There is an old Chinese saying that "three years old is eighty, and seven years old looks for life."
Psychological studies have also shown that people's personality is stereotyped between the ages of 3 and 7 in children.
Therefore, it is very important to cultivate a child's good character quality from an early age, which will directly affect the fate of his life, and the so-called character determines the fate.
After watching the latest issue of "My Little Tail 2", there is a clip that is profound:
When the 4 brothers and sisters ate and chatted together, Wang Ruihan complained that his sister's heart was too clingy, so that his own things were not done, and let her rain for so long.
Holding his sister Simi in one hand, Deng Zeming, who was eating, asked the eldest brother Nie Zening for advice, asking him how to train his sister An An, can he be so obedient?
Nie Zening shared her own experience of "training sisters": When An An ate, she never showed her cartoons; if she made trouble, she would not be given food, let her be hungry; clearly told her that as long as she left the table, she could not eat; she was hungry once or twice, she understood, and she would develop the habit of eating at the dinner table.
Wang Ruihan couldn't help but say "so fierce", but he had to obey, saying that he wanted his parents to learn to do it.
Deng Zeming said that at home, his parents had to chase and feed his sister.
Whether it is coaxing to eat, watching TV while eating, or playing with things while eating, or adults chasing and feeding, I believe that most families feed children in real scenes.
In particular, many families are the elderly with children, and the elderly are spoiled by the children, and they are trying to coax the children to eat.
In this way, it is easy to develop a naughty and wayward side of children, and it is difficult to correct in the long run.
An An's tutoring is completely different, it is simply textbook: An An, who is less than two years old, can recite poems and ski and push slopes, his mind and limbs are beyond that of children of the same age, Nie Zening is also very good at guiding his sister, and his sister's education is a silent edutainment.
The older brother is not only "fierce", but also encourages, follows the good temptation, and more importantly, the brother and sister communicate on an equal footing.
The age difference between Nie Zening and his sister is 25 years old, and An An is only 2 years old, but Nie Zening never "deceives the small with a big" and asks his sister to do things in an imperative tone, but does not tire of communicating more, changing his thinking more, and making An Xin happy and willing to do things.
For example, when the brother and sister were alone at the beginning, seeing that An An would be shy when he saw strangers, he did not dare to open his mouth, Nie Zening deliberately took his sister to the supermarket, in order to encourage An An to communicate with strangers, Nie Zening tried several methods, but none of them worked.
Until I saw that the supermarket had a tasting steak, An An, who was attracted by the aroma of meat and drooled, could not resist the temptation of food, and finally under the guidance of his brother, he said "thank you uncle".
It was another stall to try to eat fish steaks, this time An An took the initiative to open his mouth, and his brother hit the iron while it was hot, and guided her to ask her aunt where the pasta was?
With the encouragement of his brother, the communication became smoother and smoother after that, and every time he bought a product, his brother seized the opportunity to let his sister talk more, and even An An himself took the initiative to communicate with people.
A little girl who is only 2 years old porcelain doll-like, but can cutely say praise words such as "thank you aunt", "aunt you have worked hard", "you are so beautiful", who is not cured?
After returning home, Nie Zening and her sister shared today's shopping results together, praising her for daring to ask for directions in order to buy so many good things, and it was the two of them who completed today's task together.
When her brother helped her wash her apples, An An suddenly said, "Wow, wow, you are such a little expert!" "She was almost overwhelmed, my brother was very surprised, and my sister was really amazing."
Whoever said that bringing a child is only tired, when you open a door for her, she will also open a window for you.
Not only that, An An also rolled up his sleeves and used his young little hands to help his brother wash vegetables and wash dishes, even though the sleeves were wet.
Her brother also warmly encouraged her, while blaming himself for not helping her roll up her sleeves instead of blaming his sister.
When it was time to eat, An An took the initiative to share the food for his brother to eat.
When An An was almost full, the brother did another review, praised his sister again for being great today, and completed the task of shopping in the supermarket with his brother, and the two touched each other's fists twice, encouraging and thanking each other, which is a unique way of communication between them.
Seeing that the brothers and sisters who are different in age enough to be father and daughter communicate on an equal footing, even the guest Wang Sutaki is envious and bluntly says that he wants to have such a brother.
As a netizen commented: There are no bad children, only adults who have no patience and do not understand the method.
The 27-year-old Nie Zening is simply the perfect brother, and the 2-year-old An An is also well-behaved and sensible, and the relationship between the two is a textbook.
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