Everyone's heart has a softness, this softness is hidden in the deepest part of the heart, deep to the unfathomable, so deep that outsiders can not detect to the slightest, even they only have to empty their minds in the dead of night, sink into the bottom of their hearts, carefully touch it, but every touch will make their hearts flutter a little, the frequency of this trembling, really familiar, but also strange. Every time you touch it, it blurs for a minute until you can no longer feel its presence. Time is a very powerful thing, it will quietly whisk away the world in your heart, and slowly peel it off from the bottom of your heart.
Before, I was curious about the old people sitting at the entrance of the alley, sitting in a corner for a day. Until one day I understood that all I could see was a memory; what I thought was the past; what I saw was regret. Maybe until one day, you or I will sit in one of your own corners, looking at the bustle of the street, and suddenly a word, a person, or something that is happening will evoke endless thoughts. Then he fell into the endless abyss, meditating for a long time and not being able to return to God.
Missing is a kind of pain, and missing is a kind of suffering, and the past is a shadow that cannot be shaken away, but the heart cannot be this pain and suffering. Thoughts are a disease that can be cured, but may not be cured.
It is said that time and new love are good medicines for forgetting a person and being able to start over, which one do you like.
Time will make you slowly forget the bits and pieces of the past, and eventually all the unforgettable hearts will be buried in the memory.
New love will make you withdraw from pain and loneliness, and new landscapes and new people can more or less fill the gap of your lost love.
But in this world, time and new love are never a good medicine for forgetting a relationship: really loved, there is no medicine to save! A person, once really in love with a person, that person becomes her (his) obsession for a lifetime, which will not be forgotten for a lifetime. If you can really forget the people you once loved, then there is only one explanation: the love you once loved is not deep enough! If you have really loved, there is no cure!
Life, there are too many helpless, we can only do, just slowly march, grow, and then struggle, time will eventually give the answer.
It is possible to walk along, and suddenly one day you will find that you will still think of the person you once loved vigorously in a casual moment, but there is no longer the pain of tearing your heart and lungs. It turned out that he who originally felt that he could not or could not be lacking in life was not so important.
Like a sunflower, try to smile towards the sun. Many times, our unforgettable memories, but others have long forgotten, rather than entangled in the heart, it is better to look down, look down. It doesn't matter who you were ten years ago, who you were a year ago, or even who you were yesterday, what matters is who you are today and who you will be tomorrow.
So, come on.