certainly be done well. With such a positive attitude, let us no longer immerse ourselves in negative emotions, but think of various ways to learn speech skills, find the guidance of the tutor, repeat the practice, and find more opportunities to exercise ourselves, which not only expands the scope of our attention to things, but also enhances psychological resilience, harvesting not only a speech skill, but also self-growth.
Positive thinking patterns can create infinite possibilities for you, there may be many things that you have not done before, or it is difficult to do before, but the positive thinking you know that your future is absolutely different from your past, as long as you make up your mind, you can master any skills you want to master, when faced with great pressure, not discouraged, but proud of your excellent performance.
When you are young, you will always ask others for advice, want to get the support and approval of others, but no matter what you do, there will be people who question you and criticize you, if you listen to the advice of others, then his criticism is also worth listening to; if they can't provide you with pertinent advice, you can completely ignore their criticism, including yourself. One day, it doesn't matter what other people's opinions or your fears are, and don't let other people's opinions and expectations sway you.
Our complex brain can make us have the conditions to become geniuses, what we need to do is to break the restrictive thinking, abandon those wrong assumptions and prejudgments, break through the imprisoned ideological barriers, face the facts without escaping from mistakes, use positive thinking patterns and positive emotions, and make up your mind to create infinite possibilities in life and release your inner genius.
By reading this book "Infinite Possibilities", you will take a solid step, when you take a step, you will have the road to embark on the "hero's journey", but also have a road map, I believe that you can solve the puzzle in your heart, live out what you want, set sail for you to realize the dream in your heart, and create a life of infinite possibilities.